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 Posted: Tue Jul 06, 2010 8:57 am
The very first person I came out to has to be my very best friend Nicole (Aoyagi Ritsuka) We were chatting online and there was this guy i like, but i never felt that way so i told Her, and being her, she was like " biggrin " x3 but that was a time when i thought i was Bi in 08. I knew i was different since 5 grade, but couldn't put my finger on it.
Now, In febuary, i came out to my parents and my group of friends. i was doing a reaserch paper on gay marriage and my mum asked my why i chosed it. I had to say it right there in then, "Mum, Im gay." She starteed crying and hugged me and said she is very proud of me for that i camed out. (and this was a 5 months straight of think who i really am as a person). My dad on the other hand, he spazzed abit, he was a person who said "F**k them, they dont deserve anything" he still kinda like that right now, and it's kinda awkward to be around, but he understands, not fully but he understands.
My group of friends though, were all cool with it (cuz most of them are Bi or gay them selves with out me knowing xD wink So from the summer of what, 2006 or 2007 when i knew im different, Basiclly everyone i know and care about me, are cool with it smile <3
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Posted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 9:03 pm
i didnt come out, so much as my friends saw me kissing my bf, everybody said they knew that. w/e. but yeah, i told my mom close to a year ago. my brother knows but i didnt tell him. and he harrasses me about it. i kinda came out to my dad, but he doesnt really grasp the concept. but i dont plan on telling my family for a long while. actually the only way i paln on telling them is if i marry a guy
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Posted: Sat Aug 21, 2010 8:50 am
Yea coming out is always fun. For me I came out about 3-4 years ago to a good friend, who was also bi. Shes like "OMG I cant believe your bi." at the top of her lungs in the middle of class, so within a minute about 30 people knew and then it spread like a wildfire around the rest of the school. As far as my family goes, I think my brother knows and all my cousins know but not my parents. They are both Jehovah Witnesses and they would through a fit.
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Posted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 11:13 pm
Blind Ragdoll2010 It was weird for me to say that i was bi cause i was brought up to believe that there was no such thing. Only my friends know about it though. no way am i ever telling my family. they'd put me in years of therapy. =( but i'm glad that my friends know. it was around this time last year Your truest friends are your family. I have learned that from experience so technically part of your family already knows. They just aren't blood related biggrin
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Posted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 11:16 pm
destinydesignlabs Yea coming out is always fun. For me I came out about 3-4 years ago to a good friend, who was also bi. Shes like "OMG I cant believe your bi." at the top of her lungs in the middle of class, so within a minute about 30 people knew and then it spread like a wildfire around the rest of the school. As far as my family goes, I think my brother knows and all my cousins know but not my parents. They are both Jehovah Witnesses and they would through a fit. Sometimes it's best not to say anything to your blood family. The main reason why the majority of the school found out (before I was super open about being a lesbian) is being someone who I thought was my friend spread it to the football team and a bunch of them were like we don't like mother f*cking f*gs. Then they beat me up. Oh well.
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 5:39 pm
when i came out, i was in like third or forth grade when i was attracted to both guys and girls, but all my gal pals only like guys so i asked my mum i said "mummy all my girlyfriends like guys and all my guy friends like girls but why do i like both?" she laughed and said "you'll find out later in life," then i got to 7th grade and figured out what she ment. but my ntire family and alll myfriends and pals in school know so nooo biggy.
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 9:00 pm
GothicSnow822 when i came out, i was in like third or forth grade when i was attracted to both guys and girls, but all my gal pals only like guys so i asked my mum i said "mummy all my girlyfriends like guys and all my guy friends like girls but why do i like both?" she laughed and said "you'll find out later in life," then i got to 7th grade and figured out what she ment. but my ntire family and alll myfriends and pals in school know so nooo biggy. Interesting enough I figured out I liked girls back in the third grade. I just didn't really start thinking about it till middle school
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 9:25 pm
iRamenninja GothicSnow822 when i came out, i was in like third or forth grade when i was attracted to both guys and girls, but all my gal pals only like guys so i asked my mum i said "mummy all my girlyfriends like guys and all my guy friends like girls but why do i like both?" she laughed and said "you'll find out later in life," then i got to 7th grade and figured out what she ment. but my ntire family and alll myfriends and pals in school know so nooo biggy. Interesting enough I figured out I liked girls back in the third grade. I just didn't really start thinking about it till middle school i'm a pretty odd person haha
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 9:01 am
GothicSnow822 iRamenninja GothicSnow822 when i came out, i was in like third or forth grade when i was attracted to both guys and girls, but all my gal pals only like guys so i asked my mum i said "mummy all my girlyfriends like guys and all my guy friends like girls but why do i like both?" she laughed and said "you'll find out later in life," then i got to 7th grade and figured out what she ment. but my ntire family and alll myfriends and pals in school know so nooo biggy. Interesting enough I figured out I liked girls back in the third grade. I just didn't really start thinking about it till middle school i'm a pretty odd person haha So am I. Hey I have something in common with someone YAY!
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:24 pm
Hm... My bestie has been the first person to know about my sexual orientation.
She even told me she was pretty sure I was lesbian.
Then I talked about it to my gay friend when I started dating a girl but it quite surprised him. o_O
I was afraid to tell it to my mother even though I knew she's not homophobic or something, but since we're pretty close to each other, I didn't want to disappoint her or lose her.
I tried to make her understand I was in love with a girl but at first she didn't seem to realize it was real love... And one day she told me "but, do you mean you're in love with her or you love her in a 'friendly' way ?"
And I finally admitted I was in love. She was surprised and asked me "How can you be attracted to girls?"
I explained her my point of view, we talked about it a few times, but she doesn't seem to care.
She even encourages me! xd
When we're in town and I tell her I find a girl cute she's like "Well go and ask her her number, silly!!" xd
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 4:38 pm
iRamenninja GothicSnow822 iRamenninja GothicSnow822 when i came out, i was in like third or forth grade when i was attracted to both guys and girls, but all my gal pals only like guys so i asked my mum i said "mummy all my girlyfriends like guys and all my guy friends like girls but why do i like both?" she laughed and said "you'll find out later in life," then i got to 7th grade and figured out what she ment. but my ntire family and alll myfriends and pals in school know so nooo biggy. Interesting enough I figured out I liked girls back in the third grade. I just didn't really start thinking about it till middle school i'm a pretty odd person haha So am I. Hey I have something in common with someone YAY! haha odd pplz unite!!!! woot!
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 11:28 am
I told my mom, and she accepted. My dad, who deceased, was very happy o3o;;. My moms sister said it was a sin...like I care. My brother makes jokes ever since I told him. My sister was the first one I told, and knew. She was surprised cause I'm the first one in my family (both sides my mom and dad) to ever like girls. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Nov 27, 2010 8:05 pm
I didnt really come to the terms of being bisexual until I was a Junior in high school (now senior) and the first person I told was a really close friend of mine at the time and the my first girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) and dang was that a roller coaster. the secound person I came out to. well I'm not really sure it could be called coming out since my mom read about me finally admitting to myself that I was bi and lets just say that, that was a very awkard dinner. I think she was the one that kind of took it hard at first she always asked these stupid questions like are you sure it isn't a decision or Ausja one day your going to have to decide if you want to date just girls or just boys ugh that one made me want to just explode right in her face. But all is well now she's cool about it now. the two other people who found out I was Bi, was two friends of mine and they read a text that my girlfriend at the time had sent to me we were in a ldr aka long distance relationship. and she sent me a lets say not so approprate text to reply to on the bus redface but one of my friends reaction that day was hilarious.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 9:54 am
The first time I came out was to my best friend, Elfy (xFleur Du Malx) soon after my fifteenth birthday. I was telling her in tears that I was in love with her. The reason I was crying was because I was raised Christian (AG) and honestly believed I was going to hell for feeling that way (but it's a love I'd willingly go to hell for). xD She told me we could work something out. Five months later, we were dating. Still love her, but she's with a guy now... C'est la vie... I can wait. >w<
I told my friends at the beginning of junior year, when I was sixteen. What's funny is, I was all nervous about telling them, but we had a lesbian friend already, so they were just like, "cool" and didn't treat me differently. <3 I consider them my real family.
I told my parents and sister (big mistake!) September 6th of this year. I was tired of lying. My mother went berserk. She hit and screamed at me for well over an hour, then took my phone and threatened my girlfriend. My dad cried. My sister (who's eleven) just looked at me blankly. She probably still doesn't know what the word "lesbian" means. xD
So yeah, my blood family sucks a**, but I have an amazing support system of friends that keeps me going. <3 Proud to be an atheist and a lesbian. :3
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 7:55 pm
The first person that i came out(on monday) to was my friends ariana because all she did was ask me you bi and i was like i dont now what i am even though i did some stuff with a girl or i have been with a boy i really dont want to say that but yea i guess you can say that, then she was like ok nevermind then but she accepted me and the second person that i came out to today on my facebook inbox she was like: are you bi and i was like um why did you ask that and she said: that i like almost every status that she puts up about it and i was like i think i am because alot of weird stuff keeps happening to me and she was like: like? then i told her some of the stuff that has been happening in my life!
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