|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 8:15 pm
Kilana Urbane I keep thinking about birth control too. Not just because my period is painful and can be irregular, but also because I'm sexually active and condoms cause issues between my bf and I. Apparently, his ADD also lends itself to bedroom activities and distractions (such as putting a condom on). So his shrink says. But I'm not keen on filling my body with hormones.
Anyway, my worst pain is during the first few days of my period, and I've been prescribed Ponstel for my cramps. Usually I only have to take two when I know I'm about to get my period, and that's enough to keep my cramps at bay, or at least faint. You might want to look into it.
I want a Fausto's bottle even more now. x.x
Well, I think I need to get on BC because yeah, I am sexually active now. We have no problem using condoms, however, paranoia hits and I'm worried that it won't be enough. What if it breaks, what if it has a hole in it, what if it leaks, etc.
I haven't been to a doctor yet, but I think I just need to get a general checkup from a gyno. I haven't had any exams done at all -- which is bad, I know, but I didn't become sexually active til a couple months ago. I know you're supposed to get it done around 18, or when you become sexually active, whichever comes first, but I never thought about it. But now that I am sexually active, I think I need to discuss BC, the health of everything down there, make sure everything's okay, and also yeah, about my severe nausea and cramps. They just started getting SEVERE within the last couple months, actually -- before I was fine. So yeah, I'm thinking a doctor/gyno trip is in order ... when I can get the money. ._.;;Why won't he respond? Did his phone die? I'm betting it did. Silly boy. Looks like I'll just have to drop by the store and see what's up. c_c; If you're poor as heck like me, Planned Parenthood is a fantastic place to get all kinds of important stuff for free. : D Now if they only had a Take Charge for gingivitis. xPI should get around to actually drawing something cool and make use of that children's book illustration class, but I feel like my drawing sucks too much. Maybe I should make a web comic of it. domokun
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 9:11 pm
Ha ha, my University made it onto the front of the Flying Spaghetti Monster site once again.
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 11:07 pm
On the subject of BC -
I dislike birth control pills, and I complain about them so much that if there were a reliable pill for guys, my man would probably take it instead of me. Even though it sounds romantic to just be skin-on-skin without the rubber, it's messy and awkward after it's over.
I had a few bad experiences with the pill for about 5 months before I found the right one and got used to it. It was pretty awful, I got sent to psychological counseling during that time and my boyfriend would wake up in the middle of the night to find me curled up in the corner of his room.
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 11:36 pm
Sirius Silverstar On the subject of BC - I dislike birth control pills, and I complain about them so much that if there were a reliable pill for guys, my man would probably take it instead of me. Even though it sounds romantic to just be skin-on-skin without the rubber, it's messy and awkward after it's over.
I had a few bad experiences with the pill for about 5 months before I found the right one and got used to it. It was pretty awful, I got sent to psychological counseling during that time and my boyfriend would wake up in the middle of the night to find me curled up in the corner of his room. Well, honestly, I think even though I'd be on BC I'd make him still suit up. Double protection, you know? I really don't want to worry about kids right now -- I'm 21, he's 19 (20 in a couple weeks), we don't need kids. D: I mean, if it happens .. we'll deal with it, but as for now, we really don't want kids.
And egh, I'm sorry you had such a horrible time with BC. But I'm ... already pretty emotionally wrecked right now. I'm hoping maybe that it'll help me level out my emotions though. D: A few nights ago I couldn't sleep while he fell asleep, got out of the room to watch a little TV to try to get my mind off things, ended up crying, and then ended up curled in the corner sobbing. He woke up and was like "omg what's wrong?!" and I'm like I DON'T KNOW I STARTED CRYING FOR NO REASON. D: It was true. I don't know why I started crying. I just did. And wouldn't stop.
@_@; Bleh. I guess I'd just have to talk to a doctor to try to figure out what'd be best for me. D: I hope I'd have better luck.Boys are weird. o_o;
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 12:08 am
Kilana Sirius Silverstar On the subject of BC - I dislike birth control pills, and I complain about them so much that if there were a reliable pill for guys, my man would probably take it instead of me. Even though it sounds romantic to just be skin-on-skin without the rubber, it's messy and awkward after it's over.
I had a few bad experiences with the pill for about 5 months before I found the right one and got used to it. It was pretty awful, I got sent to psychological counseling during that time and my boyfriend would wake up in the middle of the night to find me curled up in the corner of his room. Well, honestly, I think even though I'd be on BC I'd make him still suit up. Double protection, you know? I really don't want to worry about kids right now -- I'm 21, he's 19 (20 in a couple weeks), we don't need kids. D: I mean, if it happens .. we'll deal with it, but as for now, we really don't want kids.
And egh, I'm sorry you had such a horrible time with BC. But I'm ... already pretty emotionally wrecked right now. I'm hoping maybe that it'll help me level out my emotions though. D: A few nights ago I couldn't sleep while he fell asleep, got out of the room to watch a little TV to try to get my mind off things, ended up crying, and then ended up curled in the corner sobbing. He woke up and was like "omg what's wrong?!" and I'm like I DON'T KNOW I STARTED CRYING FOR NO REASON. D: It was true. I don't know why I started crying. I just did. And wouldn't stop.
@_@; Bleh. I guess I'd just have to talk to a doctor to try to figure out what'd be best for me. D: I hope I'd have better luck.Boys are weird. o_o; My nurse practitioner told me that you're still supposed to used condoms anyway, even with BC, so I'd say that's smart of you. :3 Maybe we girls are the weird ones. We get moody and cry in corners of rooms and fall asleep in bathtubs after sobbing for no reason. Is it a stage or something? :[
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 12:23 am
C'mon, boy. Don't be like this. You've already admitted that you want to see us - just come visit.
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 12:50 am
Yes! Gaia is finally using the events section for sponsored crap again. No more logging into 50 announcements after a short hiatus!
AND they didn't use the theatre for the Waterhorse trailer, so you don't have to wait forever just to see the stupid clip. But it wouldn't load for me...
Edit: Okay... it loaded... No quest. No item. What the ********? I've seen the trailer 50 times on TV, I really didn't need to see it again just for the hell of it.
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 1:14 am
You women and your vagoos.
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 1:55 am
Sirius Silverstar My nurse practitioner told me that you're still supposed to used condoms anyway, even with BC, so I'd say that's smart of you. :3 Maybe we girls are the weird ones. We get moody and cry in corners of rooms and fall asleep in bathtubs after sobbing for no reason. Is it a stage or something? :[ It's funny, one of my good friends (who happens to be a little TMI with me at times XD) told me that his girlfriend is on BC but they don't use condoms -- instead he pulls out. I was like EW EW EW EW THANKS FOR THE VISUAL. :U And then, he scolds me for only using condoms, saying I should be on BC. I was like, THANKS a**, YOU DON'T USE CONDOMS EITHER. 8D He's like "err, yeah... right." And nah, boys are just weird. I was sitting here browsing internets for a few and the boy came up behind me and started kissing my neck and ears for no reason, then went on about how beautiful or attractive I was or something. I was just like, uh huh sure. I -still- find it hard to take him seriously, I just have that poor of an image of myself. D: Meh. But he's just silly. But I know he means it, so I'm trying to believe him. ;(
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 5:17 am
Wolffy000 You women and your vagoos. The correct term would be vajayjays. XD
And I'd probably go with the pull out method while on BC. 'Sides, it's been a while since either of us had enough time or energy to come during intercourse. (Another factor- his lack of lower back muscles. Damn scoliosis.) Uhhh, that wasn't supposed to sound like bragging. sweatdrop
And K- Yeah, mine does that too. But believing him has made me realize that he's right about a lot of things. <3
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 10:41 am
Awww, but that's so sweet, Kilana! He doesn't need a reason to keese you! He loves you. ;3
Sex makes me sleepy. I'm such a cuddle-bug.
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 10:54 am
I missed Amanda. ;w; I'm so glad she found her phone!
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:01 am
Urbane Wolffy000 You women and your vagoos. The correct term would be vajayjays.
Image removed by Pyre - I don't think that's really Gaia-appropriate.
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 11:39 am
@ Urby: Well, I'd probably still use condoms with BC so pull out isn't an option. XD;
@ Aivi: Yeah, it's sweet. It's just so random. He just attacks me with love so randomly. x3 I love it, but it's just like, "wow, where did that come from?" I guess as a whole I'm not used to it since nobody's ever really been affectionate to me before. And I'm really not used to him saying I'm sexy, attractive, hot, beautiful, etc. Since I really haven't had anyone (besides parents) tell me that before. D: But I know he's sincere so I'm learning to listen to him and maybe starting to believe it. And sex makes me sleepy too. I'm just like "awww curl up tiem~!" afterwards.
And wow. After last night, I am definitely getting BC somehow. Ugh. Talk about ironic, after all the BC talk in the thread yesterday and then last night something somewhat scary happens. It's too TMI to talk about in the open, but I'm sure everything's gonna be alright. Just was a scare. D: SIGH. ;_;
At least he's good at calming me down. I probably would have panicked myself to death if he hadn't forced me to breathe and just gently held me. D:
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 12:19 pm
I have to go into work today for four hours and take a 30 minute break. Honestly, what the ******** is the point?
|
 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|