AirisMagik
A lot of those guys probably have a ton of other girls they try to "woo" like that, and ask such questions. Et cetera.
They link their lust together with love, which they promptly ignore if you ever try to pull out that fact.
I see so many of them around here it isn't funny.
What I find that happens most is, that if you're a nice girl, and you're nice to everyone, they automatically assume that there's a chance to "get some" in the event they are "nice" back. But of course, that's only in the back of their mind, because it has to be. They want to call it love and whatever else.
I have a couple female friends who are like you in regards to being caring and nice.
And it's all hell situation like you end up in.
You're good looking, and you're too nice. Like I've said.
But when you girls are sad, lonely, and fed up with life, you aren't so willing to talk to people, be nice and overly sweet...
That destroys the "she might be into me" thing.
When you're happy, you're nice. When you're nice, the boys think you're into them.
I mean, why else would someone bother to actually LISTEN and respond to their problems? Obviously you want to "love them", in all regards of the word.
I know, I don't know the situation entirely. But it's one possibility that's ... probable for some of the guys you know.
People don't want to be the bad guy. And that's why it has to be in the back of their mind, the lust and love combination. Egh... I'm babbling. Forgive me.
I beg of you. Please don't attack me. @.@ I'm just trying to offer a possible explanation.
Add it to your book of knowledge of possibilities... ?
They link their lust together with love, which they promptly ignore if you ever try to pull out that fact.
I see so many of them around here it isn't funny.
What I find that happens most is, that if you're a nice girl, and you're nice to everyone, they automatically assume that there's a chance to "get some" in the event they are "nice" back. But of course, that's only in the back of their mind, because it has to be. They want to call it love and whatever else.
I have a couple female friends who are like you in regards to being caring and nice.
And it's all hell situation like you end up in.
You're good looking, and you're too nice. Like I've said.
But when you girls are sad, lonely, and fed up with life, you aren't so willing to talk to people, be nice and overly sweet...
That destroys the "she might be into me" thing.
When you're happy, you're nice. When you're nice, the boys think you're into them.
I mean, why else would someone bother to actually LISTEN and respond to their problems? Obviously you want to "love them", in all regards of the word.
I know, I don't know the situation entirely. But it's one possibility that's ... probable for some of the guys you know.
People don't want to be the bad guy. And that's why it has to be in the back of their mind, the lust and love combination. Egh... I'm babbling. Forgive me.
I beg of you. Please don't attack me. @.@ I'm just trying to offer a possible explanation.
Add it to your book of knowledge of possibilities... ?
I guess I'm a time bomb around you sometimes huh? I'm sorry. t___t
Hmm, that could be true. I just don't find myself physically attractive enough to be a hot fling, but, that's up the person I suppose. It does seem like MOST guys who go after me are really sweet and sensitive people looking for a romantic relationship. So, it's more like, we're good friends for awhile first, THEN they end up with a little itty bitty crush.
I think I'm lucky that no one really pesters or harasses me, and generally the guys who've confessed to liking me while I have a boyfriend are considerate and won't try any snake-moves that would jeopardize my relationship.
But damn Frank, when the word got out that you and I had broken up, I think about three people [excluding my current boyfriend] lined up at my door. Wearing invisible cloaks.
