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 Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 1:19 pm
Takarai Positive and negative discussions about a member's look or whatever can go in the Member's respected threads. Since it's related to the member who is being discussed. We never said everything discussed was positive. 3nodding Hai. Repeat topics aren't necessary. ^^;
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 1:51 pm
Everything certainly isn't positive. I rant all the time about Kaoru's dorkiness, and how Totchi's laugh is so bizarre, and how I loathe Shinya for ruining my good dream. D:
And all this, I've accomplished without a complaint thread.
Yay Ala.
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:19 pm
Takarai Positive and negative discussions about a member's look or whatever can go in the Member's respected threads. Since it's related to the member who is being discussed. We all have our likes and dislikes, so not everything discussed is positive. 3nodding in theory, that'd work, but I know from personal experience, if you go to a thread to doscuss something you don't like about a member, people get angry at you, and say,"Why do you even come here if you're just going to talk bad about *insert member's name here*.", and then they complain about you to the mods, and the mods threaten to give you the boot from room 304 for having not all nice things to say abotu a member. Wouldn't it be better off to have a thread not only to discuss things you don't like about a member, but a certain erra, a dvd, a tour, the face DeG won't come to the us, a cd, or single etc withough having to worry about you being an a** for going to say, and Kaoru thread and saying somehting bad about him? That way you may avoid conflict for members who don't want to read about other peoples' dislikes of DeG things, and saying their experience in room 304 has been a pain in the @$$ because they decided to fight with someone about saying something bad about [deg member] in the respective thread. People who don't wanna read negative chatter won't have to, they can just avoid the negative chatter thread, instad of having to worry about negative comments in all the member threads.
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:26 pm
I understand your point of view, namida_no_chi, but it's like AlaLavei said - not all of the discussion in the Diru guild has been entirely positive. Well, it's been positive, even when discussing things that are disliked. That's what's important about the discussion in this guild - a positive environment in this guild for people to discuss Dir en grey. It's not so much opinions that are expressed that start arguments, it's the way those opinions are expressed. ^^; Another topic for discussing what you dislike about Dir en grey is not necessary. ^^;
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:28 pm
namida_no_chi Takarai Positive and negative discussions about a member's look or whatever can go in the Member's respected threads. Since it's related to the member who is being discussed. We all have our likes and dislikes, so not everything discussed is positive. 3nodding in theory, that'd work, but I know from personal experience, if you go to a thread to doscuss something you don't like about a member, people get angry at you, and say,"Why do you even come here if you're just going to talk bad about *insert member's name here*.", and then they complain about you to the mods, and the mods threaten to give you the boot from room 304 for having not all nice things to say abotu a member. Wouldn't it be better off to have a thread not only to discuss things you don't like about a member, but a certain erra, a dvd, a tour, the face DeG won't come to the us, a cd, or single etc withough having to worry about you being an a** for going to say, and Kaoru thread and saying somehting bad about him? That way you may avoid conflict for members who don't want to read about other peoples' dislikes of DeG things, and saying their experience in room 304 has been a pain in the @$$ because they decided to fight with someone about saying something bad about [deg member] in the respective thread. People who don't wanna read negative chatter won't have to, they can just avoid the negative chatter thread, instad of having to worry about negative comments in all the member threads. Conflicting opinions are going to happen no matter if there's a separate thread or not. Disputes will happen either way because all of us idiots are special and have different views on everything. I, personally, do not think we need another thread just because you and Takarai have a tendency to wage verbal war on each other. ninja gonk
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:32 pm
Inai I understand your point of view, namida_no_chi, but it's like AlaLavei said - not all of the discussion in the Diru guild has been entirely positive. Well, it's been positive, even when discussing things that are disliked. That's what's important about the discussion in this guild - a positive environment in this guild for people to discuss Dir en grey. It's not so much opinions that are expressed that start arguments, it's the way those opinions are expressed. ^^; Another topic for discussing what you dislike about Dir en grey is not necessary. ^^; I'll remember that, "That's what's important about the discussion in this guild - a positive environment in this guild for people to discuss Dir en grey" next time I go to a Kyo thread, and say I don't like the song Mama, and get argued with for like 10 pages over a two day stretch @_@... and then all the while people are saying to me "why did you even come to a Kyo thread if you're just going to say something bad about him?"... every time i do that, people complain about me to the mods, and say I'm making 304 an unpositive environment for saying something not good about Kyo. Wouldn't it make sense to have a thread where people can post and discuss their negative opinions about DeG, and then people who will just complain about it later to the mods, and threaten who ever says something not nice about DeG can avoid the negative comments if it will upset them? Instead of having negative comments in the Kyo, Kaoru, Die, shinya, AND Totchi threads??? And the DeG discussion thread?
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:40 pm
namida_no_chi I'll remember that, "That's what's important about the discussion in this guild - a positive environment in this guild for people to discuss Dir en grey" next time I go to a Kyo thread, and say I don't like the song Mama, and get argued with for like 10 pages over a two day stretch @_@... and then all the while people are saying to me "why did you even come to a Kyo thread if you're just going to say something bad about him?" ::flail:: You see, this is why you have so many bad disputes with people. We can all take a negative opinion, but you always seem to misinterperet what people say. I've seen three sets of quoting wars with people trying to proove that's not what I said!Now, I'm about to do it. I never said why come in the Kyo thread if you're just going to say something bad. I said you had to know it was going to be filled with all sorts of fans, and a dispute would inevitably happen.
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:40 pm
AlaLavei Conflicting opinions are going to happen no matter if there's a separate thread or not. Disputes will happen either way because all of us idiots are special and have different views on everything. I, personally, do not think we need another thread just because you and Takarai have a tendency to wage verbal war on each other. ninja gonk It's not just me and takari. It's me and whoever happens to be at 304 where I post something negative on 304 (especially about Kyo). I get ganged up on by every member here when I say something bad about DeG. No wonder no one else posts anything bad, I can't say I blame them, but still, doesn't mean negative feelings about DeG aren't there, I'm just a bit more open about mine than some other people 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:46 pm
AlaLavei namida_no_chi I'll remember that, "That's what's important about the discussion in this guild - a positive environment in this guild for people to discuss Dir en grey" next time I go to a Kyo thread, and say I don't like the song Mama, and get argued with for like 10 pages over a two day stretch @_@... and then all the while people are saying to me "why did you even come to a Kyo thread if you're just going to say something bad about him?" ::flail:: You see, this is why you have so many bad disputes with people. We can all take a negative opinion, but you always seem to misinterperet what people say. I've seen three sets of quoting wars with people trying to proove that's not what I said!Now, I'm about to do it. I never said why come in the Kyo thread if you're just going to say something bad. I said you had to know it was going to be filled with all sorts of fans, and a dispute would inevitably happen. I spend so much time saying that cuz I'll say something simple like,"I didn't like the music in Mama." and then people are like,"You hate DeG!!" and I'm like "no, I said I didn't like the music in Mama." other people: "You hate Kyo!!!" Me: "no, that's not what I said, I don't like the music in Mama." and it goes on like that whenever I say something bad about a DeG member. I didn't say you in particualr have something against me posting bad stuff about Kyo in a Kyo thread, but most people here so o.o. Wouldn't it make sense to have a separate thread, so people can say,"Why do you even come to a Kyo thead if you're just going to insult him scream "
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:46 pm
namida_no_chi AlaLavei Conflicting opinions are going to happen no matter if there's a separate thread or not. Disputes will happen either way because all of us idiots are special and have different views on everything. I, personally, do not think we need another thread just because you and Takarai have a tendency to wage verbal war on each other. ninja gonk It's not just me and takari. It's me and whoever happens to be at 304 where I post something negative on 304 (especially about Kyo). I get ganged up on by every member here when I say something bad about DeG. No wonder no one else posts anything bad, I can't say I blame them, but still, doesn't mean negative feelings about DeG aren't there, I'm just a bit more open about mine than some other people 3nodding ... I think it's just you. Nobody else has a problem about it. I doubt everybody's having repressed Diru emotions because they're afraid of being booted.
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:49 pm
AlaLavei namida_no_chi AlaLavei Conflicting opinions are going to happen no matter if there's a separate thread or not. Disputes will happen either way because all of us idiots are special and have different views on everything. I, personally, do not think we need another thread just because you and Takarai have a tendency to wage verbal war on each other. ninja gonk It's not just me and takari. It's me and whoever happens to be at 304 where I post something negative on 304 (especially about Kyo). I get ganged up on by every member here when I say something bad about DeG. No wonder no one else posts anything bad, I can't say I blame them, but still, doesn't mean negative feelings about DeG aren't there, I'm just a bit more open about mine than some other people 3nodding ... I think it's just you. Nobody else has a problem about it. I doubt everybody's having repressed Diru emotions because they're afraid of being booted. so no one else doesn't like something about DeG??? And I'm sure they're not repressed..... other people can always have civilized convos about stuff they don't like about DeG outside of room 304 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 3:57 pm
gonk I'm trying to say they're not repressed inside the guild.
Kaoru's a giant dork and for this I want to hit him! Miyu is not cute, he's yappy! Shinya is going to cause the breakup of the band! and Totchi's laugh makes me want to crawl into a dark hole somewhere and just hide! I loathe the song "I'll" nearly as much as I loathe "Jealous!"
Said emotions have been clearly expressed in the guild before without banning or attack dogs, prooving the lack of need for a peeve thread.
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 4:07 pm
You continually misunderstand what people are saying to you, namida-no-chi. It's like I've said, it's not your opinions that are causing conflict, it's the way you state your opinions. It's not the other members of this guilds' fault that you continually insist on thinking you're right and not bothering to understand what we're saying to you.
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 4:18 pm
Inai You continually misunderstand what people are saying to you, namida-no-chi. It's like I've said, it's not your opinions that are causing conflict, it's the way you state your opinions. It's not the other members of this guilds' fault that you continually insist on thinking you're right and not bothering to understand what we're saying to you. You all continually misunderstand what I say, and yell at me for it, and assume the worst of me, and shove words into my mouth... and when I say "okay this is that I THINK (think implying opinion)....." the you say I'm stating it like it's a fact. and when I say "No, I'm not tsaying that, I'm just saying thins is what my opinion is" you still think I'm stating it like a fact. Hence I want a thread where neither I, nor anyone else will get gang up on like I do in the member thread etc when I say something bad about that member, and people say"Why did you even come here if you're going ot say soemthing bad about.... (whoever)"
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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 4:23 pm
namida_no_chi Inai You continually misunderstand what people are saying to you, namida-no-chi. It's like I've said, it's not your opinions that are causing conflict, it's the way you state your opinions. It's not the other members of this guilds' fault that you continually insist on thinking you're right and not bothering to understand what we're saying to you. You all continually misunderstand what I say, and yell at me for it, and assume the worst of me, and shove words into my mouth... and when I say "okay this is that I THINK (think implying opinion)....." the you say I'm stating it like it's a fact. and when I say "No, I'm not tsaying that, I'm just saying thins is what my opinion is" you still think I'm stating it like a fact. Hence I want a thread where neither I, nor anyone else will get gang up on like I do in the member thread etc when I say something bad about that member, and people say"Why did you even come here if you're going ot say soemthing bad about.... (whoever)" No. Inai said the exact same thing I just did, so I know I'm not the one misunderstanding things here. I don't see why any of you get so worked up over an arguement anyway. If you don't want a reaction then go talk to a wall. A thread for negative opinions would equate to you talking to yourself, as no one else has had a problem with posting negative opinions elsewhere.
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