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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:31 am
I quit because of certain reasons, which will remain unnamed, but, I have to stay quit for certain other reasons.
Here is a copy of a post I made at my Message Board about Lonelygirl15.
"Well, guys, I have managed to become a foster-mother in the course of three hours. Sort of.
Basically my Mom turned into a crackwhore and abandoned her children. I have volunteered to house my brothers, get Government certified, and raise them.
It's going to be a huge strain, but, for some reason I am hopeful. If all goes well tomorrow with the case worker, and my Mother doesn't co-operate with going to a shelter (which I know she will not), it is most likely I will be keeping the kids.
So, if I am not around as much, or if I seem irritable, it is most likely because of the above stated.
I am feeling optimistic, though, something I haven't felt in a while, so this might be good for me.
Justin is being a complete doll about it all, too, which is a huge relief.
Milo: I didn't think it would be this easy, the only thing she had to say to me after I filled out the preliminary papers was "Are you SURE you want to do this? I mean, you're still young..."
But I am sure.
I am going to give my brothers a loving household and a stable life-- something I was never able to have. "
So, yes, I have become an impromptu Mommy, but I suppose that is okay because I am TOTALLY a MILF.
But yeah, that's what is going on.
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:53 am
I wish you luck with all of this, I hope it doesn't strain your life too much or for long. We will miss you, and I think this is a great thing you are doing, so once again good luck 3nodding .
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:55 am
Well, they're only 14 and 11... so it will probably affect my life for at least 7 years. razz
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:56 am
Good luck, and we will miss you! If you ever want come back just to visit, that'd great! Once again, good luck and we'll miss you.
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 8:01 am
Anagove Well, they're only 14 and 11... so it will probably affect my life for at least 7 years. razz Well at least they are older, but I have major respect for you being willing to provide a loving setting for them. No doubt you will be blessed in life for helping them 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 8:43 am
Oh, Ana...
I hope everything turns out alright. I can't imagine the stress...
You do what's gotta be done, okay?
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:33 am
The 14yr.-old should be alright, seeing as it's High School age, but the 11vr.-old will likely need a lot of attention.
Good luck, stop on by whenever you feel like it and don't forget to call. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:54 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:59 am
Look on the bright side,
Whenever you marry, It might help you to decide if you want kids or not. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:20 am
Good luck Ana heart
You're lucky the boys are already 11 and 14. I couldn't imagine what it'd be like to take care of a hyperactive 7yr old x_X
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:48 am
Druki The 14yr.-old should be alright, seeing as it's High School age, but the 11vr.-old will likely need a lot of attention. Good luck, stop on by whenever you feel like it and don't forget to call. 3nodding It is actually the other way around, unfortunately. The 11 year old is adapting really well, but the 14 year old is going to need some intense counseling. He thinks that my mother can do no wrong, even though she was using crack, sleeping around, neglecting them, etc. Poor kid sad
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 2:05 pm
 Good luck. <3
Give the kids our love? sweatdrop heart
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 2:09 pm
D: *snugs*
Best of wishes.
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 2:17 pm
^___^ ANA WINZ. >.> ErmImean... 3333333 FAIL.
heart heart heart
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 3:27 pm
Good luck Ana! As you already know... we will miss you... but drop by to say hi every once in a while! :] <3
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