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 Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 11:51 am
Eddefred It's true that some guys are always gunning for sex when in a relationship, and some girls are hopeless teases that love to mess with a guy's affections, but they don't speak for the majority.
Everbody's different, and some people go for those type of people.
Just go with what you're compatible with.
If you want sex, and she doesn't want to, or keeps making excuses, sit down and talk, and figure out if the relationship's going in a direction you want.
Because things could eventually boil down to "Have sex with me or I'll dump you", which could leave a very sour taste in both party's mouths when the relationship burns to a crisp. If it comes sex or no relationship, just walk away. Sex does not need to be part of a relationship. And it should not be a factor in wheather you stay with that person or not. Sex just adds another level to a relationship, but it is not needed. Girls have a lot of pressure to be perfect and all that. We have so much peer pressure and s**t to be beautiful and sexy and wonderful. If we feel that we are below that average it is hard to break out. We don't feel good about ourselves let alone expose our every flaw in the bedroom. I don't have this problem. >< Wow I'm rambling and off topic.. "Men go ito a date wondering if they'll have sex or, a woman already knows." There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. ONe, here is no probability of pregnancy or STDs. Two, you can wait and have sex with someone really meaningful. I'll say it again, my frist time was bad. And with the wrong person. And if anyone asks why you are still a virgin, just say you're waiting for the right one. That'll turn a girl or two your way.
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Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 11:52 am
By the way, it is a LOT of fun being a cocktease. For me anyway. <3
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Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 9:43 am
Teasing is just a part of what makes women God's divine gift to men. It poses a challenge; it intrigues; it captivates. It fuels the hunger in one's soul, sets it aflame, and before you know it, the raging embers of passion have consumed you. A good man tosses aside his sanity and begins to enjoy the pain, the longing, and the struggle; it is all part of the hunt, and it makes the end result all the sweeter.
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Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 9:08 pm
For one thing, dear, it can greatly depend on weather or not the girl is a virgin.
When a guy has sex for the first time, nothing really changes, he just gains experience, really. Girls on the other hand, you can always tell weather that membrane has been broken or not. The first time to girls is semi-symbolic. I'm not sure about guy's though... I suppose it fits there too. But why do you think guy's always get turned on by virgin girls? They wanna take that. They wanna be something the girl never forgets. In a way, the one who takes a girls virginity owns a part of her, for life.
Point number two: I have guy friends of all types. I have guy's that are sweet, and girls play with them like they are no more than puppets on a string. Guy's that have so much confidence, it doesn't really hurt them. And so on and so forth... If you are making it look like you have no confidence, that will be a major reason. A confident girl will either adore a sensitive, weak guy, or be sickened by it. A none-confident girl will look at sensitivity and walk away because girls DO look for traits in a mate that fill in what they lack. Yin and Yang, girls wanna complete, and be completed. All elements that are missing, they want there in a relationship.
And Point three: In my point of view, anyway, something like that should not be thrown around to just any attractive person. Maybe not love(cause it's hard to find) but at least someone you really cherish. It's okay that you are a virgin, and it's okay that you may be it for a while. If these girls are nothing but cockteasers, than are they really worth it? Cause once a guy has done it once, it's REALLY hard for them to go without for a long while. A quick ******** here, and it may seam liek forever before you receive it again. Be patient, and it will be better in the long run, trust me.
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2011 11:25 pm
Kechero-TheForsakenRose
And Point three: In my point of view, anyway, something like that should not be thrown around to just any attractive person. Maybe not love(cause it's hard to find) but at least someone you really cherish. It's okay that you are a virgin, and it's okay that you may be it for a while. If these girls are nothing but cockteasers, than are they really worth it? Cause once a guy has done it once, it's REALLY hard for them to go without for a long while. A quick ******** here, and it may seam liek forever before you receive it again. Be patient, and it will be better in the long run, trust me.
XD. I definitely agree with this. I've gone a year without sex and I'm definitely achin for a shakin.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2011 7:28 am
Jonstalker62 Kechero-TheForsakenRose
And Point three: In my point of view, anyway, something like that should not be thrown around to just any attractive person. Maybe not love(cause it's hard to find) but at least someone you really cherish. It's okay that you are a virgin, and it's okay that you may be it for a while. If these girls are nothing but cockteasers, than are they really worth it? Cause once a guy has done it once, it's REALLY hard for them to go without for a long while. A quick ******** here, and it may seam liek forever before you receive it again. Be patient, and it will be better in the long run, trust me.
XD. I definitely agree with this. I've gone a year without sex and I'm definitely achin for a shakin. Achin for a shakin? Hahahahaha!
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2011 7:30 pm
Gotcha beat there. Three and a half years celibate. smile
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2011 8:04 pm
Hypocoristical Gotcha beat there. Three and a half years celibate. smile Oooo, because you want to or because you're having trouble getting laid?
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2011 9:28 pm
Jonstalker62 Hypocoristical Gotcha beat there. Three and a half years celibate. smile Oooo, because you want to or because you're having trouble getting laid? The first year was just - dry spell.
After that, I figured it wasn't meant to be so, I started actively not perusing sexual situations. There are days were it's like . . . "OMFG someone just screw me", but it's ... manageable. xD
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2011 12:45 pm
Hypocoristical Jonstalker62 Hypocoristical Gotcha beat there. Three and a half years celibate. smile Oooo, because you want to or because you're having trouble getting laid? The first year was just - dry spell.
After that, I figured it wasn't meant to be so, I started actively not perusing sexual situations. There are days were it's like . . . "OMFG someone just screw me", but it's ... manageable. xD Lol, I know the feeling. There are some days when I don't even think about sex, I've just forgetten to crave it. Then there are the days when I'll screw anything humanoid and with a pulse. XD It's a mixed curse.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2011 1:02 pm
Jonstalker62 Lol, I know the feeling. There are some days when I don't even think about sex, I've just forgetten to crave it. Then there are the days when I'll screw anything humanoid and with a pulse. XD It's a mixed curse. Oh yeah, completely understand that. xD
I'm sure it's a bit easier for us females. . . I mean think of the toys we can purchase to curb the crave. *Giggle-snort*
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2011 1:04 pm
Hypocoristical Jonstalker62 Lol, I know the feeling. There are some days when I don't even think about sex, I've just forgetten to crave it. Then there are the days when I'll screw anything humanoid and with a pulse. XD It's a mixed curse. Oh yeah, completely understand that. xD
I'm sure it's a bit easier for us females. . . I mean think of the toys we can purchase to curb the crave. *Giggle-snort* XD, I'm sure. And the fact that I have to share my barracks room with an almost total stranger doesn't help. "Happy Time" XD is very hard to come by.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2011 1:06 pm
Jonstalker62 Hypocoristical Jonstalker62 Lol, I know the feeling. There are some days when I don't even think about sex, I've just forgetten to crave it. Then there are the days when I'll screw anything humanoid and with a pulse. XD It's a mixed curse. Oh yeah, completely understand that. xD
I'm sure it's a bit easier for us females. . . I mean think of the toys we can purchase to curb the crave. *Giggle-snort* XD, I'm sure. And the fact that I have to share my barracks room with an almost total stranger doesn't help. "Happy Time" XD is very hard to come by. My buddy has trademarked the "Ninja Fap". NO lie. That guy can fap without anyone noticing it. No random shower alone time either?
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2011 1:11 pm
Hypocoristical Jonstalker62 Hypocoristical Jonstalker62 Lol, I know the feeling. There are some days when I don't even think about sex, I've just forgetten to crave it. Then there are the days when I'll screw anything humanoid and with a pulse. XD It's a mixed curse. Oh yeah, completely understand that. xD
I'm sure it's a bit easier for us females. . . I mean think of the toys we can purchase to curb the crave. *Giggle-snort* XD, I'm sure. And the fact that I have to share my barracks room with an almost total stranger doesn't help. "Happy Time" XD is very hard to come by. My buddy has trademarked the "Ninja Fap". NO lie. That guy can fap without anyone noticing it. No random shower alone time either? The showers are communal and have no curtains.... So not, not really lol. And your friend has an impressive talent. I need to talk to him lol.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2011 1:14 pm
Jonstalker62 The showers are communal and have no curtains.... So not, not really lol. And your friend has an impressive talent. I need to talk to him lol. Damn. That's gotta suck something major. gonk
I didn't believe he could do it until he sprung it on me. Totally did not know he was doing that until he nonchalantly tried to shake my hand and it was um...a mess.
Needless to say, I don't go to the movies with him. @____@''
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