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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:07 pm
Would the soap bother the a**s at all if that's what you use to clean it a bit? 'cause I know you're not supposed to use soap in the v****a. >_>
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 5:31 pm
Fiaroka Would the soap bother the a**s at all if that's what you use to clean it a bit? 'cause I know you're not supposed to use soap in the v****a. >_> That site says it's ok to put soap in a little bit, but personally I probably wouldn't. xp I guess if you wanted to try it, maybe use a very gentle soap. Or even better, ask your doctor/ob-gyn about it first. xp
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Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 10:27 pm
I'm having a problem concerning my teeth. When I first gave my boyfriend a b*****b, he said I was biting down and it was hurting him. I really try to keep my teeth away from his p***s during oral but it's hard! Anyone have tips for sucking without my teeth hurting him?
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Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 5:00 pm
I've never had oral sex before, giving or receiving. But I think my boyfriend is interested in giving to me, which is fine, but I don't know if he will want me to give it to him. I told him that the first time I do it we should use a condom, just to avoid mess. I don't want to end up with c** in my mouth, face, or anywhere else that we might end up having to clean up. Since I've heard that c** can taste nasty, and my first reaction to bad tasting things is to just spit it out anywhere, I don't want to end up getting this all over the floor or furniture. That would not be fun. So I figured the best thing to do would be to get flavored condoms, but I have no idea where you even get those. Can you get them at regular drug stores or do you have to go to special sex shops? I have no idea where stores like that would even be, so any help is appreciated. I'm really hoping I can find something like this at an everyday store, like a drug store. x_x
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Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 10:42 pm
Vickicat I've never had oral sex before, giving or receiving. But I think my boyfriend is interested in giving to me, which is fine, but I don't know if he will want me to give it to him. I told him that the first time I do it we should use a condom, just to avoid mess. I don't want to end up with c** in my mouth, face, or anywhere else that we might end up having to clean up. Since I've heard that c** can taste nasty, and my first reaction to bad tasting things is to just spit it out anywhere, I don't want to end up getting this all over the floor or furniture. That would not be fun. So I figured the best thing to do would be to get flavored condoms, but I have no idea where you even get those. Can you get them at regular drug stores or do you have to go to special sex shops? I have no idea where stores like that would even be, so any help is appreciated. I'm really hoping I can find something like this at an everyday store, like a drug store. x_x Take a look at your usual store and see what they offer. Selections can vary from place to place, so we can't really tell you if flavored condoms will be at your usual store or not. If they are not there, you can order them online or look up adult stores near you. You can try looking in the phone book for locations of adult stores.
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 2:18 pm
Freedom Fire I'm having a problem concerning my teeth. When I first gave my boyfriend a b*****b, he said I was biting down and it was hurting him. I really try to keep my teeth away from his p***s during oral but it's hard! Anyone have tips for sucking without my teeth hurting him? That's a common problem. Your mouth is only so big, and there isn't much you can do to change that. So it might be a better idea for you to make more use of your hands and tongue. Oral sex does not have to involve shoving your partner's entire p***s into your mouth.
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 4:46 pm
LorienLlewellyn Freedom Fire I'm having a problem concerning my teeth. When I first gave my boyfriend a b*****b, he said I was biting down and it was hurting him. I really try to keep my teeth away from his p***s during oral but it's hard! Anyone have tips for sucking without my teeth hurting him? That's a common problem. Your mouth is only so big, and there isn't much you can do to change that. So it might be a better idea for you to make more use of your hands and tongue. Oral sex does not have to involve shoving your partner's entire p***s into your mouth. I wish my boyfriend knew that before I started giving him blowjobs. He tried pushing my head in closer, which almost made me gag. I had to explain to him that it was triggering my gag reflex and unless he wanted me to puke on his lap he better stop.
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 6:10 pm
Freedom Fire I wish my boyfriend knew that before I started giving him blowjobs. He tried pushing my head in closer, which almost made me gag. I had to explain to him that it was triggering my gag reflex and unless he wanted me to puke on his lap he better stop. If you keep biting him or scraping his p***s with your teeth, he might get the idea that it's just not working. xp Seriously though, I would suggest being honest and firm. You've already let him know how uncomfortable it is for you, so that's good. Now if he keeps trying to force it after you explained how it's just not working, then maybe he does not deserve oral sex at all. On the other hand, if he gets it and stops trying to force it, then you can experiment with your hands, lips, and tongue.
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 8:45 pm
I'm finding I rather receive oral than give it. When I give it to my bf...idk his c** makes me wants to puke. i feel bad b/c he likes it, but even just licking it or smelling it make me gag. i dont know how to tell him that. plus he wants me to take in more which i cant so i have two gag factors at the same time. and his c** makes me physically sick after. Like i get really nauseous and i have to drink a bunch of stuff to make the taste go away which is really hard. We are going to try 1.) him changing the stuff he eats maybe making it better 2.) drenching him in chocolate syrup. lol thats should be fun.
I'm very scared about trying a**l b/c of the hurt factor. but he wants too. *sigh* we will see...
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 10:00 am
bustinrs2kickurs I'm finding I rather receive oral than give it. When I give it to my bf...idk his c** makes me wants to puke. i feel bad b/c he likes it, but even just licking it or smelling it make me gag. i dont know how to tell him that. plus he wants me to take in more which i cant so i have two gag factors at the same time. and his c** makes me physically sick after. Like i get really nauseous and i have to drink a bunch of stuff to make the taste go away which is really hard. We are going to try 1.) him changing the stuff he eats maybe making it better 2.) drenching him in chocolate syrup. lol thats should be fun.
I'm very scared about trying a**l b/c of the hurt factor. but he wants too. *sigh* we will see... I hate giving oral sex too. Be honest about it. You certainly don't have to swallow his semen. Spit it out and use some mouthwash. You can also have him wash right before oral sex or try giving it to him in the shower. You can also try putting a little perfume on his upper thighs to mask his smell or use a flavored condom. As for taking in more, that is something he should absolutely not be forcing you to do. You should be the one in control when it comes to this. You should decide how much, if any, goes into your mouth. Forcing it can just make things uncomfortable or even painful for one or both of you. If you want to try a**l sex, make sure you use a water-based lubricant and lots of it. Make sure you're relaxed. You can also use fingers or butt plugs to get used to the feeling before going into full a**l sex.
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:21 am
Apparently semen taste is a lot to do with diet... guys who don't eat many vegetables but lots of meat have "sour" tasting semen, where guys who eat lots of fruit and veg and generally healthily have different tasting semen. Pineapple is apparently supposed to do the trick, although I've never tried it.
My boyfriend likes being given oral but he totally gets the disliking taste thing (I snowballed him XD). I don't like the smell or the taste, but I don't mind giving oral most of the time. And I've got a pretty big mouth, so never encountered teeth trouble.
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Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 11:26 pm
LorienLlewellyn Freedom Fire I wish my boyfriend knew that before I started giving him blowjobs. He tried pushing my head in closer, which almost made me gag. I had to explain to him that it was triggering my gag reflex and unless he wanted me to puke on his lap he better stop. If you keep biting him or scraping his p***s with your teeth, he might get the idea that it's just not working. xp Seriously though, I would suggest being honest and firm. You've already let him know how uncomfortable it is for you, so that's good. Now if he keeps trying to force it after you explained how it's just not working, then maybe he does not deserve oral sex at all. On the other hand, if he gets it and stops trying to force it, then you can experiment with your hands, lips, and tongue. personally my boyfriend loves it when my teeth scrape his p***s and he likes small bites so that's good for me because i have braces so sometimes they get in the way and scrape him a little but he likes it. and i agree with lorien about using your toung and hand more if you use your toung you can give him peasure with out using your teeth and it might even act like a bumper and by using your hand when he pushes you down it will stop how far down you can go so you don't have the problem of gaging on him (i've had this happen a lot to me)
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Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 11:28 pm
Fran Salaska Apparently semen taste is a lot to do with diet... guys who don't eat many vegetables but lots of meat have "sour" tasting semen, where guys who eat lots of fruit and veg and generally healthily have different tasting semen. Pineapple is apparently supposed to do the trick, although I've never tried it. My boyfriend likes being given oral but he totally gets the disliking taste thing (I snowballed him XD). I don't like the smell or the taste, but I don't mind giving oral most of the time. And I've got a pretty big mouth, so never encountered teeth trouble. i love giving oral to my boyfriend and i like the way he tasts but the after tast isn't the greatest but it is still good to me. yum! haha
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 4:30 pm
To the people that find the taste of semen really gross, flavored lubrication actually helps it taste a bit better. You just gotta find a flavor you really like. I buy a strawberry/kiwi flavored lube at walmart, so, it's pretty accessible. I'm not saying it takes all the bad taste away... just covers it a bit. =P
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 9:44 am
You can try flavored condoms too, and maybe you can use flavored lube too (since some people might not like using a condom to give oral). Or just one or the other, you don't have to use both at the same time.
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