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 Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:36 pm
its a personal choice. do u wana test drive the car b4 u buy it, or not?
ya the bible says that premarital sex is wroung, but lets not forget that not everyone is a christan and most christains dont follow that either, most people after 20 are not virgins.
ferthermore for all you people freaking out about sex and how it changes your opinine on people after uv slept with them. well thats true, and hey if iam having sex with a guy and he brings out a mask am outa there becasue oviously hes a freak.
ya some guys/girls wont do all the stuff an x did for you but u can ask them to do it. or lead them into it. really in my opinine its not that big a deal. sex is sex. use a condom be on the pill.
and its an awsome stress relief, you dont have to be in love with the person or see ur self marring them, ya its not a bad thing either but theres also nothing wroung with goin out to the bar getting a guy goin to his place and havin an awsome night and then never havin to talk to him again. but also it is amazing to have sex with someone u love its like that much more intensifide.
also for all u virgins. mosly girls. i have to say ya u no wat it can be a heartbreaking thing to give ur virginty to a guy that dumbs u later on, but guess wat ur not alone! almost all girls go through that! really! so ya u can try but honestly its almost better in my opine to just get it done with and move on. trust me 2 years later its not guna hount you. speacially after ur first 3 times. lol
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Posted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 11:25 am
In my opinion it doesn't matter. The choice is solely up to the person.
Someone who has sex before marriage is no different then someone who has sex after marriage.
It all adds up to whether your deciding to have sex with the right person and not just some random stranger you picked up at the bus stop.
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Posted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 11:36 am
sex before marriage isn't wrong. sex is just a way of expressing your love for another person. then again the word love is said. so it should be love if your having sex with that person..
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Posted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 6:52 am
My personal opinion, depends on the age. I don't believe it's wrong to before marriage, but I do if they're below 18. You should focus on your school work and not jump into something just because your hormones just happen to be raging. I doubt most people that young could handle the emotional side of it and end up regretting it. 'Specially if they get pregnant and waste the fun years of their life waiting on a baby 24/7. This is why I don't plan on having a kid for a while.
Sex is nothing but a way two people show they care about each other. You're seeing each other in your most intimate moments. It shouldn't be something you do with just anyone. Nor something to do early on.
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Posted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 10:15 am
Yes It should be saved till after marriage. I personally f-ed myseld over. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with someone and gave it up and ops, not together anymore...If I could I would take it back and still be a virgin but I can't and it sucks...
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Posted: Sun Apr 25, 2010 12:11 pm
i agree it is wrong biggrin smile 3nodding blaugh
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Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 8:02 am
Personal oppinion, share yourself with who you love...not who you like or who begs for it. I just read last week that is been proven that casual sex does not negativly affect your emotional stability...thats not how I feel but its what I read. i think it was one of the pop up yahoo news stories. Do what you feel is right for you.
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Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 9:02 am
Personally I had sex before marriage. I could have chosen better for who I gave my virginity to but it's over and in the past. Yes, there are times I regret it but it's one of the choices that shaped me. I have only ever been with three men. 1. A friend I got drunk with (very, very, very bad), 2. An ex I was with for 3 years (2 before we finally decided to have sex) and 3. the man I married. If it wasn't for pre-marital sex I wouldn't have my daughter. As for wasting your younger years 'waiting on a baby 24/7' I consider these years raising her to be the best in my life. I regret nothing because it led me to having her. I would love for her to wait to have sex until she is married but more than likely that won't happen. I just want her to be safe about it and not give it up to anyone who wants it.
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Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 9:21 am
I say it's definitely wrong. Why? Because you'll never know if you're gonna marry this guy/girl or if this guy/girl is just using you for their own sexual pleasures and desires. If you really love that person and if that person really loves you he/she should be able to wait until you two get married legally. It's just that having sex before marriage can just lead to regrets and heartaches from all sides. So, yea...it's wrong.
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Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 9:34 am
I think its up to each person, I have sex before marriage because I will not be getting married for a long time.. That is a personal Choice.. I live with him and we are dating. If you know the goods and bads of sex then i think its free game for them.
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Posted: Tue Oct 19, 2010 2:36 pm
I've never really thought of virginity as anything special, so I couldn't care less. People can have sex as much as they want before getting married for all I care.
I admit, if I have a partner who's had more partners than me, I'd feel a bit bad though. Not because they slept with others, but because I'd feel I have less sexual prowess than them as I wasn't able to get as many people in bed. lol
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 1:11 am
Sex is for people who are truly in love, marriage is a proof of you commitment to that love which is why some see it wrong to have sex before marriage, If you truly love them, not highschool status love but true deep your heart pounds just by holding hands love, you would willingly die for them love, then go for it
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Posted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 1:03 pm
I personally don't think I will. I mean, I want to be completely sure that the person I'm with the first time is it, the One. Plus, you know, like, what God says.
I certainly do not want the guy I end up marrying to have been with anyone else, so I want to give him the same thing. It's sort of a respect thing.
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Posted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 1:20 pm
I personally see no harm in sex before marriage...after all, I've done it and I wouldn't mind if whoever I marry someday to have been with other guys before me... practice makes perfect.
and kuro-uchi: who are you to say what the difference is between high-school love and true love. after all, in high school there was someone that could get my heart racing just by smiling at me...so that felt fairly true and plus, i've got two friends that are still together and have been together since sophmore year...i'd say that's pretty deep and true (which they are both out of high school as am i)
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Posted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 1:27 pm
I don't see anything wrong with having sex before marriage.
It's a personal choice really, and it really depends on how you view sex.
Some people view sex as something to be done with people they love as a way to show their love for each other, and others view sex as something that feels good and they don't really care who they do it with.
I've had sex before marriage and I honestly don't feel like a bad person because of it.
I've had multiple sexual partners, my boyfriend has had multiple sexual partners.. and we are both fine with that.. heck we moved in together and started dating after we had sex. XD
Nearly two years later and we're still as close as ever, we love each other, and we have things we enjoy besides sex, yes that it what brought us together in the first place.. but we share more then just that now!
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