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 Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 4:37 pm
No. I don't really tell anybody, unless they ask.
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Posted: Fri Jul 29, 2005 10:14 pm
My friends a kinda homophobic
one of them is so homophobic that he refuses to talk to anyone that is gay, sadly that same person is one of my best friends
my friend Michael would be very supportive and not ridicule me, he's just that kind of a nice person ( he'd forgive you if you shot him in the leg )
I'm also afraid that they wouldn't let me sleep over at their houses anymore whee
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2005 6:01 pm
If someone asks i'll tell them that i'm bi, and i'll openly check other girls out sometimes, but if they don't ask its not my job to tell and certainly not something i should be forced to tell.
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 1:47 pm
FemmeGambit If someone asks i'll tell them that i'm bi, and i'll openly check other girls out sometimes, but if they don't ask its not my job to tell and certainly not something i should be forced to tell. Yeah I have to agree with you on that one. I don't think that they should know if you really don't know them. If you do, then I guess thats how abunch of bullshit starts! ( I know from experince) Yeah So, I guess if they ask you then, yeah you can tell them if you want to. But remember they don't really need to know unless you want them to know. Does that make sense. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 3:35 pm
lil_coco101 S.R.Osuna I wish I could, but I know my own parents would never in any way disaprove of my sexuality and I'm STILL too shy to tell them. ya... i feel the same way... .. but i dont know what my parents would think... cuz i am the only one... well the only one that i know of that is bi...... and i dont know how to tell other people I have an oppisite prob....i know too many people who are bi and i think my mom might think that i'm just trying to be kool which is not true.
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 3:59 pm
I'm no shy to tell people that I'm bi.
I'm purdy open about my sexuality and almost anything. xD
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:45 pm
If they are really your friends then they will love you no matter what... I mean it's up to you weather you come out. You should just be who you want to be that's all im saying..
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 12:23 am
I'm not really (read: at all) shy about it, but I have learned that the stereotypes can be a problem. One guy basically assumed I was some kind of slut and asked if my girlfriend and I would have sex with him. He was totally fine as a friend before, but...ahahah.
So, still friends, but much more wary about what I say around him.
Beyond that, I argue the "you're just confused" statements and stuff and generally be myself. My school's pretty accepting, and relatively aware of the fact that not all bisexuals are promiscuous.
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 6:20 pm
I don't remember if I've posted here before or if this is a repeat. Meh. I shall post.
I told my first real-life friend that I was bisexual a couple days ago, and I've realized I was bi about a year ago. At first she didn't believe me but finally came around and I think she took it well. She's still speaking to me and has no problem with it. Also, to the extent of my knowlegde, she hasn't told anyone. I'm glad that the first person I told didn't laugh in my face and run away from me. It will give me more confidence to tell others and I hope I can be fully open one day. But for now, at least someone knows, and that's what makes me happier.
It's okay to be shy, in my opinion. Hell, I was shy for an entire year. It's nerve-racking to think of the possibilities that could come around from simply telling someone your secret. My mind was full of what-ifs and my heart raced when I built up the courage to tell her. Everyone has their own time and place to tell someone so don't feel that because you're taking a certain amount of time, that you're too weak or too scared to tell. It just takes time. To anyone who's still completely inside of their closet (and I've only stuck a toe out of mine), don't feel rushed by what anyone here says. It's all a matter of comfortability.
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2005 9:21 am
Dark Souls I don't remember if I've posted here before or if this is a repeat. Meh. I shall post. I told my first real-life friend that I was bisexual a couple days ago, and I've realized I was bi about a year ago. At first she didn't believe me but finally came around and I think she took it well. She's still speaking to me and has no problem with it. Also, to the extent of my knowlegde, she hasn't told anyone. I'm glad that the first person I told didn't laugh in my face and run away from me. It will give me more confidence to tell others and I hope I can be fully open one day. But for now, at least someone knows, and that's what makes me happier. It's okay to be shy, in my opinion. Hell, I was shy for an entire year. It's nerve-racking to think of the possibilities that could come around from simply telling someone your secret. My mind was full of what-ifs and my heart raced when I built up the courage to tell her. Everyone has their own time and place to tell someone so don't feel that because you're taking a certain amount of time, that you're too weak or too scared to tell. It just takes time. To anyone who's still completely inside of their closet (and I've only stuck a toe out of mine), don't feel rushed by what anyone here says. It's all a matter of comfortability. Yeah, that's really why it's a good idea to pick someone close to you that you're certain won't reject you when you first come out. It's important to have at least that one first person trust you and accept you--from there, you can find the strength to really do it. I came out first to my closest friends, who I knew already were extremely accepting and treated us just like anyone else (I was able to gauge because there were already others who were out at school). They gave me the encouragement I needed to come all the way out.
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 8:06 am
Im not but I cant muster up enough courage to tell my ma.... Why are you so shy about it?
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 12:15 pm
Sadism_Godess Im not but I cant muster up enough courage to tell my ma.... Why are you so shy about it? Could be disowned and/or beat up from the parent(s).
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 3:25 pm
Drak of Paradise Sadism_Godess Im not but I cant muster up enough courage to tell my ma.... Why are you so shy about it? Could be disowned and/or beat up from the parent(s). well my friend thats where you only tell your friends and tell them if they tell your parents that you'll torture painfully...make a threat that'll scare them XDXDXDXDXDDXD and if your parents disown you then they arn't very good parents.
There is this band called King's X and the lead vocalist Doug(I know him personally by my father they were childhood friends) and he is gay and his parents were never around he was raised by his grandmother who was a very religious lady but old doug nobody wanted or loved himand he is wrong but besides the point of that the main thing he spoke of in one of his CD's is......
To Parents:
No matter what your childeren do,what they look like,what clothes they wear or what kinda rock-n-roll they listen to,or even if they have tatoos make sure your kids know you love them no matter who or what they are!
Because if you dont they'll grow up ******** UP!
(spoken word for word)
the point in all of this you cant change who you are but know if they cant except you for who you are then you always have otehr out there who are just like you.....I haven't told my ma for many reasons......but I plan to one day and sooner rather then later.
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 11:05 pm
I told my sister, and she all but disowned me, she is terified of lesbians/ bi-females. She thinks their going to get crushes on her. Which would never happen for me, nasty, plus my sisters not that great looking. So if my sister reacted this way, I could only imange how my father would act, my whole life he has pressured me to make sure I'm not Bi/ les. My mother is a devote Catholic, but she's smart, and she does support G/B/L. Though she would probably make me go to church. My dad's side of the family would be totally weird about it. Actting ocward around me etc.. My mom's side of the family wouldn't act much different.
Short version, no I have not and I will not unless I get a girlfriend. My family does not need to know.
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 1:27 am
yes. only 3 of my friends know
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