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 Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 6:08 pm
help apollo please.. i like this dude on gaia.. lol. yeah he's older. but he doesnt know i exist. and im afraid if he ever speaks to me or knows my age and know that i like him.. things will get alot out of hand with my feelings. and he prolly hasa gf. =/
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Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 2:08 am
Just so everyone knows:
Apollo might not be online as much, from what I've heard. He's really busy and he's trying not to get addicted to the computer again. He'll be here sometime, but not sure when.
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Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 7:43 am
Desirable Ai Just so everyone knows: Apollo might not be online as much, from what I've heard. He's really busy and he's trying not to get addicted to the computer again. He'll be here sometime, but not sure when. Ok, thanks.
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 6:41 am
Desirable Ai Just so everyone knows: Apollo might not be online as much, from what I've heard. He's really busy and he's trying not to get addicted to the computer again. He'll be here sometime, but not sure when.
But since my mom has the taxes done and I'm buying the CD-R's needed to save everything that we need to save.....and we've got the new mouse and a new copy of Windows XP my computer will be all good soon.... I hope xp
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 7:20 am
Topacka Please help me! Heres my problum: I'm 14 and some of my friends will say that I am the most "un-gay" guy that they have ever seen. But on the other hand a lot of other kids will call me name or even beat me up because they suspect that i'm gay(or bi). The real problum is that I dont know how to "come-out" because if I do they could continue to beat or harrass me or the WHOLE school will know and everyone will harrass me. Could you please help me.
Sometimes all it takes is one person knowing to ease the burden. I know from personal experience that when something is wieghing heavily on me just sharing what happened or what is going through my head takes all the weight off what's going through my head. 3nodding
And for those of you who don't know what a confidant is....well seems the only way to describe it is to describe the relationship between my confidant and myself.
She and I trust each other completely and have complete faith in each other...and yeah we love each other a lot...but not in a "in love" kinda way. She's closer than any family member I have, though that's not saying a person's confidant can't be a family member, and she and I can talk about anything with out fear of any reprisals or repercussions. We each share our inner most secrets with each other so we can help each other out in life. She and I share a bond that transcends friendship and romance and I know when I need her, she'll be there.
I do hope that helps describe the relationship with a confidant.
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 7:22 am
AoD_Khoai help apollo please.. i like this dude on gaia.. lol. yeah he's older. but he doesnt know i exist. and im afraid if he ever speaks to me or knows my age and know that i like him.. things will get alot out of hand with my feelings. and he prolly hasa gf. =/
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 11:31 am
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 8:12 am
Archangel Apollo Topacka Please help me! Heres my problum: I'm 14 and some of my friends will say that I am the most "un-gay" guy that they have ever seen. But on the other hand a lot of other kids will call me name or even beat me up because they suspect that i'm gay(or bi). The real problum is that I dont know how to "come-out" because if I do they could continue to beat or harrass me or the WHOLE school will know and everyone will harrass me. Could you please help me.
Sometimes all it takes is one person knowing to ease the burden. I know from personal experience that when something is wieghing heavily on me just sharing what happened or what is going through my head takes all the weight off what's going through my head. 3nodding
And for those of you who don't know what a confidant is....well seems the only way to describe it is to describe the relationship between my confidant and myself.
She and I trust each other completely and have complete faith in each other...and yeah we love each other a lot...but not in a "in love" kinda way. She's closer than any family member I have, though that's not saying a person's confidant can't be a family member, and she and I can talk about anything with out fear of any reprisals or repercussions. We each share our inner most secrets with each other so we can help each other out in life. She and I share a bond that transcends friendship and romance and I know when I need her, she'll be there.
I do hope that helps describe the relationship with a confidant. thank you very much
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Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 3:45 am
Okay I have a question. I have a gf and I love her and she loves me. The only thing is we both love others also. Is wrong to love two people? and If your bi is wrong to have a bf and a gf if they both know and agree to it? I'm just wondering this is really bugging me and I have a hard enough time just trying to live my life in this living hell my heads all messed up please help me???!! crying
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Posted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 7:30 am
toboetsukasa Okay I have a question. I have a gf and I love her and she loves me. The only thing is we both love others also. Is wrong to love two people? and If your bi is wrong to have a bf and a gf if they both know and agree to it? I'm just wondering this is really bugging me and I have a hard enough time just trying to live my life in this living hell my heads all messed up please help me???!! crying I'll take this one Apollo. Toboetsukasa. It really is ok to love more then one person. Trust me. It means you have a big heart and dont feel connent just loving once person. smile If both your partners agree that they are willing to share you with the other then whos to question it? I myself am lesbain, but find my self in love with a few other women. I'm in a ******** up love shape really. But my 'partners' and I love eachother, so we really dont care what people think. In your case, if both you and your girlfriend are willing to share eachother, and your's and her's other loves are willing to share as well, then there is no problum. But you should remember, that while people here might accept it, those off line may not.
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Posted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 1:23 pm
by the way I've told my friends and my mom but thats it.
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Posted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 2:26 pm
Thank you and now for another question. Is it wrong for you to express yourself at school even if people don't support you? For example wearing a rainbow belt or a shirt. I particpated in the Day of Silence on April 13th and wore a shirt and people had a petition to get me kicked out of school. When I get the time i'll take pictures of the shirt and post it. Thanks for the help with the two love thing..
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Posted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 11:02 pm
dear apollo
my closestest cousin (clifton) to me
we're pretty much stuck to the hip.
then there's this girl (karli) that i totaly have obvious
feelings for her.i dont want clifton to know i'm bi before he tells the family and i get disowned like my other cousin.
what could i do to be with her without him knowing
...also having feelings for her makes me feel kinda dirty
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Posted: Sun May 01, 2005 1:56 am
It's kind of long, but...
I have a really serious crush on a girl I know. I'm really afraid and happy at the same time that I have feelings for her, but these are definitely the most intense I've had for anyone thus far. When I had crushes before, I would usually avoid looking at the person until it died. This time--I don't think I want it to go away. I really want to be with her, and I'm so afraid that it'll fade before I get a chance at that.
Lee is also pansexual, and I gather that she likes me well enough as a friend. However, it's nearing the end of the school year and there'll be a rapid succession of AP exams, SATs, and then finals coming up, so there's no good time for this. Furthermore, I have been notified by a close friend that she sort of recently had a really nasty breakup, so she might not be very receptive right now. I'm not sure I should tell her, but I'm also not sure I can or want to wait until summer (and I may not even see her then).
To make things more complex, the friend who told me that has a crush on me. I may have liked her before, but now I've only got eyes for Lee. I don't want to hurt her any more, but she's the one I want to talk to most about it. Still, things have been slightly awkward between us as a result, and she still might love Florence, who will never reciprocate. So we have a really messed up love square going on...
I guess my main question is what to do about it--hold off until summer and risk losing the feeling, or tell her now, and risk the rejection and worsening her stress. (;__ wink Or should I wait until after APs are over at the least, and tell her then (as suggested by one friend who is going through this situation @__@)?
I'm sorry this post is so long, by the way. It's a sort of convoluted situation, and I sort of have a lot to say...
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Posted: Sun May 01, 2005 11:59 am
oh gosh not again!! Okay, so i stopped liking this dude in the guild. lol the one i told you about before. and i know for a fact ive got the hots for another dude. we talked.. wait, im not even sure he's a dude. you know how some girls have boy avi's. but that doesnt matter. anyway. i want to flirt with him to tell him im interested in him. O.o..... but i'm not good at flirting in words. only in movement.. (not slutty movements as in bending over) but you know, touching the hand kind of thing. help!!!
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