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 Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2006 5:38 pm
There's a girl in my school named Kaitlin. She's a grade below me, so it's hard to ever see her, but a kid in my class last year had a girlfriend in the class I'm in now, so...
She came in last year, mid way. She first mesmerized me with her beauty, So I started sitting NEAR her in the morning and in lunch, and found she is. just. like me. We have the exact same personality. I don't know much about relationships, but that must be good, right? I don't know if she has a boyfriend, and my class mates are the judgemental idiot type, so just by going up and asking, they'd know, and the school is small (like, almost 100 students) and my mum is a teacher, so everyone and my mom would know. How should I find out stuff about her? what should i do? I think about her ALL the time... stressed
help, please.
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Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2006 6:29 pm
Hmm, well, maybe you should take notice of something she likes (like on her school bag or t-shirt or something), that you also like (whether it be anime, music, ect), and comment about it to her. ^_^ If you sit by her in the moring and at lunch, casually, but politely start a conversation?
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 5:11 am
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 8:35 am
Try just being good friends. One of my friends was told by her parents to "marry her best friend". So, just get to know her as a regular friend. That way, you'll truely know her if you ever choose to persue a gf/bf relationship with her.
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 12:20 pm
Is this the same thing for girls.. I know this boy but he's a year oler I see him in the halls and at church gatherings but I dont think he likes me.. what do I do?
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 1:42 pm
*sigh* oh dear. you see kids these days are WAAAAAAAAAY too stuck on popularity and the whole "IN" thing. why should you even give a fraction of a care as to what others think of you?
honeslty, from experience, there should be NOTHING in your way to get what you trully desire. who cares what yoru mom thinks? who cares what others think? is it their decision that is TRULLY going to matter in the end? no...it wont. yes its hard to ignore others judgements.......but it trully doesnt matter. the only thing that DOES matter is your interest in a girl........and your goal to approach her.
be yourself, talk to her, get to know her, and tell her you like her. and if she laughs and thinks its stupid and doesnt except you for who you are, then she doesnt deserve you. she trully doesnt. and screw her........but if she does....you'll feel better about it for being yourself and taking the first step.
as they say opportunities will pass you by if you dont take them when they come. and sometimes they never come back. so ask her
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 4:45 pm
Z-Sec There's a girl in my school named Kaitlin. She's a grade below me, so it's hard to ever see her, but a kid in my class last year had a girlfriend in the class I'm in now, so... She came in last year, mid way. She first mesmerized me with her beauty, So I started sitting NEAR her in the morning and in lunch, and found she is. just. like me. We have the exact same personality. I don't know much about relationships, but that must be good, right? I don't know if she has a boyfriend, and my class mates are the judgemental idiot type, so just by going up and asking, they'd know, and the school is small (like, almost 100 students) and my mum is a teacher, so everyone and my mom would know. How should I find out stuff about her? what should i do? I think about her ALL the time... stressed help, please. Do not try so hard. If she is sitting with you at lunch then enjoy it. Listen to the girl. Respond to what she is talking about. If you are not into that subject then say so. Never fake it. She will be able to tell. Example. Star trek. The major differences in shuttle craft and a runabout. The difference is the Shuttle craft has a sleep area. The runabout does not.
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 6:58 pm
I've been in two relationships.
The first one, I was with her for a year and one half. I still love her to death to this day but she doesn't care.
The second one, I'm in right now and we've only been together... A month or something...
The best thing you could do it just talk to her more. Once you feel comfortable around her, just tell her straight up. Don't make her keep guessing.
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 3:45 pm
I talked to her (not about my liking of her. just talked) and helped her in PE. Gotta start somewhere. ninja
Oh, and I kinda stopped caring what my mom thinks.... she wants me to get a girly friend anyway. rofl
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 4:53 pm
How old and what grade are you in?
I was lucky,Me and my girlfriend asked out eachother at the same time....
LOL
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 5:24 pm
LRD_nick How old and what grade are you in? I was lucky,Me and my girlfriend asked out eachother at the same time.... LOL 9th and 8th. her 8th. And my good buddy just said, "don't do that whole friend thing!" he had his reasons. so now I'm just totally confuzzled, don't know what to do.
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Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 6:15 pm
Z-Sec LRD_nick How old and what grade are you in? I was lucky,Me and my girlfriend asked out eachother at the same time.... LOL 9th and 8th. her 8th. And my good buddy just said, "don't do that whole friend thing!" he had his reasons. so now I'm just totally confuzzled, don't know what to do. this is just COMPLETELY out of speculation....but most guys HATE the whole "lets just be friends" crap that almost every woman tells to a guy that they aren't interested in but wouldn't mind being friends with. however im not sure if that has anything to do with what your friend meant. ask him to be more specific.
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Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 1:27 am
I'd have to agree with SaintChaos. ^^
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Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 12:51 pm
talked to her a little, not much, and I've helped her out when possible... not possible to often... but she definently knows who I am, and I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a bee eff, so whatever. everyday, I fall more n' more into love wither. I missed like 8 questions on a test, just thinking about her... ack.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 11:50 am
Z-Sec I missed like 8 questions on a test, just thinking about her... ack. I think we may need to have a section in this guild just for advice for the love-struck. Or for people who are wanting to be in relationships in general. mrgreen
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