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 Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 11:53 am
Anata Dark Eagle Babe
*clings to you*
You're beautiful, Anata, you really are.. It's just.. I go through so much in merely one year, it's really unbelievable (not my own words). And in my life I've been through a lot too.
My psychologist told me that it's in me to only be happy when there's someone there. When I'm in a relationship, I'm good. If I break up, I'm not good. If I'm in another relationship, I'm good again..
It's in my mind, it's my psychology..*sighs*
One of my best friends is like that; he's completely miserable when he's not in a relationship, but he's very happy when in them. The problem is, when you jump from relationship to relationship, there's a helluva lot more heartache. If you learn to be happy on your own, more power to you; if you don't, the future (s)he had better be taking good care of you. confused
Yeah.. My psychologist told me that's what we would be working on.. I mean.. It sounds pretty pathetic if I hear it, but it's just something in people's mind. I can't explain it, but I know it's true..
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 11:56 am
Lalobee Dark Eagle Babe
I had just gotten out of a serious depression and things were going fairly well. It was difficult, a long distance relationship, but it felt right. He had come here and after that it felt even more right and more "meant to be". Things got really difficult, however, after he had left again. I can't tell you what happened, he told me not to tell.
Erm, just one question: With what does he deserve you obeying his wish to not tell after he treaded you like s**t? He gave a damn for your feelings, so why do you care for his? Why should you, why do you feel you need to? Besides, appart from showing him that you're better than him, but I don't think he'll get it, and laugh even more at you with his friends, I'm sure. He'll pride himself at his friends about how he abused you and you still do what he says. Such male brains are sooo easy, it's almost shocking. rolleyes
It's.. I didn't tell because I still cared about him.. But he really doesn't give a damn about me.. Never did, probably..
The thing he told me not to tell is that he's got a mental illness.. PROBABLY.. Dissociative Indentity Disorder..
Yeah, he's probably got that..
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:57 pm
Dark Eagle Babe Brandon Taylor *hugs you tightly* That b*****d. If he knew he shouldn't have even gone there. He should have had enough respect for you at least. Him begin a jerk doesn't make you any less special though. You are a wonderful person, he just didn't see it. If you feel like you need it, you might want to get professional help. It might help you get through this. Yah... I went to a psychologist yesterday.. Got an appointment today.. *hugs* You're sweet heart Thanks, and good. *hugs you back* I hope talking to someone helps.
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 10:37 pm
*Hugs* Im sorry to hear that you still are feeling like crap, but hang in there. I'd love to give you some comforting words , but I cant seem to think of any that would fit the situation. Guess this'll have to do: Never forget that the people here love the living daylights out of you! We feel sorry for you and want you to get better as soon as possible so you can keep being an awesome person and a great help to those who frequent here! Get Well Soon! *hugs again*
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 11:38 pm
Brandon Taylor Dark Eagle Babe Brandon Taylor *hugs you tightly* That b*****d. If he knew he shouldn't have even gone there. He should have had enough respect for you at least. Him begin a jerk doesn't make you any less special though. You are a wonderful person, he just didn't see it. If you feel like you need it, you might want to get professional help. It might help you get through this. Yah... I went to a psychologist yesterday.. Got an appointment today.. *hugs* You're sweet heart Thanks, and good. *hugs you back* I hope talking to someone helps. She really helped me.. She just knew so much about me and about Martin that it really helped me let him go more..
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 11:40 pm
Sutiiven *Hugs* Im sorry to hear that you still are feeling like crap, but hang in there. I'd love to give you some comforting words , but I cant seem to think of any that would fit the situation. Guess this'll have to do: Never forget that the people here love the living daylights out of you! We feel sorry for you and want you to get better as soon as possible so you can keep being an awesome person and a great help to those who frequent here! Get Well Soon! *hugs again*
Thank you so much sweetie! And yeah, I'll stay here and I'll keep coming.. *hearts* You're just too awesome to not come and visit ^^
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 12:10 am
Kichiro Yes, yes, yes..
Now take hard love.
mad
neutral
How sad, how sad.
Oh no the guy dump'ed you when were tr�s serious, and plus you had delicious lov'ns with him. [/mocking]
confused
It really doesnt matter if he's wrong, or exactly how you're hurting. What matters is what you can do now. Stop dwelling on him, or the hurt, or the fact that you put yo' life into it and move on. He did, thus you can as well.
Pimp-slap those little wimpy feelings and get on your work.
mad
dwell in random classes and don't think about him or any of your other ex's. They are not important. You are.
Yes, it is quite dissapointing when something you plan is destroied. because of this, you have a day or two (not during school) to mope. After that box it up and move on. Theres no point in staying depressed.
neutral
And if you can't help but be depressed then maybe you disserve to fail school.
You sound like a smart girl.
Stop crying and get back on your feet.
I'm sure you'll do fine.
* Yes, i suck at some spellings Post edited by loginbin3000
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 6:32 am
loginbin3000 Kichiro Yes, yes, yes..
Now take hard love.
mad
neutral
How sad, how sad.
Oh no the guy dump'ed you when were tr�s serious, and plus you had delicious lov'ns with him. [/mocking]
confused
It really doesnt matter if he's wrong, or exactly how you're hurting. What matters is what you can do now. Stop dwelling on him, or the hurt, or the fact that you put yo' life into it and move on. He did, thus you can as well.
Pimp-slap those little wimpy feelings and get on your work.
mad
dwell in random classes and don't think about him or any of your other ex's. They are not important. You are.
Yes, it is quite dissapointing when something you plan is destroied. because of this, you have a day or two (not during school) to mope. After that box it up and move on. Theres no point in staying depressed.
neutral
And if you can't help but be depressed then maybe you disserve to fail school.
You sound like a smart girl.
Stop crying and get back on your feet.
I'm sure you'll do fine.
* Yes, i suck at some spellings Post edited by loginbin3000
Yep, I know.. There are less painful ways to tell people these things though.. I left it for what it was at the moment, because I didn't want to get all hurt over that and take it out on him...
I agree with you on the thinking positive part *nods*
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