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LibraryFairy11

PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:47 pm


yep they can be jerks but you gotta put up with them, bite your toung when you want to cuss them out, and hope for the best.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:49 pm


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@ twistedmx: Well, that makes sense.

@ Muffin: That's really sweet. :3
And thanks. Your advice helps.


...Thanks to your help.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:50 pm


LibraryFairy11
yep they can be jerks but you gotta put up with them, bite your toung when you want to cuss them out, and hope for the best.


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I don't have a problem cussing them out when they're being asses. xD


...Thanks to your help.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:53 pm


lol i guess thats true

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 3:05 pm


I hang around with boys when they let me. They don't anymore 'cause I'm not all that interested in sports, and I'm tiny and get picked on, so they're not interested in talking to me.
But as to getting them to notice you- why bother changing yourself? All you do by acting like someone else is get them interested in a nonexistent person.
Just wait- you'll get someone better for it.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 3:29 pm


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I hang around with boys when they let me. They don't anymore 'cause I'm not all that interested in sports, and I'm tiny and get picked on, so they're not interested in talking to me.
But as to getting them to notice you- why bother changing yourself? All you do by acting like someone else is get them interested in a nonexistent person.
Just wait- you'll get someone better for it.


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Being picked on comes with hanging out with boys. And thanks.


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Kaiyle Brightblade

PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 1:21 am


You just described my life. I'm gonna share what I figured out after I finally hooked up with an incredible guy after a long time being single. When you're one of the guys, they're not going to hit on you. Its not because you're unfeminine or because they don't like you, its because they respect you. You know how guys are the ones who are supposed to be doing the asking out? Well if you are one of the guys and you want to hook up with one of your guy friends, thats what you have to do. You can't do the usual subtle hints and flirting thing. They won't get it. You have to be direct and ask him out.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 9:48 pm


I've always loved being one of the guys. Heh.
And every time a girl that would want to become another one of the guys came along, I would get jealous and be like "STFU NOO."
It has its ups and downs.
All I can say is, never get romantically involved.
I got so hurt and torn from it.
NEVER let sex/"love"/passion/flings/retardedness get into your guy friend relationships. You'll get hurt, every time, 100% guarantee.




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Kaiyle Brightblade

PostPosted: Mon Apr 12, 2010 8:38 pm


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I've always loved being one of the guys. Heh.
And every time a girl that would want to become another one of the guys came along, I would get jealous and be like "STFU NOO."
It has its ups and downs.
All I can say is, never get romantically involved.
I got so hurt and torn from it.
NEVER let sex/"love"/passion/flings/retardedness get into your guy friend relationships. You'll get hurt, every time, 100% guarantee.




-Angel Monster
But shouldn't you date guys that you are friends with first? Its hard to form a lasting relationship when you jump right into it.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 3:50 pm


I find that being friends with them (I am too, but i get along with some girls) is a good thing. Should you date one, getting along with guys, its more likely to last. Plus, being their friend is almost better than being their girlfriend, because as a friend you see more of them I find.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 3:58 pm


bite your tongue ? Why would I do that? They would not learn anything that way!
PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 4:25 pm


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@ Kaiyle Brightblade: Oh, I'm way to shy to do that. I think I'm just going to wait until college. See how life works out after high school. Then, I might get the balls to ask someone out if I'm still single. Thanks for the advice though.

@ The Angel Monster: I get jealous kind of too. Like even of some of my guy friend's girlfriends. Because me and this one guy will just talk about the stupidest things ever, then his girlfriend hits him, and tells him not to be so stupid. So he'll talk to her instead. It irks the hell out of me. I'm not trying to steal him away or anything.

xXNeverWantedToDanceXx: You know, you're right. I am glad I have them as friends. And if that's all we're ever going to be, it's fine. At least I have really great friends.


...Thanks to your help.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 7:01 pm


I love being one of the guys. I have three girl friends, and like ten guy friends. I
went out with one of them, hated it.
Personally, I find going out with a guy friend just awkward.
And the week after I broke up with him was even more awkward,
because the guys just look at you differently.
But it's funny when you're in a pissy mood, or on your period,
and they go, "Dude, what's up with you?" and you just glare
and go, "I'm on my ******** period! Be happy you don't get one!"
and then they just kinda take a step back, and say, "Ew. Too much info! Gah..."
It makes you feel better.

It's funnier when you're with a girl friend, and start talking about bras, or guys,
or periods, or anything majorly female. Last time me and Ali did
that, all the guys started making faces and leaving. razz

Sorry..... anyways.....

I wouldn't worry about trying to get the guys to notice you.
It's easier to just be one of the guys, and wait for the guy
that notices you as you are. And being a friend to a guy is
better then a girlfriend. They tell you more, and you're able
to be more comfortable with all guys.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 3:50 pm


hay im wondering if being one of the guys is going better for yall cause i enjoyed it up to today, and well iv changed a few of my opinions tward my friends today.

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Kizume-Chan

PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 5:46 am


I'm half-way to your problem. I'm KINDA one of the guys because I don't act like a girly-girl. But I'm still afraid of some bugs and snakes. My best-friend, she gets a grin plastered on her face whenever I'm in girly clothing. Because it's rare site to see me in girly stuff. But the weird thing is that there's this other girl in class, whenever she has the chance, she teases this other guy (whom I have a hate/ friendship relationship with. Mostly hate though xD) that we look good together. ( Lies. We'll never be together. We're just bad friends who hate each other alot. But in a good way! xD It balances the Earth...)

ANYWAYS... back to your problem, I think that you should stick to being one of the guys because it's great to be one of them because you kinda get to know them better... in a weird way. But one rule, don't break this one EVER or you'll never have a chance with that guy. NEVER. ACT. LIKE. A. FAN-GIRL. Kay?

Good luck! =P
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