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 Posted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 9:13 pm
itchyman24 remember your first kiss. that was special wasnt it? the first time someone has sex is special. why not share that special moment with the person you marry and make it even more special by having sex on your marriage night. it adds to the romance. Not really. We were 6 years old and hiding in a tire tunnel >.>;; As for romance... Yeah, first times are rarely romantic.
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Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:06 pm
Valheita itchyman24 remember your first kiss. that was special wasnt it? the first time someone has sex is special. why not share that special moment with the person you marry and make it even more special by having sex on your marriage night. it adds to the romance. Not really. We were 6 years old and hiding in a tire tunnel >.>;; As for romance... Yeah, first times are rarely romantic. special as in you'll remember it forever. and you do remember. and it depends on your definition of romance
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Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:22 pm
Having sex before marriage doesn't mean you won't be 100% committed.
It's like saying you can't fall in love until you're married either.
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Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:30 pm
I'd rather save the first of everything for the person that I will spend the rest of my life with... Why? Because I think that the first time you do anything with anyone is engraved in your memory. You'll remember some aspect of the first time with thing and for me if my first time isn't with someone I am going to be with, I'd feel rather guilty of not being faithful or something... Just because your married to someone doesn't mean that you'll be faithful... But to me, if you share your first time with the person you marry, you'll feel guilt and the memory of the first time if you cheat with someone else...
=w=... That's just me anyways... Doesn't feel right to just go run around doing everything with everyone... Not sure about my future partner... But that's just the way I feel...
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Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 8:26 pm
itchyman24 Valheita itchyman24 remember your first kiss. that was special wasnt it? the first time someone has sex is special. why not share that special moment with the person you marry and make it even more special by having sex on your marriage night. it adds to the romance. Not really. We were 6 years old and hiding in a tire tunnel >.>;; As for romance... Yeah, first times are rarely romantic. special as in you'll remember it forever. and you do remember. and it depends on your definition of romance I remember the first time I (almost) drowned too. neutral
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Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 9:15 pm
Sex changes a relationship and possibly lives. The hormone oxytocin is released which causes one to feel closer to someone, especially in women. It's a big deal.
I, for one, do not plan on having sex.
I don't support people having sex, period. It makes me extremely uncomfortable to know that people are doing it. If you were, I'd prefer you do it after you get out of my sight and worries about dating you, or frankly, knowing you.
I have also met a born-again Christian that has had sex before. I asked myself the same BS question. What kind of crap was he pulling out of his bumhole? Pretty sure he needed TP for it though.
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Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 1:55 am
Valheita itchyman24 Valheita itchyman24 remember your first kiss. that was special wasnt it? the first time someone has sex is special. why not share that special moment with the person you marry and make it even more special by having sex on your marriage night. it adds to the romance. Not really. We were 6 years old and hiding in a tire tunnel >.>;; As for romance... Yeah, first times are rarely romantic. special as in you'll remember it forever. and you do remember. and it depends on your definition of romance I remember the first time I (almost) drowned too. neutral ₲reen acid on your Ϩʞ↕и
You remember a lot of firsts, that doesn't make it super special or important. I think if people want to have sex with the person they really care about, no matter if the relation won't last in a month or whatever, they should be able to do it. It's a basic instinct. But, if you want to save and think it's going to be "special" then go for it. But honestly, the first time isn't special, it's just the first time and you choose to view it as special. You won't view it as special when you get a divorce 2 years later.
₣eels like you're dieing ΔɠΔ↕и
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Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 3:45 pm
From what I think usually based on the Bible stuff, the being virgin thing..Because your suppose to be pure till the night of your wedding day to the one you marry, give your virginity your spouse. It also goes along with it in a romantic sense if not also religion. But usually most people don't practice them unless they really trying to get into the their religion.
And besides...I don't like the wait till married to be sex because I might die tomorrow or the world might blow up tomorrow. Either way....I know when I die I don't want to die a virgin (Even though I am not xD )
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Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 8:58 pm
well not having sex befor marrig is being a good christen..i forgot y kinda something about u should have sex with some one u want to be forever not just for pleassure.losing ur vigenity(major spell error) is very special so it should be with someone u truey know you want to be with.for the rest of your live.
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Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 9:02 pm
u wana be a nun then? XD Flaratia Sex changes a relationship and possibly lives. The hormone oxytocin is released which causes one to feel closer to someone, especially in women. It's a big deal. I, for one, do not plan on having sex. I don't support people having sex, period. It makes me extremely uncomfortable to know that people are doing it. If you were, I'd prefer you do it after you get out of my sight and worries about dating you, or frankly, knowing you. I have also met a born-again Christian that has had sex before. I asked myself the same BS question. What kind of crap was he pulling out of his bumhole? Pretty sure he needed TP for it though.
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 2:09 pm
My opinion on this can be summed up in this neat little quote I found Quote: It's not premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married Life’s pretty good, and why wouldn’t it be?
I’m a pirate, after all.
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Posted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 6:22 pm
EDIT: I was half asleep when I typed this
but
Sex before marriage....
When it comes to sex I vowed to myself that I would lose my virginity to that special person, I do understand the whole spiritual bonding part and the memory that comes with it which is why I would have sex with the special person whether married or not I dont know to be completely honest
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Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 7:36 pm
I don't believe in sex before marriage. I learned it from the bible, but that's not why I still believe in abstaining until marriage*. There are two parts to sex - emotional and physical. Both men and women experience them, but to varying degrees. For men, sex mostly physical and for women, sex is a very emotional bonding process. Male or female, sex bonds people. It's not just about the act or the time that was spent together. Tons of chemicals are released the brain connections change and form. Dopamine, adrenaline, oxycontin, and a bunch of other chemicals are surging. Sex permanently changes your brain structure, and the first person you do it with changes it the most. If you do some research on it (not just google, actually scholarly databases), you'll find that there's a strong correlation between sexual activity and divorce rates. People who abstain until marriage are less likely to become divorced. It's not just religious figures who say this, either, I've read about it in a social psychology book by a very liberal author, whose name I can't remember for the life of me. There's some info here, although because it's on youtube, I don't know what the videos say, but it might give you a general idea. I'm not saying that if I love someone, but they're not a virgin, it's a deal breaker, but to me, it'd be a real plus if the girl I marry is a virgin as well. *By marriage, I include anything of the equivalent. Ceremony or documents. Making it "official," beyond "we're boyfriend/girlfriend" or "we're living together."
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Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:54 pm
CleoSombra I don't believe in sex before marriage. I learned it from the bible, but that's not why I still believe in abstaining until marriage*. There are two parts to sex - emotional and physical. Both men and women experience them, but to varying degrees. For men, sex mostly physical and for women, sex is a very emotional bonding process. Male or female, sex bonds people. It's not just about the act or the time that was spent together. Tons of chemicals are released the brain connections change and form. Dopamine, adrenaline, oxycontin, and a bunch of other chemicals are surging. Sex permanently changes your brain structure, and the first person you do it with changes it the most. If you do some research on it (not just google, actually scholarly databases), you'll find that there's a strong correlation between sexual activity and divorce rates. People who abstain until marriage are less likely to become divorced. It's not just religious figures who say this, either, I've read about it in a social psychology book by a very liberal author, whose name I can't remember for the life of me. There's some info here, although because it's on youtube, I don't know what the videos say, but it might give you a general idea. This pretty much sums up my views.
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Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:29 pm
I was going to post a comment on this, but then I realized I did... back in January. D: Necro?
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