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 Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 11:57 am
Waiting games suck. And just make me more and more pessimistic. -_-
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 3:20 pm
Time to change!
Much laughs here.
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 4:36 pm
Jahoclave Look, we've established this already. I get cookies, then they get fed. I don't need you to feed them. Wolffy gives them better lovin, anyways. talk2hand
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 5:15 pm
Lady Pyre Jahoclave Look, we've established this already. I get cookies, then they get fed. I don't need you to feed them. Wolffy gives them better lovin, anyways. talk2hand Until he finds out he can get cookies for it.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 1:51 am
why did i think making an own quest of getting 101 of each feather would be fun... almost 40% done
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 8:03 am
Ergh. :[
WHY DON'T YOU PEOPLE EVER GO AFTER ME WHEN I'M SINGLE AND LONELY?!
I hate being in these awkward, awkward confrontations where I have to tread on eggshells and be careful not to say things I don't really mean, because I'm afraid of slapping them in the face, and being nice sometimes seems to give them hope.
And WHY do guys have to ask, "If I have no chance with you, tell me so I can permanently move on"?!?
1. HAVE YOU NOT BEEN PAYING ATTENTION TO THE RESULTS OF ALL YOUR ATTEMPTS AT WOOING ME?
2. I have a BOYFRIEND, and if you helplessly don't think our relationship can be sabotaged by you, why ask now?
3. That is SUCH and UNFAIR thing to ask of me, they're YOUR feelings, don't ask ME to decide whether or not we should continue to be friends! I'm happy with the way things are now - you're the one who's unhappy.
4. What the ********, am I suppose to speculate on my relationships? "HMMMM, well I think we might fight 3 years from now. So don't go permanently! You might be able to steal me then!"
Jeez, it just doesn't work that way.
...[big sigh] crying
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 8:07 am
Jahoclave Lady Pyre Jahoclave Look, we've established this already. I get cookies, then they get fed. I don't need you to feed them. Wolffy gives them better lovin, anyways. talk2hand Until he finds out he can get cookies for it. Givin out lovin is what I do. Besides, I get cookies for it anyway. Get a cheesecake in that negotiation though and I'm in. Aivi, if there is one thing I've ever learned it's that when it comes to things like that, it's best to be honest and ruthless. Coddling people seems to only cause problems anyway. The outright rejection sucks, but then they can move on and go "Well, I can't do this, so I've got to move on to other things." People are thickheaded anyway, especially when it comes to things like that. It helps to tell them outright (Usually...) And, well, people want what they can't have. When you're with someone you generally feel pretty good, and it rubs off on other people. Then they want to be with you because they realize you're happy, and they want to be happy too. ...or something, I don't really get it myself. But it seems to happen to everyone.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 8:42 am
Wolffy000 Aivi, if there is one thing I've ever learned it's that when it comes to things like that, it's best to be honest and ruthless. Coddling people seems to only cause problems anyway. The outright rejection sucks, but then they can move on and go "Well, I can't do this, so I've got to move on to other things." People are thickheaded anyway, especially when it comes to things like that. It helps to tell them outright (Usually...) And, well, people want what they can't have. When you're with someone you generally feel pretty good, and it rubs off on other people. Then they want to be with you because they realize you're happy, and they want to be happy too. ...or something, I don't really get it myself. But it seems to happen to everyone. Yeah. It's just really hard to be ruthless to your friends, it feels so unnatural and staged, and it's a terrible feeling to waste a great friendship over certain feelings. :[
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 9:38 am
Sirius Silverstar Yeah. It's just really hard to be ruthless to your friends, it feels so unnatural and staged, and it's a terrible feeling to waste a great friendship over certain feelings. :[ I never find it too difficult, but I guess thats just me. Besides, it's not wasting a friendship. There isn't anything saying you need to destroy your friendship over something like that, you just need to smack them around and tell them to stop being stupid. At the very least, they can get over it and you can patch things up later.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:37 pm
Oh, this is going to be fun. gonk
You want to know this really fun and stupid thing I did yesterday?
Well I've been sick with a cold for a week and babysitting while being sick, so I'm like a walking zombie. .___."
Anyways, I had my socks and shoes off after I got him to rest me feet, and the dog starts whining to come in, I get up from my chair from the living room and slam my foot into dad's chair at the dining room table.
Breaking my toe. gonk
It hurt like hell but I didn't think it was broken until late in the evening when it started turning purple from the initial redness.
So this is going to be fun four week to six weeks while it heals. crying
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 9:46 pm
Charlie explained his math wrong. It doesn't have to be the greatest value, it can be the lowest value as well. He also could have used Prim's or Kruschal's algorithms as well.
Also, way too many people buy t.v. dinners.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 10:53 pm
Wolffy000 Sirius Silverstar Yeah. It's just really hard to be ruthless to your friends, it feels so unnatural and staged, and it's a terrible feeling to waste a great friendship over certain feelings. :[ I never find it too difficult, but I guess thats just me. Besides, it's not wasting a friendship. There isn't anything saying you need to destroy your friendship over something like that, you just need to smack them around and tell them to stop being stupid. At the very least, they can get over it and you can patch things up later. Sure, your ACTUAL friends will stand by you and get over it all. But... so many of my guy "friends" seem to disappear when they realize they're locked into the friend-only-zone. Makes me think I'm really not that great of a friend - just a good girlfriend. I guess if they're not going to stand by me, they're not worth it anyway. It's not that I'm DISHONEST - I'm very truthful about my feelings. I just don't put up a cold front and try to be a b***h to purposely to make the person go away and pre-emptively break their heart. I seem to lead people on without trying, just because I'm nice to most everybody.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 11:04 pm
Sirius Silverstar Sure, your ACTUAL friends will stand by you and get over it all. But... so many of my guy "friends" seem to disappear when they realize they're locked into the friend-only-zone. Makes me think I'm really not that great of a friend - just a good girlfriend. I guess if they're not going to stand by me, they're not worth it anyway. It's not that I'm DISHONEST - I'm very truthful about my feelings. I just don't put up a cold front and try to be a b***h to purposely to make the person go away and pre-emptively break their heart. I'm just nice to everybody? Eh, don't worry about it. I mean, if they spent that long just trying to get into your pants and nothing else, why should you care? Are they really going to be there when you need them? Doubtful, unless there is something to get from it. I believe every friendship is based off of what you can offer, and what you can get in return. But that still means they need to offer something you want in the first place. Those needs change, the nature of the relationship changes. If it can't adapt, you don't need it. So why bother? You end up knowing less "friends" but you end up with better friends. I guess I just handle things differently. Well, maybe they just like you because you're nice. Not like you have to be mean, just some people take it the wrong way. You just have to put up with this every once and awhile, but thats not really so bad.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 11:21 pm
Sirius Silverstar Wolffy000 Sirius Silverstar Yeah. It's just really hard to be ruthless to your friends, it feels so unnatural and staged, and it's a terrible feeling to waste a great friendship over certain feelings. :[ I never find it too difficult, but I guess thats just me. Besides, it's not wasting a friendship. There isn't anything saying you need to destroy your friendship over something like that, you just need to smack them around and tell them to stop being stupid. At the very least, they can get over it and you can patch things up later. Sure, your ACTUAL friends will stand by you and get over it all. But... so many of my guy "friends" seem to disappear when they realize they're locked into the friend-only-zone. Makes me think I'm really not that great of a friend - just a good girlfriend. I guess if they're not going to stand by me, they're not worth it anyway. It's not that I'm DISHONEST - I'm very truthful about my feelings. I just don't put up a cold front and try to be a b***h to purposely to make the person go away and pre-emptively break their heart. I seem to lead people on without trying, just because I'm nice to most everybody. A lot of those guys probably have a ton of other girls they try to "woo" like that, and ask such questions. Et cetera. They link their lust together with love, which they promptly ignore if you ever try to pull out that fact. I see so many of them around here it isn't funny. What I find that happens most is, that if you're a nice girl, and you're nice to everyone, they automatically assume that there's a chance to "get some" in the event they are "nice" back. But of course, that's only in the back of their mind, because it has to be. They want to call it love and whatever else. I have a couple female friends who are like you in regards to being caring and nice. And it's all hell situation like you end up in. You're good looking, and you're too nice. Like I've said. But when you girls are sad, lonely, and fed up with life, you aren't so willing to talk to people, be nice and overly sweet... That destroys the "she might be into me" thing. When you're happy, you're nice. When you're nice, the boys think you're into them. I mean, why else would someone bother to actually LISTEN and respond to their problems? Obviously you want to "love them", in all regards of the word. I know, I don't know the situation entirely. But it's one possibility that's ... probable for some of the guys you know. People don't want to be the bad guy. And that's why it has to be in the back of their mind, the lust and love combination. Egh... I'm babbling. Forgive me. I beg of you. Please don't attack me. @.@ I'm just trying to offer a possible explanation. Add it to your book of knowledge of possibilities... ?
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 6:56 am
a lesbian mcdonald's clerk tried to hit on me a week ago...
she gave me a happy meal for 2,99 instead of 3,50 and when i asked why:
she said that's the "FAMILY PRICE" and she gave me a paper to fill out to join the JUNIOR CLUB!! but you can only join that till the age of 13!! do i really look that young?? wtf?? neutral
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