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 Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 12:00 pm
Nikolita Staring Berry wow...I looked on this thread for just general dating advice i might not of known just in case, and well...it made me cry. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18..... he loves me and respects me so much and I feel the same towards him but reading all it says about relationships with age gaps...wow crying I'm sorry this thread upset you. If you check the date of the first post, it's from 2005, making it one of the oldest threads/stickies in the guild. Some of the information might be a little outdated, so take it with a grain of salt. A lot of the information on age gaps (whether in the first post or from later discussion) comes from many of us who've been in your place. And just because you and your boyfriend have an age gap doesn't mean you're automatically going to break up. Just for many of us, and for many teens in general, having an age gap in a relationship often leads to a break-up. BUT not all relationships are like that, so if you and your boyfriend are getting along great and you love each other, then that's wonderful! heart that is correct, I have a friend who is marry to a women that is 11 years older than him, they met when he was only 19 years old. There love story is a bit different because it was not love at first site. He was actually turn down several times until she gave in and allow them to date, but look at them now, still marry after 10 years later has a great kid and are living happily ever after. What I'm trying to get at is, age gap doesn't mean you will break up. relationship with someone you truly love doesn't go by age but by personality and not giving up so easily. I know people think that you might be too young right now but, if you don't rush things then I see no problem in your relationship
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Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 5:08 pm
A long time ago my therapist suggested me to read "He's not that into you" book and I agreed on some of the aspects of dating there.
My therapist told me that if you don't hear from the guy/girl your interested in within three days, move on because they're not that into you.
And she was absolutely right. Her advice sticks to me to this very day.
I've dated some guys and within three days I moved on. I had one guy contact me two weeks afterwards when he schedule me a date long a** time ago.
I think it's safe to say any person whose really interested in someone would put in a lot of effort to have them in their life. And vice versa.
The guy I'm currently dating admits he's a very busy man, but even if we're not calling each other or talking through out the day he still sends me a sweet text. That shows effort and is actually thinking of you through out the day. Despite his schedule he's always making effort to hang out with me.
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Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 7:57 am
Koji Hinata Nikolita Staring Berry wow...I looked on this thread for just general dating advice i might not of known just in case, and well...it made me cry. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18..... he loves me and respects me so much and I feel the same towards him but reading all it says about relationships with age gaps...wow crying I'm sorry this thread upset you. If you check the date of the first post, it's from 2005, making it one of the oldest threads/stickies in the guild. Some of the information might be a little outdated, so take it with a grain of salt. A lot of the information on age gaps (whether in the first post or from later discussion) comes from many of us who've been in your place. And just because you and your boyfriend have an age gap doesn't mean you're automatically going to break up. Just for many of us, and for many teens in general, having an age gap in a relationship often leads to a break-up. BUT not all relationships are like that, so if you and your boyfriend are getting along great and you love each other, then that's wonderful! heart that is correct, I have a friend who is marry to a women that is 11 years older than him, they met when he was only 19 years old. There love story is a bit different because it was not love at first site. He was actually turn down several times until she gave in and allow them to date, but look at them now, still marry after 10 years later has a great kid and are living happily ever after. What I'm trying to get at is, age gap doesn't mean you will break up. relationship with someone you truly love doesn't go by age but by personality and not giving up so easily. I know people think that you might be too young right now but, if you don't rush things then I see no problem in your relationship Haha ours was almost love at first sight...more like love at second sight. We knew each other, sort of, when he was a senior. But last November we went to a mutual friend's birthday party and we're flirting all night. After we started texting A LOT and then we hung out about 5 times, when finally he asked me out January 29th heart
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