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 Posted: Thu Apr 21, 2011 7:33 pm
Allegro The point of the Anonymous Confessor wasn't to turn you guys into detectives. There's a difference between figuring out who thought this of someone, and who is dead in my opinion.
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Posted: Thu Apr 21, 2011 8:39 pm
WylrPnufh Shiny Gligar I could check that, Wylr. O: We use to talk. I'm not that sure it's him though. I could check that, Haru. We still do talk. I'm not 100% that it's him either, it's just my best guess. Seeing as... he told me.
Oh. I still could give it a shot.
I haven't spoke to Ota in a while. I will regardless, it's kinda dickish to not.
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problematic briefcase Crew
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 10:11 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 10:36 am
l-Kathulu-l Allegro The point of the Anonymous Confessor wasn't to turn you guys into detectives. There's a difference between figuring out who thought this of someone, and who is dead in my opinion. I agree.
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 11:25 am
Simple fact is that whoever died didn't have a request to whomever it is to get the word to us. And it's not our place to force somebody to go into such tragic memories to sate our curiosity. We'll know when the time is right.
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 12:03 pm
Allegro Simple fact is that whoever died didn't have a request to whomever it is to get the word to us. And it's not our place to force somebody to go into such tragic memories to sate our curiosity. We'll know when the time is right. Agreed. It's not right to force someone to divulge information they'd rather keep private.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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problematic briefcase Crew
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 12:07 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 12:25 pm
Wantcookie Allegro Simple fact is that whoever died didn't have a request to whomever it is to get the word to us. And it's not our place to force somebody to go into such tragic memories to sate our curiosity. We'll know when the time is right. Agreed. It's not right to force someone to divulge information they'd rather keep private. Obviously they don't mean to keep it private since they made several revealing posts about it. And at this point I think it's more cruel and rude to withhold that information, than it is for us to try and figure out which of our friends is Dead. I'm not trying to sound unwelcoming, and I'm not angry about it, but I also don't feel the need to mince words. I'm awfully sorry that this happened (assuming it's not a joke), and I'm even more sorry that whoever has usurped the account was driven to mourn in this manner, but isn't it time to come clean? They already started too, with the anonymous confession...which I'm guessing means they wanted to test the waters and get a general response before coming out with all the info. I think we've all made it very clear how we feel about the matter; I see no reason to be afraid to make a genuine appearance.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 12:43 pm
Medeus Wantcookie Allegro Simple fact is that whoever died didn't have a request to whomever it is to get the word to us. And it's not our place to force somebody to go into such tragic memories to sate our curiosity. We'll know when the time is right. Agreed. It's not right to force someone to divulge information they'd rather keep private. Obviously they don't mean to keep it private since they made several revealing posts about it. And at this point I think it's more cruel and rude to withhold that information, than it is for us to try and figure out which of our friends is Dead. I'm not trying to sound unwelcoming, and I'm not angry about it, but I also don't feel the need to mince words. I'm awfully sorry that this happened (assuming it's not a joke), and I'm even more sorry that whoever has usurped the account was driven to mourn in this manner, but isn't it time to come clean? They already started too, with the anonymous confession...which I'm guessing means they wanted to test the waters and get a general response before coming out with all the info. I think we've all made it very clear how we feel about the matter; I see no reason to be afraid to make a genuine appearance. No, I know. There's really no reason for them to remain in the dark. But like it or not, you can't force them to come out into the open. I'd rather respect their feelings than tread on them by making a futile effort to call them into the open.
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 12:47 pm
Wantcookie Medeus Wantcookie Allegro Simple fact is that whoever died didn't have a request to whomever it is to get the word to us. And it's not our place to force somebody to go into such tragic memories to sate our curiosity. We'll know when the time is right. Agreed. It's not right to force someone to divulge information they'd rather keep private. Obviously they don't mean to keep it private since they made several revealing posts about it. And at this point I think it's more cruel and rude to withhold that information, than it is for us to try and figure out which of our friends is Dead. I'm not trying to sound unwelcoming, and I'm not angry about it, but I also don't feel the need to mince words. I'm awfully sorry that this happened (assuming it's not a joke), and I'm even more sorry that whoever has usurped the account was driven to mourn in this manner, but isn't it time to come clean? They already started too, with the anonymous confession...which I'm guessing means they wanted to test the waters and get a general response before coming out with all the info. I think we've all made it very clear how we feel about the matter; I see no reason to be afraid to make a genuine appearance. No, I know. There's really no reason for them to remain in the dark. But like it or not, you can't force them to come out into the open. I'd rather respect their feelings than tread on them by making a futile effort to call them into the open. lol I know it can't be forced, but it can strongly recommended. I think the consequences of drawing this out too much longer will me much more harmful than it would be now. Just sayin....
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 12:52 pm
Medeus Wantcookie Medeus Wantcookie Allegro Simple fact is that whoever died didn't have a request to whomever it is to get the word to us. And it's not our place to force somebody to go into such tragic memories to sate our curiosity. We'll know when the time is right. Agreed. It's not right to force someone to divulge information they'd rather keep private. Obviously they don't mean to keep it private since they made several revealing posts about it. And at this point I think it's more cruel and rude to withhold that information, than it is for us to try and figure out which of our friends is Dead. I'm not trying to sound unwelcoming, and I'm not angry about it, but I also don't feel the need to mince words. I'm awfully sorry that this happened (assuming it's not a joke), and I'm even more sorry that whoever has usurped the account was driven to mourn in this manner, but isn't it time to come clean? They already started too, with the anonymous confession...which I'm guessing means they wanted to test the waters and get a general response before coming out with all the info. I think we've all made it very clear how we feel about the matter; I see no reason to be afraid to make a genuine appearance. No, I know. There's really no reason for them to remain in the dark. But like it or not, you can't force them to come out into the open. I'd rather respect their feelings than tread on them by making a futile effort to call them into the open. lol I know it can't be forced, but it can strongly recommended. I think the consequences of drawing this out too much longer will me much more harmful than it would be now. Just sayin.... I'd say it's just easier to let it be. I'd like to know just as much as anyone else, but...
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 1:36 pm
Wantcookie Medeus Wantcookie Medeus Wantcookie Allegro Simple fact is that whoever died didn't have a request to whomever it is to get the word to us. And it's not our place to force somebody to go into such tragic memories to sate our curiosity. We'll know when the time is right. Agreed. It's not right to force someone to divulge information they'd rather keep private. Obviously they don't mean to keep it private since they made several revealing posts about it. And at this point I think it's more cruel and rude to withhold that information, than it is for us to try and figure out which of our friends is Dead. I'm not trying to sound unwelcoming, and I'm not angry about it, but I also don't feel the need to mince words. I'm awfully sorry that this happened (assuming it's not a joke), and I'm even more sorry that whoever has usurped the account was driven to mourn in this manner, but isn't it time to come clean? They already started too, with the anonymous confession...which I'm guessing means they wanted to test the waters and get a general response before coming out with all the info. I think we've all made it very clear how we feel about the matter; I see no reason to be afraid to make a genuine appearance. No, I know. There's really no reason for them to remain in the dark. But like it or not, you can't force them to come out into the open. I'd rather respect their feelings than tread on them by making a futile effort to call them into the open. lol I know it can't be forced, but it can strongly recommended. I think the consequences of drawing this out too much longer will me much more harmful than it would be now. Just sayin.... I'd say it's just easier to let it be. I'd like to know just as much as anyone else, but... It won't be long before paranoia and estrangement sets the tone for conversation around here. Sometimes the Easy thing isn't the best thing....in fact, most of the time the Easy thing is the worst thing.
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 1:48 pm
Those things will only permeate the atmosphere if you allow them to, Med. Me, I get that somebody's wrestling with something tough right now, and that it's not my place to force them to divulge anything they don't want to.
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 1:52 pm
Allegro Those things will only permeate the atmosphere if you allow them to, Med. Me, I get that somebody's wrestling with something tough right now, and that it's not my place to force them to divulge anything they don't want to. Fair enough. But I for one am NOT comfortable with this. To be completely blunt and honest, I don't like the idea of entertaining an imposter while my real friend is dead somewhere. I know I can't force anybody to do anything, but I think whoever it is deserves/asked for a response from the 'community', and that includes me.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 3:16 pm
Medeus Allegro Those things will only permeate the atmosphere if you allow them to, Med. Me, I get that somebody's wrestling with something tough right now, and that it's not my place to force them to divulge anything they don't want to. Fair enough. But I for one am NOT comfortable with this. To be completely blunt and honest, I don't like the idea of entertaining an imposter while my real friend is dead somewhere. I know I can't force anybody to do anything, but I think whoever it is deserves/asked for a response from the 'community', and that includes me. I hate to say it, but you can't let what's out of your control bother you, Med. It doesn't do anything for anyone.
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