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 Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 2:16 pm
hmm well ...now i don't think my parents care. I mean I do have a daughter , lol its obvious im active.
anyways when i was still at home as a teenager...they would have murdered me if i got caught under the age of 18. Buuut they thought i was a virgin on my wedding day hahaha..well my mom did anyways.
Which is so rediculious its not even funny to me. But yea..ill let them just think that.
however i was really educated so ..they didn't really need to worry anyways.
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Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 10:33 pm
my parents just tell me to be safe and be smart and they trust tha i will be.
It also helps tha i gave my virginity to a virgin, with whom i am completely in love with and have been for 2 years as of next month and they know we'll be together for quite a while. biggrin Then again as of next month i'll no longer be a minor and tha helps too.
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 3:25 pm
My mom and dad don't even let me date, let alone have sex. But that's ok, cause I'm not ready anyway. I'm waiting until marriage.
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:54 pm
I have a feeling that my parents know I have sex but they're not bringing it up. They know my boyfriend comes over when they're not home. I'm pretty sure my mom saw me pick up a condom wrapper that fell out of my garbage.
They've never really given me a "talk" about sex. They know I'm smart and they trust me. They like my boyfriend and we're both 18, and we were both 18 when we first had sex (well, I was going to be 18 the next day). I don't see why they would have a problem with it. I've thought about telling my mom so she could bring me to get birth control. I'm just not up to it yet since me and my boyfriend just started having sex.
Also my mom got pregnant with my brother when she was 18, and had him when she was 19. I've kind of learned from her. I know he was an accident but he turned out pretty great considering the situation. My brothers fiance had a kid when she was 19 as well and my brother raises him like he would his own kid.
My boyfriends parents know we have sex, and he tells me how his dad makes akward jokes. I can't look at him in the eyes for a while. Plus his mom buys him condoms and says, "be safe."
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 12:30 pm
idk my parents are hypocrits, my mom got pregnant at 15 with her first and my sister had her first when she was 16. and their oppinions always seem to change, when they found out that me and my ex were having sex, all she said was that my girlfriend should go on birth control. but now with my current girlfriend they hate the idea, me and my girlfriend got caught yesterday and now they are sending me to live with my dad in another city. i guess the only thing that bothered them is that i was doing it in their home, and they walked in. =[
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Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 8:43 pm
My mom is kinda a hyprocrit, as well. (later explained)
I had recently told her less than a month ago I might be sexual with my boyfriend (he is not in the same state, I am gonna visit him soon). She talked to me bout condoms, birth control, etc. Of course, I have gotten all my information beforehand from here and on various sites, but I never let her know, incase she wondered what I did on my private lap top ninja
So, she had bought me some condoms and spermicides.
A week ago she set me a appointment to see my doctor bout birth control. Now I am on the pill.
One of the reasons she doesnt wnat em to be seually active is because she said the only thing she is worried bout is bein gettin pregnant. She had her first at 16 (ironically the same age I am) and she keeps tellin me how afraid she is for that to happen to me.
Then, she looks at how many condoms she bought me (three) and says, "I doubt you'll be alone more than three times..just incase, I'll buy you some more" It's like, what?! xD
So, on Wednesday, I have to go to this palce that show teens how to put on condoms correctly.. Oooh, great ><
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 4:20 pm
Well, I didn't tell my mom right away.
She was more annoyed that I hid it from her, then the fact that I was actually having sex. Well, and then she wanted to kill my ex, because she assumed that it was his idea and I was pressured into it. (I wasn't.)
But in the past I haven't always been smart about sex, and that concerns her.
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Posted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 2:22 pm
My parents confuse me. My mom said she and my dad didn't wait, and she hinted she had sex in college, because she said it would be hypocritical for her to expect me not to have sex while I'm in college.
But then they catch me and my boyfriend making out and make a big deal of it, saying it's "inappropriate" for us to be "all over each other." So, um, I have NO IDEA if I'm allowed to have sex or not.
Then again it doesn't really matter since I'm 19. I guess they just don't want to know about it.
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