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Ah, generalizations! If boobs are all a man is looking for in a woman, he deserves what he gets! The same goes for the ladies!

As the flattest of three sisters, I can tell you that there's more to the selection of a mate than that, thank goodness! I'm still the one that gets followed through the mall, even without the girls being with me. Hopefully, people let their brains kick in at some point really LOOK at what's important in a person. A beautiful body and nothing else is just sad.

I rarely wear them unless I'm wearing certain tops where I lift up my arms and you can see side boobage. XD

I HATE wearing them! They arez evulz!

If I DO feel the need to wear one, I wear a wife beater(I guess for us females they are technically tank-tops?) under my clothes.

It's also warmer in the winter/cooler in the summer than wearing a bra(and in the summer I can take off my top and still be respectable in public because my boobs are small*dances*)

not wear one. =P
There's nothing wrong w/going bra-less.
Through if you have the monies, you could always get a breast reduction(or if it's causing you back problems, you could prolly get one on the cheap from your insurance company)



One chick in my english class whispered to another asking why i hardly ever wear bras!!!! Why was she even looking!? o.0

It was weird!

besides, my boobs are small, they dun need to be cooped up in something so annoying!

I refused to get a real bra and wore a sports bra from the time I was 10 till 14 and then I would only wear a bra with out a wire. But now that the girls are a 40C, I wear an underwire and will not go out in public without a bra on. My girls require support and they get it any time I leave the house.

But I think if going bra less is what's comfortable for you, you should go for it. It's none of my business to know what's going on under your clothing.

ah, here's the problem, it hurts if i dont wear some sort of support, plus it kind of looks gross if i dont because of the sheer size of them, they go all the way down to my navel if im sitting, about halfway down my belly if im standing.

the second part has its own problems because i'm a nursing mom, i'd like to be able to retain my ability to lactate and unfortunately im not aware of any plastic surgeons that put function over asthetics. they will destroy the function of the breast to make it more visually appealing. i wouldnt mind a scar on the side if it meant not severing my milk ducts, but most of them put the scar on the edge of the areola to "blend in" but it cuts most (if not all) of the milk ducts.

But there's no harm in wearing a bra if that's what is comfortable, right? I mean, bras aren't particularly environmentally unfriendly so what's the big deal about wearing them if you like to wear them? Is it the whole feminism thing? I'd rather do and wear what makes me comfortable and happy whether it goes against society's mold or whether it fits right in. I've never liked having breasts and I've always tried to make them appear as nonexistent as possible, and I can't do that hanging loose.

I also don't buy the cancer argument but I'm not a doctor, so maybe it's true. Personally I'll take my chances because if it means putting up with chafing, stretch marks and unnecessary pain and discomfort, I'll take the bra and the added risk.


P.S. I'm posting this on a "large" day which is horrible and makes me feel unpleasant and irritable.

yes go look at ancient roman statues. thats how they winded up wearing only togas, and stuff....XD

those statues are based off average non deformed people.

and according to every sexual selection book you can find. fitness is a key factor, a fit person is a healthy person, have you ever seen an unhealhy looking athleite????

bruce lee was done in by head ach medicine......think about it.