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 Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 5:40 pm
Silver Sage-General Lol my story's kinda depressing so take the warning here if you don't wanna read. Due to issues in my past, I never really developed mentally and couldn't really comprehend relationships and other stuff. But after graduating and going to college I started watching Pokemon a lot and realized that I was blushing whenever Ash took his shirt off. Took a few months to figure out what it meant but when I did I thought I was a monster from all the stuff my Christian relatives had always preached about. Sooo I tried driving my car off the road and cutting a lot before finally accepting what I was. xD And this was before I had even told anyone. Told my grandma and she called my aunt and they were telling me how god says its wrong. While I was crying. Lol fun times. I'm sorry to hear this. How is your family with it now or was this all recently?
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Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 6:53 pm
Gaga-Sexual Silver Sage-General Lol my story's kinda depressing so take the warning here if you don't wanna read. Due to issues in my past, I never really developed mentally and couldn't really comprehend relationships and other stuff. But after graduating and going to college I started watching Pokemon a lot and realized that I was blushing whenever Ash took his shirt off. Took a few months to figure out what it meant but when I did I thought I was a monster from all the stuff my Christian relatives had always preached about. Sooo I tried driving my car off the road and cutting a lot before finally accepting what I was. xD And this was before I had even told anyone. Told my grandma and she called my aunt and they were telling me how god says its wrong. While I was crying. Lol fun times. I'm sorry to hear this. How is your family with it now or was this all recently? Well I came out 4 years ago but they still talk about how I'm just confused. *shrugs*
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Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 8:09 pm
Silver Sage-General Gaga-Sexual Silver Sage-General Lol my story's kinda depressing so take the warning here if you don't wanna read. Due to issues in my past, I never really developed mentally and couldn't really comprehend relationships and other stuff. But after graduating and going to college I started watching Pokemon a lot and realized that I was blushing whenever Ash took his shirt off. Took a few months to figure out what it meant but when I did I thought I was a monster from all the stuff my Christian relatives had always preached about. Sooo I tried driving my car off the road and cutting a lot before finally accepting what I was. xD And this was before I had even told anyone. Told my grandma and she called my aunt and they were telling me how god says its wrong. While I was crying. Lol fun times. I'm sorry to hear this. How is your family with it now or was this all recently? Well I came out 4 years ago but they still talk about how I'm just confused. *shrugs* That sucks. Do you live with them still or did you just run away from it? It has to be hard to just deal with it day in and day out.
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Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 8:13 pm
Gaga-Sexual Silver Sage-General Gaga-Sexual Silver Sage-General Lol my story's kinda depressing so take the warning here if you don't wanna read. Due to issues in my past, I never really developed mentally and couldn't really comprehend relationships and other stuff. But after graduating and going to college I started watching Pokemon a lot and realized that I was blushing whenever Ash took his shirt off. Took a few months to figure out what it meant but when I did I thought I was a monster from all the stuff my Christian relatives had always preached about. Sooo I tried driving my car off the road and cutting a lot before finally accepting what I was. xD And this was before I had even told anyone. Told my grandma and she called my aunt and they were telling me how god says its wrong. While I was crying. Lol fun times. I'm sorry to hear this. How is your family with it now or was this all recently? Well I came out 4 years ago but they still talk about how I'm just confused. *shrugs* That sucks. Do you live with them still or did you just run away from it? It has to be hard to just deal with it day in and day out. Still living. I tried college for a few years but my depression caught up with me. I've been trying really hard to get a job cuz I wanna move away but so far no luck. But yeah...depending on what they do sometimes I'll just lay in bed all day.
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Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 8:29 pm
I went to school and told everyone of my friends I was bi. 1 year later I came out to all of them as gay. I was surprised at how many of my homophobe friends stayed my friend o.o
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Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 8:55 pm
I brought my girlfriend home for a sleep over slash exam study session.
Next Day:
Girlfriend goes home
Mom, "So is she your girlfriend?"
Me "uhhhhhh"
Mom, "I thought so."
then all my friends I just throw it out there to get all the awkwardness out of the way.
other family.... ya im just waiting for them to die.... i know that's harsh, but still
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Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 11:26 pm
On the ride home from picking me up my mom just asked, "So, are you seeing her?" I nodded and that was me coming out. She was talking about the lesbian that she introduced me to. xd
Super easy, my parents are very open minded with things and I'm their "good child" so it was totally okay. In fact they're the ones who drag me to pride parades and anything else that has the words "Pride" "Gay" or "Equality".. It gets tiring how over the top they are with it.. burning_eyes
I'm finding it rather difficult to tell them I'm dating a guy, they like taking me to all the "pro gay" things around here so once they find out I'm dating a guy they might just blow up.. rofl
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Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2011 11:53 pm
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Posted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 8:42 am
of what lol Elapsed Dreams On the ride home from picking me up my mom just asked, "So, are you seeing her?" I nodded and that was me coming out. She was talking about the lesbian that she introduced me to. icon_xd.gif Super easy, my parents are very open minded with things and I'm their "good child" so it was totally okay. In fact they're the ones who drag me to pride parades and anything else that has the words "Pride" "Gay" or "Equality".. It gets tiring how over the top they are with it.. burning_eyes.gif I'm finding it rather difficult to tell them I'm dating a guy, they like taking me to all the "pro gay" things around here so once they find out I'm dating a guy they might just blow up.. icon_rofl.gif Are you bi?
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Posted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 12:14 pm
Faith-The1Slayer of what lol Elapsed Dreams On the ride home from picking me up my mom just asked, "So, are you seeing her?" I nodded and that was me coming out. She was talking about the lesbian that she introduced me to. icon_xd.gif Super easy, my parents are very open minded with things and I'm their "good child" so it was totally okay. In fact they're the ones who drag me to pride parades and anything else that has the words "Pride" "Gay" or "Equality".. It gets tiring how over the top they are with it.. burning_eyes.gif I'm finding it rather difficult to tell them I'm dating a guy, they like taking me to all the "pro gay" things around here so once they find out I'm dating a guy they might just blow up.. icon_rofl.gif Are you bi? Eh the accepting parents.
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Posted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 1:24 pm
I never had any issues "coming out" at all as bisexual. When I got into high school everyone pretty much knew, because I was straight about it. I told my group of friends and no one really cared. Half of them had bisexual tendencies themselves. xD
My high school was actually pretty cool, in retrospect. People made fun of me every now and then, but they got over it. I openly dated a girl in 9th grade and everyone knew about it. And I don't remember being harassed at all.
I never even gave it much thought. I've been bi for as long as I can remember. I think I told my mom when I was 12 or something, I'm 19 now. I never really had issues with it like some people.
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 5:46 am
If I could share them I would, hey if I knew you in person they might adopt you like they have all of my good friends. xd My house is the "safe place" for all of my friends, so if you wanna share them we can. 3nodding
But what's really weird is that one sign of issues with my older brother they send him off, I come out as lesbian and they accept it too much.. I really don't like how they're trying to make up for what they've done to my brother by spoiling me. He gets murdered then all the sudden I can paint my room and have all my friends spend the night, stay up all hours of the night and not do my chores for weeks and they do nothing. I only do those things to see if there's even a limit anymore, which I think it stops right at murder..
Last month I just happened to tell my mom I was in the mood for Costco cake, so what does she pick up the next day after work? A Costco cake.. She has never done that before..
Don't get me wrong I'm glad my parents are accepting it just bugs me that I don't know if it's because they feel guilty about my brother or if they really accept it..
They are open minded and all, but I can't help but wonder if they accept me for me or if they accept me for my older brother..
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 5:51 am
Faith-The1Slayer of what lol Elapsed Dreams On the ride home from picking me up my mom just asked, "So, are you seeing her?" I nodded and that was me coming out. She was talking about the lesbian that she introduced me to. icon_xd.gif Super easy, my parents are very open minded with things and I'm their "good child" so it was totally okay. In fact they're the ones who drag me to pride parades and anything else that has the words "Pride" "Gay" or "Equality".. It gets tiring how over the top they are with it.. burning_eyes.gif I'm finding it rather difficult to tell them I'm dating a guy, they like taking me to all the "pro gay" things around here so once they find out I'm dating a guy they might just blow up.. icon_rofl.gif Are you bi? Not sure, for now I'm "the lesbian who loves a guy". I like girls sexually but I love my male lover even if I don't like the idea of having sex with a guy. sweatdrop
He'll be my husband as soon as we can afford it, so I'll have to get used to liking girls but being married to my love.
Love knows no gender, this is proof.
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 8:57 am
Elapsed Dreams If I could share them I would, hey if I knew you in person they might adopt you like they have all of my good friends. xd My house is the "safe place" for all of my friends, so if you wanna share them we can. 3nodding
But what's really weird is that one sign of issues with my older brother they send him off, I come out as lesbian and they accept it too much.. I really don't like how they're trying to make up for what they've done to my brother by spoiling me. He gets murdered then all the sudden I can paint my room and have all my friends spend the night, stay up all hours of the night and not do my chores for weeks and they do nothing. I only do those things to see if there's even a limit anymore, which I think it stops right at murder..
Last month I just happened to tell my mom I was in the mood for Costco cake, so what does she pick up the next day after work? A Costco cake.. She has never done that before..
Don't get me wrong I'm glad my parents are accepting it just bugs me that I don't know if it's because they feel guilty about my brother or if they really accept it..
They are open minded and all, but I can't help but wonder if they accept me for me or if they accept me for my older brother.. :/ Wow I'd wonder that too. I'm the oldest so I just took on the the role model position for everyone hehe.
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 9:18 am
Silver Sage-General Elapsed Dreams If I could share them I would, hey if I knew you in person they might adopt you like they have all of my good friends. xd My house is the "safe place" for all of my friends, so if you wanna share them we can. 3nodding
But what's really weird is that one sign of issues with my older brother they send him off, I come out as lesbian and they accept it too much.. I really don't like how they're trying to make up for what they've done to my brother by spoiling me. He gets murdered then all the sudden I can paint my room and have all my friends spend the night, stay up all hours of the night and not do my chores for weeks and they do nothing. I only do those things to see if there's even a limit anymore, which I think it stops right at murder..
Last month I just happened to tell my mom I was in the mood for Costco cake, so what does she pick up the next day after work? A Costco cake.. She has never done that before..
Don't get me wrong I'm glad my parents are accepting it just bugs me that I don't know if it's because they feel guilty about my brother or if they really accept it..
They are open minded and all, but I can't help but wonder if they accept me for me or if they accept me for my older brother.. :/ Wow I'd wonder that too. I'm the oldest so I just took on the the role model position for everyone hehe. I'm the youngest, basically the only "good child" since my grades were good I didn't get into drugs and I had no violent outbursts that made it dangerous for people around me. xd {"Interesting" family, I know rofl }
Kinda the same here, when my parents want to compare who's good and who's not I'm the one they compare to for "good". sweatdrop
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