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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 7:47 pm

Welcome Bucky

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Aimi Ayumu

I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

Well, in some situations therapy can make it worse.
I say try it and if it's not working, try something else.

It depends on how comfortable you are with talking to others about what's happened to you. Though, I disagree with what Kiss me im Irish said, I feel that sometimes therapy can really be helpful, depending on how comfortable you are, and how the therapist works with you as well. I've just recently stopped going to therapy about two weeks ago, but I loved it while I was attending. Group sessions are always the best too... It's really helpful to hear about other people's struggles and how they overcome things that you're going through yourself. Not to mention, group therapy sessions is a great way to make new friends.

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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 4:42 pm

Welcome Bucky

Kiss me im lrish

Aimi Ayumu

I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

Well, in some situations therapy can make it worse.
I say try it and if it's not working, try something else.

It depends on how comfortable you are with talking to others about what's happened to you. Though, I disagree with what Kiss me im Irish said, I feel that sometimes therapy can really be helpful, depending on how comfortable you are, and how the therapist works with you as well. I've just recently stopped going to therapy about two weeks ago, but I loved it while I was attending. Group sessions are always the best too... It's really helpful to hear about other people's struggles and how they overcome things that you're going through yourself. Not to mention, group therapy sessions is a great way to make new friends.

stare I appreciate the opinion, I'm sure it was helpful for you. But you've got to put yourself into the shoes of other people. Example: Someone who was brutally raped, and has a hard time talking about it. Therefor making therapy seem very awkward and uncomfortable.

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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 7:25 pm

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Welcome Bucky

Kiss me im lrish

Aimi Ayumu

I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

Well, in some situations therapy can make it worse.
I say try it and if it's not working, try something else.

It depends on how comfortable you are with talking to others about what's happened to you. Though, I disagree with what Kiss me im Irish said, I feel that sometimes therapy can really be helpful, depending on how comfortable you are, and how the therapist works with you as well. I've just recently stopped going to therapy about two weeks ago, but I loved it while I was attending. Group sessions are always the best too... It's really helpful to hear about other people's struggles and how they overcome things that you're going through yourself. Not to mention, group therapy sessions is a great way to make new friends.

stare I appreciate the opinion, I'm sure it was helpful for you. But you've got to put yourself into the shoes of other people. Example: Someone who was brutally raped, and has a hard time talking about it. Therefor making therapy seem very awkward and uncomfortable.

Uhm... Right. You make it seem like I've been to therapy for no reason. I appreciate your opinion as well... However... I think I clearly stated earlier (I bolded it for you, because I'm nice.) That it all depends on how comfortable you are... I wasn't comfortable talking about it either... Especially not to complete strangers...
I have been raped too, and though I wouldn't say it was brutal, I still have physical scars from that night...
Not to sound bitchy, you just made it seem like I don't understand how she feels about trying therapy.

Edit: And what exactly do you mean by 'put myself in someone else's shoes'? Hell, I've been down that same road, I already know what it's like. :/

Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 7:59 pm

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Welcome Bucky

Kiss me im lrish

Aimi Ayumu

I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

Well, in some situations therapy can make it worse.
I say try it and if it's not working, try something else.

It depends on how comfortable you are with talking to others about what's happened to you. Though, I disagree with what Kiss me im Irish said, I feel that sometimes therapy can really be helpful, depending on how comfortable you are, and how the therapist works with you as well. I've just recently stopped going to therapy about two weeks ago, but I loved it while I was attending. Group sessions are always the best too... It's really helpful to hear about other people's struggles and how they overcome things that you're going through yourself. Not to mention, group therapy sessions is a great way to make new friends.

stare I appreciate the opinion, I'm sure it was helpful for you. But you've got to put yourself into the shoes of other people. Example: Someone who was brutally raped, and has a hard time talking about it. Therefor making therapy seem very awkward and uncomfortable.

but talking can help it feels awkward and uncomfortable first time it will get better

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Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 4:34 am

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Welcome Bucky

Kiss me im lrish

Aimi Ayumu

I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

Well, in some situations therapy can make it worse.
I say try it and if it's not working, try something else.

It depends on how comfortable you are with talking to others about what's happened to you. Though, I disagree with what Kiss me im Irish said, I feel that sometimes therapy can really be helpful, depending on how comfortable you are, and how the therapist works with you as well. I've just recently stopped going to therapy about two weeks ago, but I loved it while I was attending. Group sessions are always the best too... It's really helpful to hear about other people's struggles and how they overcome things that you're going through yourself. Not to mention, group therapy sessions is a great way to make new friends.

stare I appreciate the opinion, I'm sure it was helpful for you. But you've got to put yourself into the shoes of other people. Example: Someone who was brutally raped, and has a hard time talking about it. Therefor making therapy seem very awkward and uncomfortable.

but talking can help it feels awkward and uncomfortable first time it will get better

Good thing too, My first session of therapy begins next Thursday after school. I'm nervous. XD

Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:27 pm

Aimi Ayumu

Good thing too, My first session of therapy begins next Thursday after school. I'm nervous. XD

Well then,
I wish you luck.
And I hope you enjoy it there...
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Posted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 12:24 am

@Welcome bucky, , I didn't mean you didn't have any experience i meant you don't have the same traits as everyone. I'm glad you were able to successfully finish therapy and gain something from it. But there are women who have totally different traits.

Posted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 6:38 am

ok, now i'm really at the point where kiss me i'm irish really doesn't know anything about molestation.

i've seen other forums posts where he sounds like he doesn't care.

i don't want to sound like a d**k, but still, he doesn't know half the stuff that's going on

i've never been raped, and i know about...3/4 of what's going on

the only thing i don't know is like the pain of it.

and i never want to feel that pain

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Posted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 5:05 pm

Holy mikey250

ok, now i'm really at the point where kiss me i'm irish really doesn't know anything about molestation.

i've seen other forums posts where he sounds like he doesn't care.

i don't want to sound like a d**k, but still, he doesn't know half the stuff that's going on

i've never been raped, and i know about...3/4 of what's going on

the only thing i don't know is like the pain of it.

and i never want to feel that pain

he may not know but you don t have to be so rude. His job is to give advice and support his fellow members in their time of need. he speaks of what he knows even if it is not alot. so do not say anything rude or hurtful about your fellow members. We can ban you if you do.

Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 12:33 pm

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Holy mikey250

ok, now i'm really at the point where kiss me i'm irish really doesn't know anything about molestation.

i've seen other forums posts where he sounds like he doesn't care.

i don't want to sound like a d**k, but still, he doesn't know half the stuff that's going on

i've never been raped, and i know about...3/4 of what's going on

the only thing i don't know is like the pain of it.

and i never want to feel that pain

he may not know but you don t have to be so rude. His job is to give advice and support his fellow members in their time of need. he speaks of what he knows even if it is not alot. so do not say anything rude or hurtful about your fellow members. We can ban you if you do.

that was sort of rude. maybe it's just that he has a different way of seeing things. not saying I always agree with the dude, but still

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Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:47 pm

i Have a question to ask...
Why do People have to get hurt and all that bad stuff
But my point of asking a question is.
Do any of yall believe in God..?
....Why doesnt he do Somthin Bout it if he is true...
..Cuz i sorta dont ..v.v Sometimes i think he's real But then again i dont

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