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~Demonic Muffin~

PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 10:06 pm


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thats way off topic. dolphins arn't people, and they have babys every time! unless your going to invent the dolphin condom.
and they don't get married. don't compare a fish creature to humans..


It's quite on the topic. We were discussing sex for pleasure, and she gave a perfect example that sex for pleasure is not wrong. You're the one getting off topic with dolphin condoms and whatnot...
PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 10:47 pm


dolphins take mates for life ! research!

so sex means there with the same one for life.

and it's off topic because im talking about people not dolphins!

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 11:59 pm


~[People should be able to have sex whenever they want, with in reason. I strongly think that after you turn the legal age you can have sex before marriage, after marriage, whatever.

I really think it's a personal choice. You wish to have it before your married, go right ahead. You want to wait, go ahead. I can't chose for you, so why should I stop you? ((That rule does not apply to everything, just somethings, like this topic.))
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:25 am


I wouldn't be telling me to research when you're calling dolphins, mammals, fish... Dolphins breath air as we do.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:48 am


.. what does that have to do with sex??
PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:51 am


and the topic is sex before marriage!
not sex for pleasure!
and whoever brought dolphins in was way off topic!

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 2:04 am


~[You were saying that sex shouldn't just to be "just to have it" which is for pleasure. Rain was saying that Dolphins also have sex for pleasure, but it isn't wront when they do it, so why should it be when we do it?

I think the post was quite on topic. Because people have sex before they're married mostly for pleasure.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 2:40 am


if you want dolphins then fine!
when they have sex; it's with their life partner! and yes it is for pleasure but it would be equilivent to humans being married and doing it for pleasure! dolphins have sex with the same one for their entire life.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 3:28 am


~[No they don't. I don't know where you heard that.

This is from wikipedia, not the most reliable but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't lie about dolphins.
Quote:
Dolphin copulation happens belly to belly and though many species engage in lengthy foreplay, the actual act is usually only brief, but may be repeated several times within a short timespan. The gestation period varies per species; for the small Tucuxi dolphin, this period is around 11 to 12 months, while for the Orca the gestation period is around 17 months. They usually become sexually active at a young age, even before reaching sexual maturity. The age at which sexual maturity is reached varies per species and gender.

Dolphins are known to have sex for reasons other than reproduction, sometimes also engaging in acts of a homosexual nature.[17] Various dolphin species have been known to engage in sexual behaviour with other dolphin species,[17] this also having resulted in various hybrid dolphin species as mentioned earlier. Sexual encounters may be violent, with male dolphins sometimes showing aggressive behaviour towards both females and other male dolphins.[17][18] Occasionally, dolphins will also show sexual behaviour towards other animals, including humans.[19]
It says nothing about one partner. I think that is something they might mention, it is mentioned in all the animals who do have sex with one partner.

I also looked up "mating habits of dolphins" and none of them say that they mate for life. Are you sure your not thinking of penguines?
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 4:00 am


ya im sure.. and they only have one partner. ya there sexually active, but you didn't prove me wrong.
trust me, i have a friend dating one! they .. eww, i don't even want to tell sorry..

i could go into detail, but they are for life..

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~Demonic Muffin~

PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 7:33 am


Toastes
ya im sure.. and they only have one partner. ya there sexually active, but you didn't prove me wrong.
trust me, i have a friend dating one! they .. eww, i don't even want to tell sorry..

i could go into detail, but they are for life..


Make some sense in your posts, please.
PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 11:58 am


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I personally think that it doesn't matter.
Whether you have sex before or after marriage doesn't really affect you.
The only thing is if you have sex before marriage and get pregnant, that kind of sucks. That's the only thing most people are worried about nowadays.
Other than their religion being the cause of abstinence before marriage.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 12:35 pm


~Demonic Muffin~
Toastes
ya im sure.. and they only have one partner. ya there sexually active, but you didn't prove me wrong.
trust me, i have a friend dating one! they .. eww, i don't even want to tell sorry..

i could go into detail, but they are for life..


Make some sense in your posts, please.


Eh I know what he's talking about.
There's this guy (human) who basically has sex with his dolphin. And I guess the dolphin is kinda like his "life partner" or something.. he has a website for it but I don't know what it is. Anyway, the dolphin is very loyal to him and only has sex with him.

Disturbing, but true. sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 12:56 pm


Well, since we're bringing up animals in this debate, I thought I'd share some things.

Dolphins and humans are not the only animals that have sex for pleasure.
There are other animals. Eagles also have sex for pleasure, and they also have lifelong partners.

I looked up if dolphins do, and I got mixed answers. I got some websites that say they don't have lifelong partners and some that say they do. So I did what works best: I researched on ONLY ".edu" sites, because those are fact-based sites. (I actually found a site that said male dolphins form lifelong bonds with eachother... as do females... but that's not a ".edu" site sweatdrop )

Here's what I found on http://animaldiversity.ummz.umich.edu/site/accounts/information/Delphinus_delphis.html

It said absolutely NOTHING about dolphins having sex for pleasure, or having lifelong partners. It stated how dolphins mate, and they only mate within their groups (in other words, they don't go around mating with every dolphin they see; they live in groups and mate within the group). On ".edu" sites (which are most reliable) you won't find anything on either.
My conclusion: the sites you find any opposing information on are rumored.


Now as for sex before marriage, I generally don't agree. But I don't think it's absolutely.. er... wrong; it depends on the circumstances. I don't agree with people having sex with more than one person in their lifetime.
I think it's ridiculous that we brought in the subject of other animals having sex for pleasure, though. We're talking about people... sex... marriage... but do animals get married? I don't think so... How about we stay on the topic of people, thanks. wink

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 5:18 pm


Wow, I make one little comment and this thread asploads.
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ANYWAY.
I mean, sure there are platonic marriages, but humans crave sexual contact.
It's fact. You can't deny it. On some level, everyone craves some sexual contact.
And some people don't get married till very late in life.
One can't expect them to remain abstinence their whole lives

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