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 Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 9:11 pm
Okay, theres like two options that everybody has said or agreed with here:
Take him aside and tell him how I feel then giv him some time to think.
Go up and ask him to go to a movie with me.
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Posted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 9:14 pm
Rikotsu-chan Okay, theres like two options that everybody has said or agreed with here:
Take him aside and tell him how I feel then giv him some time to think.
Go up and ask him to go to a movie with me.
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 12:05 am
Yeah, it's generally always a good idea to let them get to know you before you go right-out asking them on a date... personally, I have been asked out by people I didn't even know before and I just flat out turned them down because I thought they were creepy psycho stalkers or something... sweatdrop
Then again, I'm weird and not a guy. Maybe a guy would be flattered by that!
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 9:53 am
Walk up the the person and say "Will you go out with me." The worst that can happen is them saying "No, thanks."
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 10:22 am
Reivena Yeah, it's generally always a good idea to let them get to know you before you go right-out asking them on a date... personally, I have been asked out by people I didn't even know before and I just flat out turned them down because I thought they were creepy psycho stalkers or something... sweatdrop Then again, I'm weird and not a guy. Maybe a guy would be flattered by that! Yes, Id have to say let them get to know you Before you ask them to do anything.. Its an awkward situation, but just be friendly, intellegent, and positive. Who knows.. maybe after he gets to know you, he'll ask YOU out to a movie! 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 1:46 pm
well first you gotta be calm around him... and just ask him out casually.. like to someone place casual.. like the movies.. or mall.. something like that or maybe even a dance.. or if you see him at a dance ask if he would like to dance with you. smile
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Posted: Thu Sep 29, 2005 4:29 pm
depends on the guy, but usually just sound sincer, even a little nervous (with some guys it help to appele to his ego.)
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Posted: Thu Sep 29, 2005 4:41 pm
"All your base are belong to me."
That's the geek girl way of asking a geek guy out.
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Posted: Thu Sep 29, 2005 8:26 pm
Hm... SO MUCH ADVICE AT ONCE!!! gonk
Okay, well I already know him really well, because we've been friends for about 3-4 years now, but I only recently started to like him for more than a friend, so I know what he's like and what he probly would do and not do. The one thing I do not know is if he would say yes or no. I have some friends that are girls that say he totally likes me, but I'm kinda unsure.
I think, me being a computer/electonics person, that I'll like slip a note in his locker, email him, or tell him over the phone. I'm usually a really out-going person, but I'm kinda shy when it comes to things like this.
So... These are my options:
Note in locker
Email
Over the Phone
hm... note in locker's too risky...
Note in locker
Email
Over the Phone
I'd feel like a complete dufus over the phone...
Note in locker
Email
Over the Phone
So... I guess that leaves me with sending him an email telling him how I feel about him. I'll do it after school tommorow.
(since tommorow's a friday)
I wanted it to be a friday because he'll have like the whole weekend to think it over, that way he'll probly tell me on monday.
Man, I hope this works!
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Posted: Thu Sep 29, 2005 8:48 pm
Soleq "All your base are belong to me." That's the geek girl way of asking a geek guy out.
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 8:43 pm
Maybe say something kinda cute kinda realistic like "do you think you would like to try and go out with me?"
And about the face, MAKE SURE that you dont giggle or look like your life depends on his answer. Your face should be relaxed, almost as if you have been practicing asking him for a while.
And IF he says yes, You can show a small sign of affection, like a smile or even a hug. what ever feels comfortable.
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 9:20 pm
Chalda Soleq "All your base are belong to me." That's the geek girl way of asking a geek guy out. I pretty much agree with him. If any girl were to come up to me and make reference to a game as old/geeky as Zero Wing, that's instant cool points. Or maybe just make reference to a genius game like Katamari Damacy. "I want to roll balls with you," or something.
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 10:05 am
i have always had that problem so i can totally understand... i usually find out if they like me first.. but to ask them out i can only give you this... hold your head up ask them if they would go out with you ( keep it casual like for a movie to see how you guys are together first) then take whatever he says with pride. if its no then dont worry there will be more that are a lot better cuz theyll appreciate you. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its noraml to be nervous.. wink wink
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 5:39 pm
Soleq "All your base are belong to me." That's the geek girl way of asking a geek guy out. That's as classic as saying "I love you as much as Link loves Zelda..I would compare your eyes to one hundred rupees" Which yes, I have heard out of the mouth of a nerd in Love.... xd Not to get off subject, just letting Soleq know: Thank you for my Laugh of the Day.
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 7:01 pm
hum... well for me it al depends on the guy and the situation. It's always good to start by telling them that you like them, and then see where it goes from there. In my experiance there was always a bit of time (like a few days) between the time when I told a guy, or he told me, that I/he liked him/me. It's one of those things that you can't really say there is only one way... it's one of those things where you just have to go with the flow.
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