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 Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 11:09 pm
had a bf and some gay experience in 5th grade. i was sure then and i dont regret it at all
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 5:33 pm
Well I cant say for sure but I can say though I am Bi-curious; I discovered this just last week when talking to one of my online friends, I told her about some of the various thoughts running around my head and after a while she determined that I was Bi, Im not entirely sure just yet but Im going to figure out soon
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Posted: Sun Apr 25, 2010 11:01 am
Lwantssugark Well I cant say for sure but I can say though I am Bi-curious; I discovered this just last week when talking to one of my online friends, I told her about some of the various thoughts running around my head and after a while she determined that I was Bi, Im not entirely sure just yet but Im going to figure out soon Now Im updating the story; it turns out I am Bi =P.I found out for sure when 2 things happend: 1: I watched a certain video with 2 guys and got excited 2: I noticed I keep staring at my friends crotch... A little bit weird but thats how I found out =P
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 9:52 pm
I think I've kind of always been this way. I always knew I was different than the rest of the people in family. I live in the south so my family is pretty Christian. Not the kind that actually go to church, but the kind that sit around mis-quoting the bible and telling everyone how wrong they are. So, I would always think and do things that I thought were wrong, and I always felt so bad about it. Sometimes, even now I get little thoughts in my head telling me there's something wrong with me. And when I was younger I don't think I even knew there was such a thing as gay. Then when I got older I started to figure stuff out. Me and my mom don't really talk about things, there's just kind of an unspoken understanding. Then I made a friend, and I found ou she was bi. Of course this opened my mind up, and after thinking about it I realized that I was bi.
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 10:56 pm
I've kinda always known I liked girls. I mean I always found myself wanting to touch their faces or staring at their boobs. But I still find guys attractive. I didn't want to realize I was bi, but I did when I fell in love with my current gilfriend.
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 3:35 pm
when i relized..hm well a the time I was bi so..when i was at a football game..and omg the cheerleaders...I couldnt get my eyes off either A the cheerleaders (omg the boobies!) or B the tuba guy (he was danceing like napoleon dynamite while playing the tuba! )
XD but for real it was about that time period I thought: ******** sure are super hot! and then I knew.
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Posted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 1:40 am
My first actual enjoyable gay experience (girls always used to come onto me and I hated it) was not that long ago.
My then-best-friend came to stay with me and it was always obvious that we liked each other in a more mature way, we used to sit on my bed together and watch movies and comedies and the like 3nodding Anyway, one night things got a little more heated than usual and we've been together for almost six months now xd And I love her very much 4laugh
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Posted: Mon Jul 12, 2010 2:43 pm
umm...well, when i was younger... me and my slightly older friend decided to kiss each other. closed mouth on the lips. i then suggested we do it again so we did. all i could think was it was really weird. her lips were so soft. all i could think was wow she has soft lips for like...ages. anyways. i was a total homophobe and i couldn't even stand the thought of two girls/2 guys kissing or being together. then i went to high school. they taught us to be accepting. the ethics class i was in had us go to a corner of the room, to show what decision we would make in a given scenario. skip ahead a bit. i became more accepting. until i was like. i could be bi. and that would totally be more accepting. it would help the world if i was bi. so i decided i had a crush on this girl. she was really cool. loved my poetry in english class, played guitar in the club i was in and was all over beautiful with a beautiful voice. unfortunately she had a boyfriend and i never came out to her.
looking back now, guys have hurt me a lot. i won't say that girls haven't. but i've never had sex and don't want to. and now i'm calling myself bi to keep an open mind. but i think i'm def. more into girls. relationships to me shouldn't be about a piece of paper (i'm against marriage) or sex (totally not into it) but, love. and romance is a fun part of love. but Love is the real point of all this. ^__^ the end. still looking for my soul mate.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 2:01 pm
Elhayym umm...well, when i was younger... me and my slightly older friend decided to kiss each other. closed mouth on the lips. i then suggested we do it again so we did. all i could think was it was really weird. her lips were so soft. all i could think was wow she has soft lips for like...ages. anyways. i was a total homophobe and i couldn't even stand the thought of two girls/2 guys kissing or being together. then i went to high school. they taught us to be accepting. the ethics class i was in had us go to a corner of the room, to show what decision we would make in a given scenario. skip ahead a bit. i became more accepting. until i was like. i could be bi. and that would totally be more accepting. it would help the world if i was bi. so i decided i had a crush on this girl. she was really cool. loved my poetry in english class, played guitar in the club i was in and was all over beautiful with a beautiful voice. unfortunately she had a boyfriend and i never came out to her. looking back now, guys have hurt me a lot. i won't say that girls haven't. but i've never had sex and don't want to. and now i'm calling myself bi to keep an open mind. but i think i'm def. more into girls. relationships to me shouldn't be about a piece of paper (i'm against marriage) or sex (totally not into it) but, love. and romance is a fun part of love. but Love is the real point of all this. ^__^ the end. still looking for my soul mate.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 5:31 pm
^__^ thanks courageous hitman, that was totally awesome of you to say. heart
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 5:44 pm
Elhayym ^__^ thanks courageous hitman, that was totally awesome of you to say. heart
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:20 pm
I consider myself a straight guy and there never was a point where I can say everything changed or that I "knew." It was all gradual. Plus, my sexuality, and gender is always evolving.
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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:18 pm
First time that I noticed that I was pansexual... Hunh.
I don't remember, but I should have noticed way back in 6th grade. But I didn't really notice it until 7th/8th grade, and especially again in the past year or two. I kept thinking that I was heterosexual... But then I was like: "Shaz, who am I kidding? I'm pansexual..."
Ah, it's a terrible thing to live in denial. x.X
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:25 am
Hmm, well I'm bi, and i figured last year sometime.
I had been bi-curious for like two years, thinking that i might be gay, whilst i still denied it. But i figured later that i did in fact like both genders blaugh
I havn't come out yet, but i have told some of my bestest friends.
And i totally agree with Kameron-Anemone. Living in denial is hard
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 4:39 pm
I must say it took me a while to figure out the obvious, when I was 7 I had a very strong urge to kiss a girl and over the years at swimming lessons I kept staring at girls and I started to thinking the "I would never go on a date with a guy" standard thing and around last year I caught myself staring at some of my friends who are girls chests and then not too long ago I finally realized "Wait a minute, straight people don't do that!" and that was followed by the thought "Damn she's hot!" and that's when I finally figured it out.
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