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Posted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 1:41 am
Most of my friends know. My boyfriend doesn't. My best friend doesn't. And my parents don't either along with the rest of my family. ninja
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Posted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 2:04 am
My friends all know, and if they dont know and it somehow comes up Ill admit to it. I dont go around saying 'Look at me Im bi!' But if it comes up I wont deny it. My friends are all cool about it too.
I told my sister a long time ago, bc I knew she was Bi as well. Then I told my mother and older sister. They didn't believe me. But.. -Shrugs- My mother has even said she wouldnt give a s**t if I was with a girl, as long as I was happy.
I still to this day dont know if my father knows or not. o_o; xD
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Posted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 3:51 am
I always just say I am GAY. Though I like some girls.
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Posted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 8:57 pm
My friend's bi, and she's not very popular so it's sort of drawn attention to her. I don't want to seem like I'm suddenly taking the limelight from her...but I have told some of my closest guy friends that I wouldn't turn a guy down if he was serious. So, to the extent of anyone's knowledge, I'm merely bi-curious. Actually, to my own knowledge as well sweatdrop I've never kiss either a boy or girl confused
Whatever. Thing is, if you're bi and afraid to tell people IRL, then at least you can come here and be yourself. heart
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 8:56 am
I will never ever tell my family. Maybe when i move far far away and i dont have to see them anymore i'll mail them a postcard that says 'Oh by the way im bi' I know that if i told them straight out they would glare and make me feel like it was wrong. Or make me feel like i'm too young to know. But im NOT! i know what i am and i know that it isnt wrong. So when i come home with a girlfriend im sure they'll figure it out themselves.
Thank god my friends were cool about it though. When i told them they werent surprised it was more like 'OMG do you have a girlfriend?!' when i told them that i didnt they just said 'oh' like it was no big deal. They're so awesome!! heart
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 10:02 pm
Im not shy to tell anyone Im just afraid to tell my mom.
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 1:32 am
After a point, I started to not care. I used to be shy and all, but keeping the secret was a pain to deal with. My parents don't know certianly that I am bisexual, but they have the idea, since I've slipped it on more than one occasion. The rest of the family would dissown me probably, minus a few cousins and my grandma, but they wouldn't be worth it anyway if they did. So I don't care about them. The same goes for freinds. If they hate the idea, push you away, they weren't your true freinds anyway. I've recently told my freinds, just a week and a half ago actually, and they don't mind. One even was excited and said all the cool people are bisexual. sweatdrop whee
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 6:12 am
I guess Im just now disovering that Im Bi, But... Im keeping it a secret right now... I might tell my friends, theyre all very alternitave (IE: don't have a lot of firends type people) But Im still not sure... I migt tell my friends, with hopes of word spreading, and have boy/girl tell me that they like me, having heard said rumor 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 12:32 pm
I just came out to my friends because I figured that if they wouldn't like me anymore, they didn't have to be my friends anymore.. I mean.. I'm one for standing up for gay's or bisexuals... My boyfriends admires that even. he just gets out of the way from homophobic people, when I try to fight them.. not physically, but mentally
You know, try to out smart them.. tis great fun blaugh
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 8:53 pm
im not afraid to tell if they ask lol.if they ask me if im gay ill say no, if they ask if im straight ill say no... but idont tell anyone unless they ask, so it doesnt really matter to me.
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 10:33 am
If they're really your friends than they wont care, its just the other a$$holes out there. And if your worried about what strangers think all i can say is dont
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 3:31 pm
Well, I am bisexual and the only person in my town who knows it is my cousin, and she too is either Bi or homosexual((She has a girlfriend, I've met her face-to-face, so I'm completely sure of my reasoning)). You see, I don't have a problem telling people who I don't go to school with ((for example, here on GAIA, and those I know are from out of state on MSN and Yahoo))but I just can't even think about telling anyone I go to school with, let alone my parents. If my parents found out, they'd probably never speak to me again((I'm only 17.5 years old at the time I am posting this))because they inculcated--impressed unto my mind--strong Christian beliefs, and...well, I think you all know where I'm going with this.
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 3:43 pm
I've told my friends and my boyfriend. He understands and said he loves me no matter what. He' told some of his friends and I haven't told my family actully in truth I've only told my mother. And she accepted me with a great big hug and said that no matter what I'm her daughter and she loves me. I can get away with it at school cause everyone there is eaither bi or gay.
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 4:12 pm
im afraid to tell my famaly even though i know that they would all be onehundred perscent supportive its just to weird
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 10:28 pm
I am bi, and I'm terrified to tell people....There's this guy I like, and I don't want to freak him out! Then my parents...how do you even begin??? My friend's would accept it, but I'm so afraid.....I just REALLY love the female body....and that's hard for some people to understand. crying
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