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 Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2008 1:19 pm
If I found out he was pro-choice, I'd be like, "Sorry, you're cute and all, but I choose life."
If he was netural, but leaning to the pro-life side, I'd try to educate him to come to the good side. But how do you date someone who advocates the barbaric murder of an innocent baby?
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Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2008 11:38 pm
Rosary16 If I found out he was pro-choice, I'd be like, "Sorry, you're cute and all, but I choose life." If he was netural, but leaning to the pro-life side, I'd try to educate him to come to the good side. But how do you date someone who advocates the barbaric murder of an innocent baby? Well, to be honest, because they don't advocate the barbaric murder of an innocent baby. While I get your point, Pro-Choicers just don't think of it like that. And they have valid reasons to think otherwise; They're wrong, but their concerns are still valid, and they shouldn't be treated like they support murder.
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Posted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 2:59 pm
I could not date a pro-choicer. I can be friends with someone who disagrees with me morally, but I could not marry someone like that. What if I got pregnant, and he tried to pressure me into having an abortion?
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Posted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 3:51 pm
Tjix I could not date a pro-choicer. I can be friends with someone who disagrees with me morally, but I could not marry someone like that. What if I got pregnant, and he tried to pressure me into having an abortion? ^THAT. I realize not everyone would, but that's a big risk to take.
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Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:41 pm
lymelady Tjix I could not date a pro-choicer. I can be friends with someone who disagrees with me morally, but I could not marry someone like that. What if I got pregnant, and he tried to pressure me into having an abortion? ^THAT. I realize not everyone would, but that's a big risk to take. Of course. And, like I said, I could care about and be friends with someone who is pro-abortion, but I could not marry someone with whom I disagree so profoundly.
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Posted: Sun Mar 01, 2009 6:41 pm
I, being as politically interested as I am, would find out those things early on, or probably before we started dating. I already know I couldn't spend my life with anyone who isn't as far right-wing Republican as I am, so more than likely it wouldn't happen to begin with lol.
Not that I can't get along with the more liberal kind, my best friend is one lol. It's just that I would argue too much with someone as close as that lol.
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Posted: Sun Mar 01, 2009 11:59 pm
lymelady Tjix I could not date a pro-choicer. I can be friends with someone who disagrees with me morally, but I could not marry someone like that. What if I got pregnant, and he tried to pressure me into having an abortion? ^THAT. I realize not everyone would, but that's a big risk to take. But wouldn't that make them pro-abortion, not pro-choice. I thought if they were pro-choice they would support ANY decision?
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Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 9:11 pm
sachiko_sohma lymelady Tjix I could not date a pro-choicer. I can be friends with someone who disagrees with me morally, but I could not marry someone like that. What if I got pregnant, and he tried to pressure me into having an abortion? ^THAT. I realize not everyone would, but that's a big risk to take. But wouldn't that make them pro-abortion, not pro-choice. I thought if they were pro-choice they would support ANY decision? In theory; But how many Pro-Choicers do you know who wouldn't say that "In such and such conditions, you should get an abortion?" They might not force you to have an abortion, but they'll be very disappointed if you don't. And when it's your boyfriend, that's a lot of pressure to deal with.
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Posted: Tue Mar 03, 2009 9:01 pm
I.Am sachiko_sohma lymelady Tjix I could not date a pro-choicer. I can be friends with someone who disagrees with me morally, but I could not marry someone like that. What if I got pregnant, and he tried to pressure me into having an abortion? ^THAT. I realize not everyone would, but that's a big risk to take. But wouldn't that make them pro-abortion, not pro-choice. I thought if they were pro-choice they would support ANY decision? In theory; But how many Pro-Choicers do you know who wouldn't say that "In such and such conditions, you should get an abortion?" They might not force you to have an abortion, but they'll be very disappointed if you don't. And when it's your boyfriend, that's a lot of pressure to deal with. That is true. Nowadays many people only seem to care about pleasure and themselves (what makes them happy) and nothing else, that can only satisfy people for so long. I wouldn't a boyfriend that only seems to care about nothing but sex (relationships need more then just that) and if anything came up, would leave or try to push me into something I don't agree with. Even marriages need more then just sex (that is just one part of relationships), and it wouldn't last every long if he is disappointed that I wouldn't abort except if there is serious complications (like something that is life or death) should I become pregnant.
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Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 7:52 am
I could date a pro-choicer, however, I cannot date beign as I am going to be celibate my whole life as a priest. If I were not to take the vocations, then yes, yes I could date a pro-choicer so long as the issue were never brought up.
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Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 9:38 am
Rainbowfied Mouse I could date a pro-choicer, however, I cannot date beign as I am going to be celibate my whole life as a priest. If I were not to take the vocations, then yes, yes I could date a pro-choicer so long as the issue were never brought up. You're going to be a priest? I didn't even know you were Catholic! Anyways, not to understate your sexual orientation, but as a gay man you wouldn't face the same problems the heterosexuals would anyways, right? I mean, there'd be no pregnancies, so you wouldn't have to worry about whether he would try to force you to get an abortion, or if he'd get an abortion despite your stance if he were to get pregnant. I'm just curious what your position on heterosexual couples dating across the aisle, so to speak, is.
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Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:18 pm
I.Am Rainbowfied Mouse I could date a pro-choicer, however, I cannot date beign as I am going to be celibate my whole life as a priest. If I were not to take the vocations, then yes, yes I could date a pro-choicer so long as the issue were never brought up. You're going to be a priest? I didn't even know you were Catholic! Anyways, not to understate your sexual orientation, but as a gay man you wouldn't face the same problems the heterosexuals would anyways, right? I mean, there'd be no pregnancies, so you wouldn't have to worry about whether he would try to force you to get an abortion, or if he'd get an abortion despite your stance if he were to get pregnant. I'm just curious what your position on heterosexual couples dating across the aisle, so to speak, is. Lol, of course there's that problem as well. I never really thought about that, I guess if I were straight I wouldn't be able to do it, unless her opinion was "I'd personally never get an abortion.... but"
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Posted: Sat May 30, 2009 12:11 pm
It wouldn't be a problem for me; I mean, if they're pro-choice then they feel it's my body, my choice right!? And if they ever did try to pressure me to abort, THEN it would be over.
I think it's easier from the woman's point of view being the pro-lifer though. If a male pro-lifer is dating a female pro-choicer, I think the situation is much more complicated.
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Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 5:33 pm
i could never date a pro-choice. thank God my babe is a strong pro-lifer.
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 9:55 am
I don't think it would really matter to me. I believe that everyone is entitled to their opinions and views, even if they are different from what I believe. It would be more important that they felt the same way.
Actually, I am the only pro-life person I know, besides my father. My entire family and all of my friends are pro-choice. I think it's because I am very liberal minded in most of my politics, and I tend to associate with people who have mostly similar mindsets.
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