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 Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 10:12 pm
The phone calls with you breathing into the end of the phone and blank phone messages will stop now.
1- If you have something to say than freaking say it, instead of breathing into the phone until I hang up on you.
2- You might as well just stop, because I'll hang up on you when I realize it's you.
Just because you use your work phone doesn't mean I don't know it's you. The only thing that changes is the last four digits of the phone number, you putz. It's a security company! They tape the freaking calls. If you want to get fired for harassing people keep calling! And get the freaking hint already!
That's all.
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 2:27 pm
I am beyond pissed right now. This is going to be a long post but I've got to get it out there.
Mom calls me today and wants me to "do her a favor" in regards to my 13 yr old sister Alicia. She wants Brian or I to either go down to the house or call her and tell her to walk up to our place because mom has to go to a meeting and Alicia has been "bad on the phone." So I ask her to elaborate and she tells me that Alicia has been talking to a boy in Sikeston MO. Mom told the boy that if he did not stop calling that she would call the police on him. The boy said that if the cops come calling, he'll just tell them all the times Alicia has called HIM. Mom confronted Alicia and she was really nasty about it and said "yeah I call him all the time. Why do you think the phone bill gets ripped up?". Mom tells me that Alicia has been ripping up only certain pages of the phone bill and leaving the last page with the amount due and telling mom it's getting damaged in the mail which mom says she knew was a lie. Also mom thinks Alicia is getting into the internet again which she is password protected out of.
Brian goes down to the house and confronts Alicia. She's here at our house now and has now threatened to kill herself if she has to come here every day after school among other things. She's crying and pissed off because we all "hate her." She gave up the boy's phone # and of course it's a cellphone. She told some story that I think is a lie about how she met the kid. He's in tenth grade (she thinks) although the friend of his that she met first was 18. We're trying to figure out how she's using the internet since Brian and I were the ones that set up the parental controls int he first place and changed all the passwords last time we had an issue with her and the PC. She says that mom leaves her account logged in so Alicia can use it but mom told her "not to tell me and Brian". What the hell kind of s**t is that? Alicia tends to lie but that sounds like something right from my mom's mouth.
s**t has been happening with this kid since she was 8. At that time she was shoplifting from various stores. Mom hid it from me and the rest of the family so we wouldn't "think badly of Alicia.' The next major incident was a few years later when Alicia was almost 10 on Easter. We were using mom's PC for something and noticed some odd "searches". She had been searching for and finding porn. She also wrote an email draft and scat/golden shower type stuff and sex. Mom said "oh no, someone had to have told her to write that. She's never come up with that" and mom would not listen to the whole email draft. A bit over a year ago.. maybe a little more, we had an issue where mom's Pc was full of porn. I don't mean softcore either. These urls were hardcore porn. There were pages and pages of these things that were being visited on a daily basis sometimes multiple times. She had also made myspace accounts and myyearbook accounts pretending she was an older girl, a playboy bunny, all sorts of things and she was soliciting men and calling people on the phone/receiving calls. At that point her internet was revoked and everything was password protected.
I'm pissed because I'm sick of mom waiting for this crap to get so bad and then calling Brian and I and wanting help. How many times have I told her that Alicia needs professional help for both her behavior and her school issues? I've lost count. I'm sick of her thinking Brian and I are too strict and that we don't understand because we don't have kids. If we're so damn shitty, why are we constantly helping you clean up the messes she makes? Why did mom have me password protect and set her up some PC security if she's going to leave it logged in and say "don't tell Heather"?
When Alicia was small and she used to stay here at our place, we had rules. She got to have fun and I tried to do "wholesome" things with her like bake cookie ornaments for Christmas, crafts, school practice, homework, etc and Brian and I have taken her many places in the past year. City Museum, zoo, etc. The issue was is that she was decently behaved with us and the MOMENT she was with mom she got mean. Cursing at mom, doing what she wanted and just being a b***h. Mom yells at her and stuff but mom tends to bury her head in the sand and do what's easy. She hides this s**t from me and then when it gets crazy, she drops it on my lap.
This s**t is ridiculous.
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 2:44 pm
I don't blame you for being so pissed, you have every right to be. You can't be expected to shoulder all of this crap by yourself if your Mom isn't willing to admit that not only does your little sister have problems, but she does as well.
Ignoring what really needs to be done isn't going to solve the problem, and it isn't fair to you or Brian.
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 8:25 pm
Yeah.. it's not cool. If we're so strict and don't know what we're talking about, why want our help especially when this crap has been going on for god knows how long? Mom promised she'd be home by 730 at the latest. She was at some meeting. She got home at 810 which isn't a huge deal I guess but I was already annoyed. I'm sure in a day or two, mom will act like none of this ever happened because that's typical.
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 8:59 pm
*Deep breath*
.....AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! scream stressed
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 9:03 pm
Ms Clarice Ferguson Yeah.. it's not cool. If we're so strict and don't know what we're talking about, why want our help especially when this crap has been going on for god knows how long? Mom promised she'd be home by 730 at the latest. She was at some meeting. She got home at 810 which isn't a huge deal I guess but I was already annoyed. I'm sure in a day or two, mom will act like none of this ever happened because that's typical. That bites. I cannot offer advice though, I'm not really a kid-oriented person (sort of like less resilient houseplants). I CAN however offer you e-hugs and imaginary chocolate. *offers e-hugs and imaginary chocolate* Mild commiseration can also happen, if you want to swap stories.
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 9:47 pm
Wow...And I though the girls in my life were messed up. I'm sorry to hear you sister and mom are giving you such a hard time. I don't have much advice either, though I think you sister should seek some help about this. Life for kids are just getting so F-ed up now adays. But you sister really should get some help, I wouldn't want here to end up as this old friend of mine has.
You see, years and years ago, I use to have friend who was a girl name Maddy. Our mom's work at the same hospitle, and Her older sister was friends with my Older Brother. So for most of two summer, I would have to say at their house so Maddy's sister Angi could baby sit. I guess we where good friends then, but it hard to remember now adays. Once we reached middle school we went to different schools. But By High school we went to the same one (since there is only one in Georgetown) We hardly saw eacher, because I feel into the neardy group with anime lover, who where into Yugioh at the time ( sweatdrop ) She feel into the group that had would be thugs, slutty girls and such. Only a few months latter, I hear she is caught smoking pot in school. She get expelled, and I don't hear from here for years. Her mom told a few things, like here going to a catholic girl school, but not much else.
It was about a year and a half ago, my dad call me at work, told me that he saw Maddy working at the Georgetown hospitle (i was working in Round Rock hospitle) and He gave her my cell number, because she said she woud like to see me again. Later that night (still at work) I get a call from Maddy, we talk a bit, and she asks me to come over after work. I wasn't sure at first, but I though it couldn't hurt.
So I get off at 1030pm and reach her house at 11. Before going in I was having second thoughs. Looking back, I wish i did just keep on driving. I find her apartment. When I walked in, it was all wrong. She was there, and there where flower petals every where. needless to say, I was scared shitless, every nerve told me to get the hell out. Turn out, I didn't have much to worry about, because the petals where really there because it was the 1st year anniversary with her husban. He was there as well, we talked a bit, but i was still really uncomfertable just being there. But the too of them, I hate to say, where pretty much losers. Neither of them had a car or a full time job. After about 30 min, I couldn't stand it any more, so i told them I was tired and left. That car trip back was mostly a blur. Since then, I haven't seen them.
I see Maddy's mom more often now. Just saw here to day acctuly. And she told me thing are not working well with Maddy. She has a baby that about a year old. No Job, no car, Husban is in Germany for the military, late on payments, apartmant is a mess and not sutable for a baby. Maddy's Mom is really upset saying "Doesn't know what to do about Maddy", "wonders where she went wrong with her", "if it wasn't for the baby, she would just cut Maddy off."
It really sad to hear this is the life of an old child hood friend. I wonder a bit about what if life had been different. but at the same time, I don't know if I ever had any feeling for Maddy at all, not even a child hood crush. Hell, I can't even remember what she look like any more or the times we spent those summer. If anything she just anothere past acquaintance.
I know this may have nothing quite like what going on with you sister, and was also really off topic, but I'm hoping there was something that might have helped you out. If you take away anyting from this, just try and help your sister stear her life in a better direction and don't let her become like Maddy.
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:03 am
Zach: Yikes! I can't even imagine how weird that must have been being there with the two of them with their "sex night" all set up. It's a fine line to cross because you want to do so much yet there isn't a whole we can do on our ends. My mom is the type that she won't discuss it. Next time I talk to her she will act like it all never happened which is a lot of her problems, I think. I think this thread needs some humor. Behold the stupidest password scam of the day that I just came across. Quote: - Subject: gaia online welcom to gaia online plese right your e-mail and user name and password because one man making problel in gaia online . thanks for reading
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:12 am
Ms Clarice Ferguson Zach: Yikes! I can't even imagine how weird that must have been being there with the two of them with their "sex night" all set up. It's a fine line to cross because you want to do so much yet there isn't a whole we can do on our ends. My mom is the type that she won't discuss it. Next time I talk to her she will act like it all never happened which is a lot of her problems, I think. I think this thread needs some humor. Behold the stupidest password scam of the day that I just came across. Quote: - Subject: gaia online welcom to gaia online plese right your e-mail and user name and password because one man making problel in gaia online . thanks for reading
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:57 am
Ms. Selina Kyle Ms Clarice Ferguson I think this thread needs some humor. Behold the stupidest password scam of the day that I just came across. Quote: - Subject: gaia online welcom to gaia online plese right your e-mail and user name and password because one man making problel in gaia online . thanks for reading the worst one i ever got said something like Quote: Hello gaia user, We have ran into some problems with you account. Please verafy you email, password, age. this is not a Scame ( rolleyes ) My response Age: born Yester day Email: U-r-A-dumb-a**@fu.com Password: you've been block dip-s**t. I know you are not to feed into trolls like that. but I couldn't help myself.
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:59 am
Don't worry. I used my "mad mod skillz' and took care of it.
3nodding heart
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 12:29 pm
The National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration TSUNAMI MESSAGE NUMBER 1 NWS PACIFIC TSUNAMI WARNING CENTER EWA BEACH HI 831 AM HST THU MAR 19 2009 TO - CIVIL DEFENSE IN THE STATE OF HAWAII SUBJECT - TSUNAMI ADVISORY A TSUNAMI ADVISORY IS ISSUED FOR THE STATE OF HAWAII EFFECTIVE AT 0831 AM HST. AN EARTHQUAKE HAS OCCURRED WITH THESE PRELIMINARY PARAMETERS ORIGIN TIME - 0818 AM HST 19 MAR 2009 COORDINATES - 23.0 SOUTH 174.8 WEST LOCATION - TONGA ISLANDS REGION MAGNITUDE - 7.7 MOMENT EVALUATION THE PACIFIC TSUNAMI WARNING CENTER HAS ISSUED A NON-EXPANDING REGIONAL TSUNAMI WARNING FOR A PART OF THE PACIFIC NEAR THE EARTHQUAKE. BASED ON ALL AVAILABLE DATA THERE IS NO DESTRUCTIVE TSUNAMI THREAT TO HAWAII. HOWEVER... SOME COASTAL AREAS IN HAWAII COULD EXPERIENCE SMALL NON-DESTRUCTIVE SEA LEVEL CHANGES AND STRONG OR UNUSUAL CURRENTS LASTING UP TO SEVERAL HOURS. THE ESTIMATED TIME SUCH EFFECTS MIGHT BEGIN IS 0236 PM HST THU 19 MAR 2009 MESSAGES WILL BE ISSUED HOURLY OR SOONER AS CONDITIONS WARRANT.
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 12:36 pm
That really sucks, I think it's one of those Murphy's Law things.
Damn you Murphy, who gave you the right to make these laws?! scream
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Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 8:38 am
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Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 1:41 pm
It's not that I dislike lettering. It's that professional quality fonts cost money, sometimes a lot, and I don't letter enough for it to be worth it. I have gleaned a few fonts here and there from people I know who have them, but the best ones are at the studio and those are for Macs.
But once you get around the basics, lettering is somehow very relaxing.
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