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Ha I wish I fought as good as I do know when I was younger, I'd take on my entire school and make the lil punks cry uncle. I hate bullies but can relate, it's merely a status used to impress others. You know kinda like the whole jock and other such rankings, they do what they do to earn respect. Their are several methods on taking on bullies. first of all a bully always comes a long with their friend so that they can have his back. Call him out on that, why do they need five people to fight one person are they not man enough to go mano a mano? Bullies are like a pack of wolves there try to go for the biggest and if you can bring him down the others will know you mean business. Of course becareful never get into a fight that you know you can't win. The best method to avoid a fight is to avoid it all together. I'm not telling anyone ot just start slugging bullies and picking fights if you can just try to avoid it all together. But I would suggest learning some sort of self defense and body training so if something does happen you'll atleast be able to fend yourself a lot better. Oh and when fighting a group use everything you can to you disposal. as long as its not for try to intimidate them, I saw some kid smash a hockey stick over a jocks head. Yeah I have issues, I am not very fond of bullies

well fight back thats the only way it will stop

I'm being bullied, mind you, I'll be 21 in a few months, and this person, also turning 21, still feels like he should make fun of me. Of course I'm the only one who tells him he's being a jerk and my best friends see it, but they choose "not to get involved" and tell me to "just ignore him". I've been doing that for a long time and he's still doing it. What pisses me off is I would stand up for them, and I have, but when I need it, no one stands up for me.