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 Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 5:37 am
QUESTION
kind of embarrassing .... should you use a condom for oral sex on guys?
I thought that you didnt have to and that it was quite um common
its sounds to me like it would defeat the purpose
but after seeing a condom commercial that basically said that condoms should be worn for oral sex for guys
im terribly confused
HELP thanks!! xx
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 8:38 am
Alexandra J0 QUESTION kind of embarrassing .... should you use a condom for oral sex on guys? I thought that you didnt have to and that it was quite um common its sounds to me like it would defeat the purpose but after seeing a condom commercial that basically said that condoms should be worn for oral sex for guys im terribly confused HELP thanks!! xx Yes. They make flavored condoms specifically for oral sex. STDs can be transmitted through oral sex too. Although once you are in a committed relationship and have both been tested for STDs, you could opt to ditch the condoms during oral sex if you want.
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Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 9:54 pm
bustinrs2kickurs I'm finding I rather receive oral than give it. When I give it to my bf...idk his c** makes me wants to puke. i feel bad b/c he likes it, but even just licking it or smelling it make me gag. i dont know how to tell him that. plus he wants me to take in more which i cant so i have two gag factors at the same time. and his c** makes me physically sick after. Like i get really nauseous and i have to drink a bunch of stuff to make the taste go away which is really hard. We are going to try 1.) him changing the stuff he eats maybe making it better 2.) drenching him in chocolate syrup. lol thats should be fun.
I'm very scared about trying a**l b/c of the hurt factor. but he wants too. *sigh* we will see... make sure the syrup is sugarless... i've heard that sugar in the p***s and v****a can cause some problems
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Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 10:01 pm
My gf says she likes giving me head, but when she's doing it I sometimes get the feeling that shes affraid i'll c** in her mouth.. i assure her that if i'm anywhere near that point i'll tell her and she can finish with her hand, but she always pulls away long before after about 5 - 10 seconds of it. I can't figure out why..
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2008 3:26 pm
evanfeldkamp My gf says she likes giving me head, but when she's doing it I sometimes get the feeling that shes affraid i'll c** in her mouth.. i assure her that if i'm anywhere near that point i'll tell her and she can finish with her hand, but she always pulls away long before after about 5 - 10 seconds of it. I can't figure out why.. Talk to her and ask! smile That's the only way to know, since we can't read her mind. Maybe she's afraid you won't tell her in time, or you'll ejaculate prematurely. Maybe she doesn't like the taste, or the texture. You guys can try flavored lube (if you do ejaculate, she might not taste it as much), or flavored condoms (that's what they're for!). With the condoms, she can give you head and if you do ejaculate early or whatever, she won't have to taste it or get it in her mouth.
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Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 2:44 pm
Nikolita evanfeldkamp My gf says she likes giving me head, but when she's doing it I sometimes get the feeling that shes affraid i'll c** in her mouth.. i assure her that if i'm anywhere near that point i'll tell her and she can finish with her hand, but she always pulls away long before after about 5 - 10 seconds of it. I can't figure out why.. Talk to her and ask! smile That's the only way to know, since we can't read her mind. Maybe she's afraid you won't tell her in time, or you'll ejaculate prematurely. Maybe she doesn't like the taste, or the texture. You guys can try flavored lube (if you do ejaculate, she might not taste it as much), or flavored condoms (that's what they're for!). With the condoms, she can give you head and if you do ejaculate early or whatever, she won't have to taste it or get it in her mouth. i have talked to her and she says tha she doesn't want me to c** in her mouth. I assured her that I wouldn't, but she still seems affriad. She also has told me it's because she feels bad because it takes a while, but i say the longer she makes it last the better it feels and the greater the outcome(no pun intended. How can i really assure her I won't c** in her mouth? I've never had a premature ejaculation before.
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Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 9:56 pm
I don't know. I would assume all guys are different.
Ask her about the flavored condom idea. smile Maybe that would make her feel better. Then when the idea doesn't bother her as much, maybe she'd be more ok with giving oral sex without a condom.
I phrased it wrong in my last post, sorry. Not so much premature ejaculation as just ejaculating suddenly... also pre-c**, which can't be controlled.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 10:52 pm
"Dictionary.com defines oral sex as: "Sexual activity involving oral stimulation of one's partner's sex organs." For guys, this involves using one's finger/tongue/inanimate object (such as a vibrator, d***o, etc) to penetrate and stimulate a girl's v****a. For girls, this involves using ones lips, tongue and/or hand to stimulate a guy's p***s. "
Sex is not always between two people, you can do it alone or in a group as well. And, not everyone is heterosexual
so oral sex is to stimulate someone's genitals with mouth/tongue and a**l sex is to stimulate someone's a**s (usually by penetration).
I don't know if this is said, but if you're going to penetrate a v****a after penetrating an a**s (with a p***s, d***o or so), you have to take a new condom as the bacteria flora is different.
And, if giving oral to a v****a, you could use a part of a condom on your tongue. I don't know how this is done, but you use scissors to make the condom the right size. There are also "condoms" made for this, but I don't know what they're called and I think they're hard to get.
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 12:22 am
Mikusagi "Dictionary.com defines oral sex as: "Sexual activity involving oral stimulation of one's partner's sex organs." For guys, this involves using one's finger/tongue/inanimate object (such as a vibrator, d***o, etc) to penetrate and stimulate a girl's v****a. For girls, this involves using ones lips, tongue and/or hand to stimulate a guy's p***s. "
Sex is not always between two people, you can do it alone or in a group as well. And, not everyone is heterosexual
so oral sex is to stimulate someone's genitals with mouth/tongue and a**l sex is to stimulate someone's a**s (usually by penetration).
I don't know if this is said, but if you're going to penetrate a v****a after penetrating an a**s (with a p***s, d***o or so), you have to take a new condom as the bacteria flora is different.
And, if giving oral to a v****a, you could use a part of a condom on your tongue. I don't know how this is done, but you use scissors to make the condom the right size. There are also "condoms" made for this, but I don't know what they're called and I think they're hard to get. They're called dental dams I think?
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 12:19 pm
Nikolita Dictionary.com defines oral sex as: "Sexual activity involving oral stimulation of one's partner's sex organs." For guys, this involves using one's finger/tongue/inanimate object (such as a vibrator, d***o, etc) to penetrate and stimulate a girl's v****a. For girls, this involves using ones lips, tongue and/or hand to stimulate a guy's p***s. (I know that's pretty much common knowledge, but I've seen people ask about it on Gaia. sweatdrop )
And I still mean that this text shouldn't be so heterosexual.
"It could be using one's tongue to penetrate and/or stimulate a v****a, or using lips, mouth or tongue to stimulate a p***s"
Doesn't anyone agree with me?
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 1:51 pm
Mikusagi Nikolita Dictionary.com defines oral sex as: "Sexual activity involving oral stimulation of one's partner's sex organs." For guys, this involves using one's finger/tongue/inanimate object (such as a vibrator, d***o, etc) to penetrate and stimulate a girl's v****a. For girls, this involves using ones lips, tongue and/or hand to stimulate a guy's p***s. (I know that's pretty much common knowledge, but I've seen people ask about it on Gaia. sweatdrop )
And I still mean that this text shouldn't be so heterosexual.
"It could be using one's tongue to penetrate and/or stimulate a v****a, or using lips, mouth or tongue to stimulate a p***s"
Doesn't anyone agree with me?Yes, you're right. Oral sex is when someone uses their tongue, mouth, or lips to stimulate a partner's p***s, vulva, clitoris, v****a, or testicles. Oral sex may be combined with manual sex (using the hands for stimulation) or it may be combined with the use of sex toys.
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Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 1:41 pm
It can be combined with many things. Such as pornography, food, a**l sex, kissing, music, leather, whateverwhateverwhatever. Imagination, likes and dislikes is what limits you. The post could be almost as big as a book if it were to describe what you could combine with oral sex. I guess some examples are fine... but I read the text and understood it as oral sex is the same thing as using a d***o to stimulate someone's genitals. Which it isn't.
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Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 2:56 pm
Mikusagi It can be combined with many things. Such as pornography, food, a**l sex, kissing, music, leather, whateverwhateverwhatever. Imagination, likes and dislikes is what limits you. The post could be almost as big as a book if it were to describe what you could combine with oral sex. I guess some examples are fine... but I read the text and understood it as oral sex is the same thing as using a d***o to stimulate someone's genitals. Which it isn't. Yes, I agree.
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Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 6:37 am
I love giving and recieving with oral sex. And of course just like any other guy I love a**l.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:43 pm
LorienLlewellyn Mikusagi It can be combined with many things. Such as pornography, food, a**l sex, kissing, music, leather, whateverwhateverwhatever. Imagination, likes and dislikes is what limits you. The post could be almost as big as a book if it were to describe what you could combine with oral sex. I guess some examples are fine... but I read the text and understood it as oral sex is the same thing as using a d***o to stimulate someone's genitals. Which it isn't. Yes, I agree. Then if you guys think that something needs to be changed, you need to either PM me or post it in the Feedback Sticky, please. I don't have time to check every single thing in the guild, and would much appreciate if people would bring this to my attention instead of making me search for it. I'll go edit the information you guys were discussing. Thank you for the feedback. On a side note, a lot of the older stickies such as this one are just that: older, and perhaps not as up to date. They'll all from before I was affiliates with Mikusagi's guild, and so you might very well find that some of the information is deemed heterosexist or not as fluid as you might like. Again, I have no problem updating things or re-wording stuff, but I need to be told because I'm not going to go looking for it unless it's brought to my attention. I would also prefer you guys PM me about something or use the Feedback Sticky on the main page, because that's what it's meant for. If you're going to post in random stickies that you have a problem with something else on the other side of the guild, I'm probably not going to see it right away.
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