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 Posted: Sat Dec 26, 2009 6:32 pm
Fun, knee gave out today and I fell. Didn't break anything, bruised up my hands and arms some though. Knee is killing me with pain though before and after the fall. FML
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Posted: Sat Dec 26, 2009 7:31 pm
"I need to talk to you about something" should just be a completely banned phrase from the English vernacular. Especially when it boils down to "every relationship I've ever been in has barely lasted two weeks and thus I'm filled with anxiety." I really don't like to be filled with anxiety while you cryptically come to this point. sad
This crap seriously killed my mood. Just once I'd like to have a relationship where she doesn't have some sort of massive issue to deal with. *head desk*
This is what I get for giving a s**t and liking people.
Worse yet, I have a feeling that this is crap is the result of some s**t one of her more religious friends put into her head. Ugh, I just hope actually having a sit down conversation will straighten this crap out. I just want to have a decent relationship for once.
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Posted: Sat Dec 26, 2009 10:28 pm
Urgh, drama.
Beware, I really need to vent about this. gonk
So over the summer, a couple of friends and myself went to go see the new Harry Potter movie at the midnight release and whatnot; my best friend agreed to drive since she had the nicest car of all of us, buuut went and got super bitchy about some really silly stuff. She contacted another good friend of mine, Michael, over Facebook asking if we were all meeting at his house or if she was going to have to drive all over and get everyone, because she really didn't feel like driving all over that night. He responded on Facebook, since that was the initial contact, and she called him ten minutes later FREEEEEAKING out because he hadn't called her. She claimed responding via facebook wasn't good enough for something that important, despite her using it to talk to him...
Then he suggests we go through the city on the way home instead of taking the tollway, becuase it's quicker and one of the friends that came with had to get up early for work, and Cait (the crazy best friend) basically does some s**t from the Exorcism, starts screaming at him about how if she's the one driving, she's gonna take whatever f---ing way she wants, the town's changed since he lived there, he's arrogant and pushy, and all this other stufff...
They met up later on to try and talk it out, and all that happened was her telling him he's an awful friend that thinks far too highly of himself. ._.;
All he's ever done is be supportive and helpful, but, that's besides the point.
Apparently.
But anyways, the whole issue here is I'm throwing a New Year's party and would rather not invite her, since pretty much everyone in my group of friends resents her/is mad at her for this. She lost a whole bunch of weight during the Fall semester, and I went out to lunch with her a few days ago... And I don't feel like I know her at all anymore. =/ So, long story short, I don't know how to pull this party off without either pissing her off or making everyone else uncomfortable. ;A;
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Posted: Sat Dec 26, 2009 10:51 pm
A Fatal Fairytale Urgh, drama. Beware, I really need to vent about this. gonk So over the summer, a couple of friends and myself went to go see the new Harry Potter movie at the midnight release and whatnot; my best friend agreed to drive since she had the nicest car of all of us, buuut went and got super bitchy about some really silly stuff. She contacted another good friend of mine, Michael, over Facebook asking if we were all meeting at his house or if she was going to have to drive all over and get everyone, because she really didn't feel like driving all over that night. He responded on Facebook, since that was the initial contact, and she called him ten minutes later FREEEEEAKING out because he hadn't called her. She claimed responding via facebook wasn't good enough for something that important, despite her using it to talk to him... Then he suggests we go through the city on the way home instead of taking the tollway, becuase it's quicker and one of the friends that came with had to get up early for work, and Cait (the crazy best friend) basically does some s**t from the Exorcism, starts screaming at him about how if she's the one driving, she's gonna take whatever f---ing way she wants, the town's changed since he lived there, he's arrogant and pushy, and all this other stufff... They met up later on to try and talk it out, and all that happened was her telling him he's an awful friend that thinks far too highly of himself. ._.; All he's ever done is be supportive and helpful, but, that's besides the point. Apparently. But anyways, the whole issue here is I'm throwing a New Year's party and would rather not invite her, since pretty much everyone in my group of friends resents her/is mad at her for this. She lost a whole bunch of weight during the Fall semester, and I went out to lunch with her a few days ago... And I don't feel like I know her at all anymore. =/ So, long story short, I don't know how to pull this party off without either pissing her off or making everyone else uncomfortable. ;A; I say ******** her. If she can't be civil. Then again, seeing my above statement I may not be the best person to get an opinion from. Seriously, why can't people just be open about s**t? Is it really so ******** hard to say what you actually mean?
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 3:13 am
Jahoclave I say ******** her. If she can't be civil. Then again, seeing my above statement I may not be the best person to get an opinion from. Seriously, why can't people just be open about s**t? Is it really so ******** hard to say what you actually mean? No no, I got your back on this ******** that b***h. Don't invite her, or tell her exactly why she isn't invited just in case she is one of those ones who likes to invite themselves along despite the fact that no one gets along with them. Don't ruin your party on the account of one bitchy friend; have a good time with the people you like. It's one thing to have a hard time and flip out, that happens sometimes. But then you turn around the next day and go, "Gee, sorry I was such a stupid b***h last night. That sucked, and I was wrong. Please slap me and let me know I'm being a dumb b***h if this ever happens again." Then you like, I dunno, get a pizza or something. Whatever you do. Point is, make sure you don't ruin a party because of one person. Thats the consequence of actions like that.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 4:24 am
Jahoclave Worse yet, I have a feeling that this is crap is the result of some s**t one of her more religious friends put into her head. Ugh, I just hope actually having a sit down conversation will straighten this crap out. I just want to have a decent relationship for once. This s**t is why I don't date Christians, anymore.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 2:24 pm
Thanks for all the input, you guys. I think I'll just happen to accidentally forget to invite her -- it's not like we ever talk anymore, so I really doubt she'll find out, one way or the other.
Bluhhhh tired screw you work
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 3:10 pm
Lady Pyre Jahoclave Worse yet, I have a feeling that this is crap is the result of some s**t one of her more religious friends put into her head. Ugh, I just hope actually having a sit down conversation will straighten this crap out. I just want to have a decent relationship for once. This s**t is why I don't date Christians, anymore. Yeah, I think I'm going to have to revert back to that rule as well. She was perfectly ******** fine with my views the first few weeks. And to be honest, the what if we have children line kind of unnerves me. For somebody who hasn't even had a relationship last more than two weeks the whole thinking about what if we have kids crap... Seriously? About the only way this isn't going to end with me being rather pissed off is if she really is just having a lot of anxieties for no good reason. But if it's all about religious differences I may just start punching every conservative christian blow hard who goes about trying to treat atheists as subhuman. Also, apparently the zoo makes the penguins go outside for walks in the winter. One tried to snatch away my dad's camera. xd
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 3:52 pm
Jahoclave Also, apparently the zoo makes the penguins go outside for walks in the winter. One tried to snatch away my dad's camera. xd I bet the penguins like it... the right temperature for them for once, maybe! And they like stealing cameras, too, obviously. Little tuxedo-clad degenerates.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 4:27 pm
kerminatrix Jahoclave Also, apparently the zoo makes the penguins go outside for walks in the winter. One tried to snatch away my dad's camera. xd I bet the penguins like it... the right temperature for them for once, maybe! And they like stealing cameras, too, obviously. Little tuxedo-clad degenerates. I was really hoping they'd try to take out the small children. Especially the ones that were smaller than the penguins. Though, you know, I bet they feel like they should have cameras too, everybody else around seem to have them. Either way, I have a nice penguin background for my phone now. Though, right when they got out the door two of the penguins took off into the field full of snow right nearby. razz And hopefully she'll respond to my message in something of a timely manner. Still, I think a full psych screening is going to become a requirement in the future; especially after that whole fiasco with my last ex.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 4:51 pm
Jahoclave Also, apparently the zoo makes the penguins go outside for walks in the winter. One tried to snatch away my dad's camera. xd We have peacocks that walk around the grounds at our zoo. Naturally, they only hang around outside of the food court. And I don't know, having a religious nut come by and be like, "YOU RUINED MY LIFE!" kind of warms my black little heart in some way. Kind of makes you feel like the romantic equivalent of the hero walking away from an exploding building in the background.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 6:08 pm
Wolffy000 Jahoclave Also, apparently the zoo makes the penguins go outside for walks in the winter. One tried to snatch away my dad's camera. xd We have peacocks that walk around the grounds at our zoo. Naturally, they only hang around outside of the food court. And I don't know, having a religious nut come by and be like, "YOU RUINED MY LIFE!" kind of warms my black little heart in some way. Kind of makes you feel like the romantic equivalent of the hero walking away from an exploding building in the background. Yeah, we have a bunch of peacocks that walk around our zoo as well. Though, I think I'd have to do some serious s**t and a*****e moves to get anywhere close to that compared to some other people. She didn't even go home for Christmas but stayed with a friend instead.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 6:52 pm
Jahoclave Though, I think I'd have to do some serious s**t and a*****e moves to get anywhere close to that compared to some other people. She didn't even go home for Christmas but stayed with a friend instead. Well, if you can't fix it you should at least enjoy ******** it up. Seriously though, I bet she just has anxiety about everything. I mean, I would too if I couldn't keep a relationship. You just start to get a complex about those kinds of things. Though holding girlfriend interviews seems like a good idea, especially after watching this European vacation email video I saw earlier. Reminded me too much of girls I have dated before. You know, watching that and seeing what people I know post online, I think a requirement from now on is "Uses proper spelling and grammar in online activities."
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 7:26 pm
Wolffy000 Jahoclave Though, I think I'd have to do some serious s**t and a*****e moves to get anywhere close to that compared to some other people. She didn't even go home for Christmas but stayed with a friend instead. Well, if you can't fix it you should at least enjoy ******** it up. Seriously though, I bet she just has anxiety about everything. I mean, I would too if I couldn't keep a relationship. You just start to get a complex about those kinds of things. Though holding girlfriend interviews seems like a good idea, especially after watching this European vacation email video I saw earlier. Reminded me too much of girls I have dated before. You know, watching that and seeing what people I know post online, I think a requirement from now on is "Uses proper spelling and grammar in online activities." I agree. Also, we should come up with an entire list of requirements. Make an official test of sorts. But yeah, I'm just hoping it's anxiety, because she's got quite a few good qualities as well. On a side note: I should probably just inform my roommate that's she's taking me drinking and being the DD when I get back. In the words of one of those Star Wars characters, I've got a bad feeling about this. Possibly we must compare our books read list as well. Or at least make sure her library of books fills in the holes in my library of books, which, thanks to the Kindle has now become significantly smaller. The amount of absolutely free s**t on there is huge. Just about everything that ever existed that is in public domain is on there and free. s**t that you'd have to pay like 50 bucks if you wanted a print edition. ******** fabulous. 17 volume set of Roman history, absolutely free.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 8:44 pm
Jahoclave Lady Pyre Jahoclave Worse yet, I have a feeling that this is crap is the result of some s**t one of her more religious friends put into her head. Ugh, I just hope actually having a sit down conversation will straighten this crap out. I just want to have a decent relationship for once. This s**t is why I don't date Christians, anymore. Yeah, I think I'm going to have to revert back to that rule as well. She was perfectly ******** fine with my views the first few weeks. And to be honest, the what if we have children line kind of unnerves me. For somebody who hasn't even had a relationship last more than two weeks the whole thinking about what if we have kids crap... Seriously? About the only way this isn't going to end with me being rather pissed off is if she really is just having a lot of anxieties for no good reason. But if it's all about religious differences I may just start punching every conservative christian blow hard who goes about trying to treat atheists as subhuman. Also, apparently the zoo makes the penguins go outside for walks in the winter. One tried to snatch away my dad's camera. xd Hey, at least she's aware enough to realize she has some dumbass issue with it within the first month. The last guy I dated waited until nearly our one year anniversary, and then all of a sudden, it was a big effing deal I didn't share his beliefs. Gee thanks. As if I didn't have enough issues with trust before you more or less told me our entire relationship was built on a lie. rolleyes
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