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 Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:01 am
TweedleKeys LunaInverse Wow...the AG is dead. Everyone must have lives tonight. rofl I went to the ballet! heart
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:09 am
AzurePaleSky Raven_Darkholme AzurePaleSky OMG, Spider asked her?? Good luck! I know things are so passionate with her, but the fact that you guys haven't even really experienced being a couple together for a long time makes me wary. It's all really fast and sweet and good at first, but after a while things change and sometimes it's for the better and sometimes not. I think it'd be best for you both to wait a while and see how things pan out, without a pressure (but of course you know this relationship better than me). It just seems strange to marry someone you haven't really dated? At least wait a year or two after dating to think about marriage... it's more just a statement to others about your relationship. So have that relationship first. And to Bart, Feel better!! heart
.... how old am I again? gonk
Uh... but yes, date first! scream And use birth control!
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 10:05 am
Kinetic Dream AzurePaleSky Ashram McDuck Barty H Nelson hilaroma It turns out I had two on my camera. ninja http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v462/hilaroma/DSC08342.jpg http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v462/hilaroma/DSC08341.jpg Actually, I believe male pattern baldness is on the x chromosome, which is why it affects males so much. And since it's on the x, you actually inherit this from your mother, so blame her! blaugh Or, he could blame his dad since he wasn't born a girl. Ooo, good point!
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:15 am
Peppermint Elf AzurePaleSky Raven_Darkholme AzurePaleSky OMG, Spider asked her?? Good luck! I know things are so passionate with her, but the fact that you guys haven't even really experienced being a couple together for a long time makes me wary. It's all really fast and sweet and good at first, but after a while things change and sometimes it's for the better and sometimes not. I think it'd be best for you both to wait a while and see how things pan out, without a pressure (but of course you know this relationship better than me). It just seems strange to marry someone you haven't really dated? At least wait a year or two after dating to think about marriage... it's more just a statement to others about your relationship. So have that relationship first. And to Bart, Feel better!! heart
.... how old am I again? gonk
Uh... but yes, date first! scream And use birth control!I think I'm going to have to go with Nabs and Rachel on this one. Getting to know each other and date first would probably be the best for everything to work out how you both want it to. Like Nabs said, there's no saying that it wouldn't work out, but things like marriage sometimes are for the better. I've known people that have known each other for only a week or so and got married, but..I don't know about this one. Like you said, you asked her three times just to be your girlfriend and she said no, and then you bring up marriage and she's hovering over whether to say yes or no. I'd look at that first and think about it, it seems like it would be a little fishy, ya know? You've mentioned her having problems where she's living, and if you're offering marriage and a possible way out that's far, far away..that would be a reason for considering taking up the offer. If you do get engaged, just don't rush into actually getting married. Give that some time in itself and use it to get to know each other better as being a couple.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 12:26 pm
Phoenix Goliathane You guys asked for it. So, I have a friend. Or possibly had one. He used to be a cool guy, really nice. But then, for some reason, he began to change - he began to start fighting with some of my other friends for seemingly no reason whatsoever. I offered to mediate, but since I didn't have any authority at the time, I couldn't do much. Anyway. So, a couple of days ago, I'm reading the friendslist for one of my journals, and I read an entry from this guy. In it, he takes a huge steaming s**t on one of his oldest friends and one of my own friends. To add insult to injury, a lot of my other friends are like, "well, yeah, she's a useless b***h anyway! ******** her, you're awesome!" And it kind of felt like I'd witnessed my own murder I was the victim of a serious crime I'd been kicked in the stomach. Not only because of that on its own, but because a couple of weeks ago, he s**t all over my boyfriend and a couple of my other friends right where they could see it, and just dismissed it as "a bad day." I mean, yeah, I've had bad days myself, and I've been really snappish. But I was just totally hurt by that myself. Maybe I'm getting a bit overly sensitive in my old age, but that's just my opinion. Maybe it's because this kind of hits home for me - one of my own friends dumped me for someone who was "better" (she also used to be my friend until she turned back into a conniving b***h) and pretty much spent two months doing nothing but talking about how awesome this other friend was like no one else existed. But it's like...I know I should probably stay out of it, but it freaking kills me to see this happening. And if push comes to shove, I'm afraid that I'll have to just...cut him out of my life, like he never existed. I genuinely liked him, but it seems that all he does now is just treat people I respect like s**t. It sounds like you've given him a warning with 'that's not cool' so I think you're all clear to say "you're being a d**k and it has become a trend." However, I'm not sure that would help with whatever is wrong. It really sounds like something snapped in your friend. You might want to go out and say "You can lay out for me what's wrong, what you're upset about, what's going on with your life or whatever. If you don't, I'm not going to stand around and wait for it to come out or try to pry it out of you. I can't stand to watch this happening anymore though" and then let yourself drift away from it all. It really isn't worth your stress, though I'm sure the breakaway would be stressful for a good while afterwards as well. It sounds like it would be really hard to totally cut him out if he's part of your social network though. (Also, sucks about your other friend too... I've seen that happen and been the 'trade-in' friend myself too many times.)
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 12:29 pm
Akimbo Peppermint Elf AzurePaleSky Raven_Darkholme AzurePaleSky OMG, Spider asked her?? Good luck! I know things are so passionate with her, but the fact that you guys haven't even really experienced being a couple together for a long time makes me wary. It's all really fast and sweet and good at first, but after a while things change and sometimes it's for the better and sometimes not. I think it'd be best for you both to wait a while and see how things pan out, without a pressure (but of course you know this relationship better than me). It just seems strange to marry someone you haven't really dated? At least wait a year or two after dating to think about marriage... it's more just a statement to others about your relationship. So have that relationship first. And to Bart, Feel better!! heart
.... how old am I again? gonk
Uh... but yes, date first! scream And use birth control!I think I'm going to have to go with Nabs and Rachel on this one. Getting to know each other and date first would probably be the best for everything to work out how you both want it to. Like Nabs said, there's no saying that it wouldn't work out, but things like marriage sometimes are for the better. I've known people that have known each other for only a week or so and got married, but..I don't know about this one. Like you said, you asked her three times just to be your girlfriend and she said no, and then you bring up marriage and she's hovering over whether to say yes or no. I'd look at that first and think about it, it seems like it would be a little fishy, ya know? You've mentioned her having problems where she's living, and if you're offering marriage and a possible way out that's far, far away..that would be a reason for considering taking up the offer. If you do get engaged, just don't rush into actually getting married. Give that some time in itself and use it to get to know each other better as being a couple. I also support the long engagement idea. It seems like the best compromise. Of course, I like to sit around and joke that people who have been dating for "only" five years are rushing into things.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 12:32 pm
Skizzors IT IS SNOWING. TODAY, I SEE BEOWULF. (events not actually related) *snow envy* Are you going to see it in 3D? In very very very skewly relatedness, I come closer and closer to getting a Netflix account to keep me company for the holiday season. The thought of having to come up with my list of things to rent makes my lazy sensors say 'you don't have to get one yet...'
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 12:54 pm
So, a question for the AG:
Do I enter myself in the Avatar Arena? I kind of have something that I have in mind to enter, since I really liked how it came out. But on the other hand, lol AvA.
And it's snowing? Granted, I live pretty much in the city, and it's kind of cold, but not enough to snow here.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 1:13 pm
I am never going to get 999 ninetails. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 1:43 pm
I think if you just go to Payon 5, you should be good. cool It takes a bit of hunting, but it shouldn't be that long there.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 2:30 pm
Peppermint Elf AzurePaleSky Raven_Darkholme AzurePaleSky OMG, Spider asked her?? Good luck! I know things are so passionate with her, but the fact that you guys haven't even really experienced being a couple together for a long time makes me wary. It's all really fast and sweet and good at first, but after a while things change and sometimes it's for the better and sometimes not. I think it'd be best for you both to wait a while and see how things pan out, without a pressure (but of course you know this relationship better than me). It just seems strange to marry someone you haven't really dated? At least wait a year or two after dating to think about marriage... it's more just a statement to others about your relationship. So have that relationship first. And to Bart, Feel better!! heart
.... how old am I again? gonk
Uh... but yes, date first! scream And use birth control! Birth control is eeeeeeeeeevil. @Spider: No matter what happens, good luck. The right thing is different for different people and I'm a bit young (well, inexperienced is the better word here) to say "Oh, this is what I think you should do", but I can at least wish you luck 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 2:48 pm
Phoenix Goliathane I think if you just go to Payon 5, you should be good. cool It takes a bit of hunting, but it shouldn't be that long there. Oh I am way down in Payon. It's just taking forever. At least I'm up to..200 something now. gonk
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 2:51 pm
Phoenix Goliathane So, a question for the AG: Do I enter myself in the Avatar Arena? I kind of have something that I have in mind to enter, since I really liked how it came out. But on the other hand, lol AvA. And it's snowing? Granted, I live pretty much in the city, and it's kind of cold, but not enough to snow here. Dooo eeeeet! We've had snow flurries here, but nothing is sticking. Yet.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 3:35 pm
Peppermint Elf Streamjumper Akimbo Did somebody say zipperbear? -Grabs her fire arrows.- I believe so... *dons his mask, hefts mace, and calls out unholy blessings with a smile* WHERE IS YOUR GOD NOW?
He's staring at me again! crying
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 3:38 pm
Skizzors I saw Bee Movie! heart I spent, like.. 90% of the middle third trying to recognize this one guy's voice. And then I realized -- KRONK. heart heart
He's in...pretty much everything, I think.
As he should be.
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