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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 10:43 am
Rainbow Retard I'd kill my brother if he did that... So would I. He would hang for doing such things.
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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:14 am
*hugs* ahhhh I'm so sorry, siblings from hell... my brother used to do things like that to me all the time when I was younger, ... and a lot worse. It's hard to say what to do because different things work with different people, but I guess available options are:
1. Revenge- do something similar to an item of hers or some such Really gets the point across but its risky, since parents can get angry and she can just... get even angrier instead of getting the message and then break something else of yours.
2. Ignore it like you don't care Very hard to do of course, but she did it so you'd react, so if you make her think it doesn't matter all that much then she might not do it again.
3. War... Small bits of cunningly planned revenge, but usually the other sibling does something in return, and it just keeps on going until one of you wins. Gotta keep parents out of this one.
4. Parents Might be hard if you aren't the favourite, but if you cry lots and get the point across that it meant a lot to you, it could work. Say even though it was a small thing, you had spent ages on it and it meant a lot to you, and that her doing that was just bitchy, mean and spiteful.
5. Talking to said sibling Don't start off angry but just really really amazingly deadly serious. You have to keep your cool with this method, and just talk to her and ask her why the hell she did it and to please not do it again. Not really guaranteed to work but its the safer approach.
6. Find a new hidey spot Might be worth investing in some sort of locked box with a key. (Made of re-enforced steel). I really had that problem when I was younger, my brother would just come in my room and take money and torches and everything. Still does it now with blank CDs and DVDs. Basically, what they can't find, they can't destroy.
7. Nothing... What I did most of the time, except for running to my parents... your sister will have to grow up sometime, I guess sometimes the only thing you can do is wait. It's a pain in the a** waiting, but it will happen eventually.
8. Upstage her/ make her feel stupid Get an A in something at school, just do something awesome... does nothing to help the situation but you feel pretty damn great afterwards. Probably not recommended if you don't want anything else to be destroyed xp
Well I hope that helps, that all came from the years of experience of being the youngest and then middle child stressed worth a try at least.
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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 5:18 pm
Well, I'm working on Tardis v2 now. It's made of harder/stronger cardboard and I've only just got the side pieces cut. Sheesh, takes forever!
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:10 pm
OPTIONS!
1. BRING IT WITH YOU wherever you are going. put it in your locker at school, whatever.
2. GET A SAFE. with a combo/key. I'm talking a real safe here. you can put anything it it...
3. THIS IS NOT AN OPTION, IT IS A NECESSITY: TALK WITH YOUR PARENTS both of them. at the same time. I don't know your issues, so I can't write up a speech, but you need to show them that you are a responsible adult. don't bring your sister into it, don't let them try to reason, just talk.
set aside an hour or so...I get the impression that she does things like this all the time. you need to have a serious discussion with them.
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 4:05 pm
Gaah. Meh school has open-face lockers and no door. Plus crammed full of books. So that won't work.
I had a wonderful filing cabinet; it was destroyed (only not in a time war)..
And yes, I've talked to them, and she's been supposedly "grounded" for a week. As if. rolleyes
I've also come to figure (pretty quickly) that it was the littlest monster sibling.
Soo.....yeah. I'm definitely taking this into consideration when either of them strikes again. (I'll be out of the house for five hours in a few days).
See, my parents have issues.... my mom thinks my little sister can do no wrong, and my dad says my other not-so-younger sister can do no wrong. Put them together and it's hell for me. -__-;
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