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 Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 3:58 pm
the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one
women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything
(except maybe the cinnamon challenge)
a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing.
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 2:47 am
Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight Corian Wornen What I notice first is what any guy will notice first, and that's her appearance. How she presents herself, what she wears, how much she wears (both clothing and make up wise, can't have to much). Also the basic shape of her body, I can't stand a girl who's ridiculously thin. Now when it comes to what I like about a girl it's easily her personality and mental state. I hate girls that try to be media perfect. If they have mental tweaks it's even better. But she needs to be her self, not what others expect of them. ... pointing out something. this is neither true nor helpfull. socially standardized generalizations about what a given classification of person (be it based on race, gender, religion, wealth, sexuality, anything) only make life harder for anyone who is different than the societally "correct" standard. i find it ironic that you say that you want someone who is so not the societal norm, and not being what others expect of her... when your post is reinforcing the idea that any member of a general classification all think alike. i also am a little entertained by the fact that all of your desires are cliche statements that even the very society i am talking about uses all over the place and trie sto standardize (another irony). the only real point i am making here is that i want to point it out while i have the opportunity, and consequences be damned! xd i spread awareness like rats spread the Black Plague! =w= anywho, carry on. ^.^ heart All he said is that it was what any guy would notice first. Unless you're blind or choose to always look the other way when you're talking to a girl, their appearance is going to be the first thing you notice. Also online relationships don't count because until you meet in person, there's no way to tell whether you're really talking to a girl or not. OP asked 2 questions: What do you find most attractive What do you notice first They are 2 different questions that had 2 different answers so I don't really see what your point here is. if that's so, then it's still a vague opening answer. my point was to showcase something i saw. others can take it how they will. It's vague because it's a simple idea. When you see someone, what is the first thing you notice? Their appearance. Whether it be how they dress, what they look like, their ethnicity, etc. You are not automatically going to know what kind of person they are just by looking at them. Doing so is called prejudice. As for your initial response to him, I don't see how stating that appearance as the first thing anyone notices is stating or even implying that he is "reinforcing an idea that a member of a general classification think alike". The average person (person not just guy) who isn't blind and has a memory span of more than a few weeks will notice appearance first. And after all he did specifically state a distinction between what he notices first and what he likes most about a girl. Also looking back on all previous posts, there is only one (even vaguer post) that mentions nothing about outward appearance but I attribute that to laziness and thus should be counted as an outlier statistically. you realy arn't gettng it at all? confused i thought i was being clear as day. look, i bolded it. it's not the appearance thing i'm talking about, it's that he said it's what "any guy would notice first". to say things like that reinforces teh idea that you can lump people into classifications based on race or gender or sexuality or religion, and say they all think or act alike. and then i went on to point out hypocracies or inconsistencies that i noticed. i saw a chance to use an example to enlighten people to this kinda thing. it's not that i have a problem with his answer, it's that i want people to be more aware of what they say and mean, and what gets said and done around them. A big but on that one. He said appearance. Nothing about race, gender, sexuality, etc. It was a very broad term that encompasses all within the norm. It's the equivalent of me calling a Colt .45 a pistol. Are you going to get on me and say "No you can't call it a pistol because you're assuming that all Colt .45s are pistols when one could theoretically be built just like a rifle with a barrel extension and a stock addition." No you're not. Because the chances of a Colt .45 being built in any way other than a pistol in this current time period are very slim just as the chances of finding a blind person who can't notice appearance first online would be very slim. Admittedly he said "what all guys would notice first" when he could have said "what all people notice first" but the thread title was clearly directed towards guys only so using that rule of thumb, the assumption that all people replying to the post being all guys makes perfect sense.
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 2:49 am
Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive.
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 9:29 pm
maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi All he said is that it was what any guy would notice first. Unless you're blind or choose to always look the other way when you're talking to a girl, their appearance is going to be the first thing you notice. Also online relationships don't count because until you meet in person, there's no way to tell whether you're really talking to a girl or not. OP asked 2 questions: What do you find most attractive What do you notice first They are 2 different questions that had 2 different answers so I don't really see what your point here is. if that's so, then it's still a vague opening answer. my point was to showcase something i saw. others can take it how they will. It's vague because it's a simple idea. When you see someone, what is the first thing you notice? Their appearance. Whether it be how they dress, what they look like, their ethnicity, etc. You are not automatically going to know what kind of person they are just by looking at them. Doing so is called prejudice. As for your initial response to him, I don't see how stating that appearance as the first thing anyone notices is stating or even implying that he is "reinforcing an idea that a member of a general classification think alike". The average person (person not just guy) who isn't blind and has a memory span of more than a few weeks will notice appearance first. And after all he did specifically state a distinction between what he notices first and what he likes most about a girl. Also looking back on all previous posts, there is only one (even vaguer post) that mentions nothing about outward appearance but I attribute that to laziness and thus should be counted as an outlier statistically. you realy arn't gettng it at all? confused i thought i was being clear as day. look, i bolded it. it's not the appearance thing i'm talking about, it's that he said it's what "any guy would notice first". to say things like that reinforces teh idea that you can lump people into classifications based on race or gender or sexuality or religion, and say they all think or act alike. and then i went on to point out hypocracies or inconsistencies that i noticed. i saw a chance to use an example to enlighten people to this kinda thing. it's not that i have a problem with his answer, it's that i want people to be more aware of what they say and mean, and what gets said and done around them. A big but on that one. He said appearance. Nothing about race, gender, sexuality, etc. It was a very broad term that encompasses all within the norm. It's the equivalent of me calling a Colt .45 a pistol. Are you going to get on me and say "No you can't call it a pistol because you're assuming that all Colt .45s are pistols when one could theoretically be built just like a rifle with a barrel extension and a stock addition." No you're not. Because the chances of a Colt .45 being built in any way other than a pistol in this current time period are very slim just as the chances of finding a blind person who can't notice appearance first online would be very slim. Admittedly he said "what all guys would notice first" when he could have said "what all people notice first" but the thread title was clearly directed towards guys only so using that rule of thumb, the assumption that all people replying to the post being all guys makes perfect sense. :sighs.: xp no. that's not it. you don't get what i'm saying. my subject is not the word "appearance", at all.
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 9:33 pm
maui boy no ka oi Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive. that's because in animals the boys have to impress the girls.
Our culture it's more the girls showing off for the boys than anything else.
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 9:37 pm
WhiteWingtip maui boy no ka oi Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive. that's because in animals the boys have to impress the girls.
Our culture it's more the girls showing off for the boys than anything else. mhm.
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 10:42 pm
WhiteWingtip maui boy no ka oi Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive. that's because in animals the boys have to impress the girls.
Our culture it's more the girls showing off for the boys than anything else. So guys evolved into less attractive beings with girls evolving into more attractive beings because humans were like "screw you guys we're doing things our way"?
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 11:56 pm
Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi All he said is that it was what any guy would notice first. Unless you're blind or choose to always look the other way when you're talking to a girl, their appearance is going to be the first thing you notice. Also online relationships don't count because until you meet in person, there's no way to tell whether you're really talking to a girl or not. OP asked 2 questions: What do you find most attractive What do you notice first They are 2 different questions that had 2 different answers so I don't really see what your point here is. if that's so, then it's still a vague opening answer. my point was to showcase something i saw. others can take it how they will. It's vague because it's a simple idea. When you see someone, what is the first thing you notice? Their appearance. Whether it be how they dress, what they look like, their ethnicity, etc. You are not automatically going to know what kind of person they are just by looking at them. Doing so is called prejudice. As for your initial response to him, I don't see how stating that appearance as the first thing anyone notices is stating or even implying that he is "reinforcing an idea that a member of a general classification think alike". The average person (person not just guy) who isn't blind and has a memory span of more than a few weeks will notice appearance first. And after all he did specifically state a distinction between what he notices first and what he likes most about a girl. Also looking back on all previous posts, there is only one (even vaguer post) that mentions nothing about outward appearance but I attribute that to laziness and thus should be counted as an outlier statistically. you realy arn't gettng it at all? confused i thought i was being clear as day. look, i bolded it. it's not the appearance thing i'm talking about, it's that he said it's what "any guy would notice first". to say things like that reinforces teh idea that you can lump people into classifications based on race or gender or sexuality or religion, and say they all think or act alike. and then i went on to point out hypocracies or inconsistencies that i noticed. i saw a chance to use an example to enlighten people to this kinda thing. it's not that i have a problem with his answer, it's that i want people to be more aware of what they say and mean, and what gets said and done around them. A big but on that one. He said appearance. Nothing about race, gender, sexuality, etc. It was a very broad term that encompasses all within the norm. It's the equivalent of me calling a Colt .45 a pistol. Are you going to get on me and say "No you can't call it a pistol because you're assuming that all Colt .45s are pistols when one could theoretically be built just like a rifle with a barrel extension and a stock addition." No you're not. Because the chances of a Colt .45 being built in any way other than a pistol in this current time period are very slim just as the chances of finding a blind person who can't notice appearance first online would be very slim. Admittedly he said "what all guys would notice first" when he could have said "what all people notice first" but the thread title was clearly directed towards guys only so using that rule of thumb, the assumption that all people replying to the post being all guys makes perfect sense. :sighs.: xp no. that's not it. you don't get what i'm saying. my subject is not the word "appearance", at all. I know it wasn't. But what I was pointing out was that you were ignoring the part that made it acceptable. It's like work. Are you going to go up to your boss and say "I don't wanna do this work. It's boring and all I do is sit at a desk shuffling papers all day". Your boss replies "But you're making $35/hour at this job." and you reply "The pay was not my point at all. It was that my job isn't fun." It's not a matter of a single thing that is presented but the presentation as a whole. When you start to dissect and isolate only certain portions to point out their faults it's no different than how people in real life dissect and isolate certain types of people based on their age, gender, sex, religion, etc. to find their faults.
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Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 12:21 am
maui boy no ka oi WhiteWingtip maui boy no ka oi Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive. that's because in animals the boys have to impress the girls.
Our culture it's more the girls showing off for the boys than anything else. So guys evolved into less attractive beings with girls evolving into more attractive beings because humans were like "screw you guys we're doing things our way"? yeah that sounds about right
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Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:34 am
Vaan_Lohengrin women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing.
I CONCUR! XD
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Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:35 am
maui boy no ka oi Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive.
Wowww,
most awkward post in Burn EVER!
rofl
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Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:53 am
elyzia maui boy no ka oi Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive.
Wowww,
most awkward post in Burn EVER!
rofl
i think there has been worse
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2010 11:48 am
maui boy no ka oi What do I notice first? Usually tits.
Best answer blaugh
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2010 11:52 am
Chieftain Twilight usually Chins and Necks catch my attention first, unless she wears cloths that accentuate her T&A, which many on campus do... but yeh, i have a thing for exposed Throats, and for Neck-Jewelry. whee i'm also a total sucker for Cute, Submissive girls.... sweatdrop i know it's frowned upon publically, and encouraged by media society, but i admit (Proudly even) that i am a Predator. this is part of why i like Fat Girls so much! whee heart they try extra hard to be girly, and by girly i mean societally stigmatized "girly", meaning submissive and cute. and their general low self-esteem increases their submissive nature. mrgreen also, as far as the Sex goes, it's true when they say there's More to Love. ^///^ it's so perfect.... 
Okay, I take my previous post back... THIS is the best answer!
Honesty is certainly not always the best policy, but it's sure as hell refreshing sometimes! heart
&, Chief, you'll make a fat girl a very, very happy woman one day. Hell, forget that, you'll make MANY a fat girl very happy woman, on many days! blaugh
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2010 12:14 pm
maui boy no ka oi WhiteWingtip maui boy no ka oi Vaan_Lohengrin the stomach part under the belly button is very sexy. then there is that whole thing of creating life gotta give you kudos on that one women are inherently beautiful and can be beautiful doing anything (except maybe the cinnamon challenge) a goal for men is to love every part not zero in on one thing. Which is very ironic because in practically every other type of animal the male is the more beautiful with the female being the more dull/unattractive. that's because in animals the boys have to impress the girls.
Our culture it's more the girls showing off for the boys than anything else. So guys evolved into less attractive beings with girls evolving into more attractive beings because humans were like "screw you guys we're doing things our way"? No, actually in a very remote culture I learned about in psyc. things are still sort of that way. The men are really emotional and cry at funerals, but the females are very stoic and if they show anything but indifference, or anger, they are deemed very unfeminine. In that same culture, I think once a year the elegible men wear headdresses and put on jewlery. They strut around in a circle and the women pick which one they want to have for a husband.
I thought that was kind of neat how it's so opposite there.
And it's not that we automatically said "Hey let's do it this way", but it's more like our cultures evolved to treasure more attractive women. Those women that survived then to reproduce were slightly more attractice than the last, and generally the most attractice daughters were more sought after in male-dominated societies.
In the wild, it's usually ALL depended on the females.
They choose who THEY WANT to have THEIR babies.
And look at the lioness, for example. The male lion, all he does, is protect the pride from other males and help make babies. The lionesses hunt for their pride, raise and train their cubs, not to mention beign pregnant, and the defend the pride from the other animals that could hurt their cubs or other members.
What do the other males want when the confront the main male lion?
The females.
Why?
I think I've said that male lions usually don't partake in the hunt. Bit of an easy life with females running things.
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