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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 4:39 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 11:56 pm
I am in it now
and I have been in it twice for sure. Maybe three times. Not suuure I really believe I was in love back then though.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 2:55 pm
Addykat I have been in it twice for sure. This. That whole "you only fall in love once!" thing is bullshit. Although granted, I don't think anything will ever be as strong as the first time.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 4:41 pm
marzipancakes Addykat I have been in it twice for sure. This. That whole "you only fall in love once!" thing is bullshit. Although granted, I don't think anything will ever be as strong as the first time. I'm on the fence about the "won't ever be as strong as the first time you fell in love" business. I think that when you fall, you always fall hard, no matter what. There's no particular measurement of its strength depending on what you learned from your last relationship and what you carry into the next. After all, love is love is love. X3 But I can see how that is something to consider.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 6:01 pm
Okay, let me rephrase: For me, I don't think anything will ever be as strong as the first time.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 6:22 pm
I was and I think I am again.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 10:24 pm
I'm with Cait on what you said, Mary. I understand you're saying just for you. My first love I did fall pretty hard for, and it was completely innocent. As in we respected each others' spaces more than necessary. No hand-holding or kissing or hugging. Nothing. I still love him now, but it wasn't meant to happen. He will always be my best friend. He's in college in England now, which I am jealousss.
As hard as I did fall for him I fell worse for Anjel. I've never fallen this hard. I'm a very selfish person and I never like to put people first. But I do for him. Any time I can, he is put first. Because I want to do anything I possibly can for him just to see him smile and be happy He means everything to me. :3 I opened up to him more than anyone and trust him more than anyone in my life. There's a lot to him; and to me he is perfect.
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 12:40 am
Ennica I'm with Cait on what you said, Mary. I understand you're saying just for you. My first love I did fall pretty hard for, and it was completely innocent. As in we respected each others' spaces more than necessary. No hand-holding or kissing or hugging. Nothing. I still love him now, but it wasn't meant to happen. He will always be my best friend. He's in college in England now, which I am jealousss. As hard as I did fall for him I fell worse for Anjel. I've never fallen this hard. I'm a very selfish person and I never like to put people first. But I do for him. Any time I can, he is put first. Because I want to do anything I possibly can for him just to see him smile and be happy He means everything to me. :3 I opened up to him more than anyone and trust him more than anyone in my life. There's a lot to him; and to me he is perfect.
... but he's mexican and eats cats... and his name is angel with a j. ;=;
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 7:19 am
Brass Knuckles Ennica I'm with Cait on what you said, Mary. I understand you're saying just for you. My first love I did fall pretty hard for, and it was completely innocent. As in we respected each others' spaces more than necessary. No hand-holding or kissing or hugging. Nothing. I still love him now, but it wasn't meant to happen. He will always be my best friend. He's in college in England now, which I am jealousss. As hard as I did fall for him I fell worse for Anjel. I've never fallen this hard. I'm a very selfish person and I never like to put people first. But I do for him. Any time I can, he is put first. Because I want to do anything I possibly can for him just to see him smile and be happy He means everything to me. :3 I opened up to him more than anyone and trust him more than anyone in my life. There's a lot to him; and to me he is perfect.
... but he's mexican and eats cats... and his name is angel with a j. ;=;I will train him not to eat cats. i_i
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 9:20 am
6 years and counting. heart
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 7:40 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 11, 2010 2:48 am
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Posted: Sun Sep 12, 2010 10:21 pm
LeRaven I was close once but nope.
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Posted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 2:20 pm
marzipancakes Okay, let me rephrase: For me, I don't think anything will ever be as strong as the first time. I don't quite agree with this (and not only because of that first douchebag), but I can also understand that mindset. idk. Everybody's different about love, too. Some people can stop loving, others can never stop - it may not be as strong but the love is always there! I am capable of falling out of love. I sorta feel like a bad person for it, too.
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Posted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 4:28 pm
I had a phase in high school where I liked a different guy every two weeks or so, to the point where I got sick of guys. It wasn't until I met my current boyfriend that I realized commitment is actually pretty awesome. I doubted/got scared of the seriousness of our relationship and broke up with him for a few days, but we got back together. I know we'll argue in the future, but that break up sort of helped us; our relationship is so much ******** stronger than it has ever been. It sort of broke down the wall that he had up this whole time, and it made me think more carefully before taking drastic decisions.
I don't know, if the love is strong enough and the love is there and active, then it will last for quite a long time. :3
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