Oh spiff. I think we have found the root of the problem. Your friend has no clue what they are talking about.
Yaknow what? That's okay. This guild is here to help people like you and her. Let's examine this shall we?
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its the first step to becoming pagan and after that you can offically consider yourself pagan and a witch
I'm assuming this is in reference to some kind of initiation or dedication.
Well, this is the first thing that's wrong. Being pagan is simply a function of not being part of an Abrahamic Faith.
Don't worship as part of the religions that descend from the practices of Muhammad, Yeshua or Moses? Congrats. You're pagan. Nothing more to it than that.
Second- being a witch is about practicing witchcraft. If you practice witchcraft, even though you belong to an Abrahamic faith, you're a witch. If you practice witchcraft and are a Pastafarian, you're a witch. If you practice witchcraft and you're an atheistic monist, you're a witch.
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the naming ceremony starts out with using a dagger to open the circle
Who is providing the name? Why are they doing it? Why are they working with a circle? Why use a dagger?
I get it. It's popular eclectic fashion to imitate the fertility cult. Fine. But do it in a thoughtful manner. If you don't know why you're running off to do something, stop and examine it.
Those questions above aren't rhetorical. I want to read your answers so we can further develop this discussion.
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the circle the place where all energies are delt with and where all atmosphere and magic is taken place
Are they under the impression that energy doesn't exist elsewhere or that magic cannot be done elsewhere?
This is why it is important that we examine these constructs. The Cult has it's reasons for doing what it does. It doesn't make sense to mimic them if you aren't doing what they are doing and have no other justification for it.
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its the place you are introduced to first as a pagan, you go in normal, you do your naming ceremony, and then you come out as a pagan witch
This, this is ******** insulting is what it is.
Pagans aren't normal? What the hell?
Why on earth is there no training before this rite?! For all you know they're going to walk you into the circle naked, blindfolded and tied up, flog your a** and kiss you where your bathing suit covers.
If you aren't prepared for that- if you have no training whatsoever- how on earth are you going to be in any position to experience the rite itself?
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threwout training you learn to deal with energies and spirtual forces
Yikes! I don't know what your friend thinks they're talking about, but I for the life of me wouldn't want anyone in any spiritual situation with me who can't understand basic applications of energy.
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opening up your 3rd eye so to speak
What's the source of this image? Are they lifting it from established Eastern traditions? Something else?
Oh gods. I get a sinking feeling reading this. What on earth do they mean race?
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and partaking in real life rituals
Ever attended a wedding? How about a birthday? Congrats, you have already partaken of real life rituals.
What religion were you raised with if any?
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and pagan holidays
one of the holidays she mentioned is yule witch is celebrated on December 24
Yule is a Norse Pagan holiday. It's on/around the 21st, not the 24th.
They really don't have a clue what they're talking about.
This is the kind of Fluff that leads to Mr. Darks.