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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 8:47 am
as for weight loss? eh I'm fat and happy.
As for the relationship. Yeah he needs to take a page from Neuf's great quote book.
RUN!! RUN!!!!
However, he needs to see it for himself. The people who cannot see the trainwreck happening are the ones riding the train.
He's gotta figure it out himself.
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 12:20 pm
I second this sound piece of advice. Although "It's a trap!" would work equally well when talking to him next time she wants to get back together. Whatever gets the point across better.
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 12:41 pm
Divash We went from helping with Benzino's brother to discussing weight loss. Maybe the weight loss concerns could be taken up in another thread, and we should get back to this poor brother whose heart is being rubbed raw and eroded daily by this toxic relationship with what sounds like a toxic woman. (Alternatively, there's a Gaian Losers Guild for weight control discussion. I'm on there. It's a very friendly and helpful group.) agreed. ;-; i havent spoken to my brother today... i guess no news is okay news?
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 2:15 pm
Dis Domnu I second this sound piece of advice. Although "It's a trap!" would work equally well when talking to him next time she wants to get back together. Whatever gets the point across better. Well you can always use kittens.
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darkphoenix1247 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 3:38 pm
Ouch; I really wish I knew what to do with that. I have a really good friend who went out with this girl for about 4 years or so- at first she was sweet and nice, but over time, showed her pettiness, uncaring attitude, and arrogance. As far as I know, there really is no easy answer; he just had to realize for himself that she was being a jerk and taking advantage of him, as when I'd try to point it out, I'd get accused of being "jealous."
Make sure he knows that you're there for him; good luck.
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