|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:33 pm
Ok, so here's the deal. My passenger was injured. He was only my passenger because I offered to give him a ride home because his ex girlfriend didn't want to drive him. She had agreed to take him, but because for one reason or another she decided not to, I was the nice person and volunteered.
So he's injured. Not badly. His knee's a little banged up.
He agrees that he doesn't want to sue and doesn't want me to be in any s**t financially.
My insurance should cover the emergency room.
But his mother won't let him go back to work because she wants him to have an MRI.
But he can't have an MRI until our insurance clears it because the system is ******** up and so it's taking a while.
She informs my mother that she is very upset and expects him to be reimbursed for his lost wages. She also informs my mother that he is her only child.
LIAH.
She has at least four children, the liar.
She's milking this ******** bruised knee for all she can.
I understand that she's concerned he's injured.
But there is NO excuse for her to outright lie.
So do you know what this means? They're gonna walk away with at least 10 grand.
And you know what else that means?
We're going to be out a LOT of money.
So that means I get to work even HARDER to pay my tuition and car payments. And my mom gets to cry even HARDER when we get the bills each month and can't possibly afford to pay them.
Do these people ******** realize that ALL THE ******** MONEY WE HAVE LEFT IS GONE?!
We don't have anything left in savings.
What we have is what we make every week.
That gets spent on bills.
What I get gets spent on my tuition and the car (Which, by the way, I haven't gotten yet, they're saying Wednsday now) and I don't even bother with food anymore. What I can scrounge up around the house or get fed at work is all I eat. Gee, maybe that's why I'm already at a ideal to skinny weight and losing pounds.
Not only is our insurance going to go up from this, but rest assured there will be money (Money we don't have to spare) coming straight from our pockets and going into theirs for their 'only' child who is working at Sam's Club and dropped out of college.
Little bit of a shocker when I hear my mom use the word 'bankruptcy' and how most people in our situation would have declared it by now.
But if we do that, then my father's condition would probably worsen.
At the moment, he's doing quite well. He hasn't had chemo in a few weeks.
But all it takes is one little ounce of loss of hope for him to lose hope and go back downhill.
Not like I could move out to get rid of the drama. I'd love to do that. I'd love to find a nice job in the City, rent an apartment in Brooklyn, and live on my own. Love to do it. Absolutely love to move out and live on my own.
But you know what? I can't. My mother and my father need me too much right now. There is too much relying on my little income and litttle bit of optimism, however fake it may be.
I'm not even going to be able to dorm when I transfer colleges. Can't afford it and need to stay home.
At this rate, I'll never get out. And when I do, it'll be because my father has died and my mother has to give up the house and sell everything.
Wonderful life to look forward to, isn't it?
As if we weren't struggling enough when I had to go and ******** everything up and crash the car and cause the lawsuit and $100+ car payments a month.
I am >< close to dropping out of college, saying '******** it' to my lifelong goal of being a teacher, moving out, and finding some high end restaurant to waitress at for the rest of my life.
At least I can be nice to people.
I suppose that's an asset.
Then again, being nice is what got me into this mess to begin with.
No good deed goes unpunished.
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:40 pm
eek gonk
I can't possibly say anything to make you feel better.
I'm suprised you can even write the updates.
I'm also suprised that you still have a computer if you're that much in debt.
You are such a humble, great person. gonk heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:45 pm
*snuggles* gonk heart
I wish I knew what to say. ;;;
I wish I could help.
;-; heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:45 pm
Oh I'm so sorry Zae, I seriously hope things get so much better. But please don't drop out of college. That wouldn't be good if you want to become a teacher, but it you do, please(I know I can't controll you or your actions.) reconsider going back in after all this drama is let through.
What that women is doing, you should go slap her silly. If you have enough time, try and get another SMALL job just something to give to your parents while you keep the other money for college.
I'm so sorry and I wish I could help. You are an awesome person. PLEASE, DON'T GIVE UP HOPE! WE'RE ALL HERE FOR YOU!!!!
Remember the family tree, you made us all, so we're forced to stick with you, untill we're Gaian 18 year olds. XD Jk.
Just please don't give up hope.
Much love. heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:45 pm
heart I'm so sorry Zae. Thats really ******** up. Does that lady know what your family is going through? Maybe you should tell her. Maybe then she'll lay off. And if not, I suggest finding a lawyer. Especially if she gets one. I hope everything turns out ok.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:46 pm
gonk
*wishes it were possible to mail you money*
D:
ILU ZAE. heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:49 pm
 Just bringing back some love from the past.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v681/gth/14dnbpc-1.jpg
Part of the GCDSG
And will always be!
So...eat that GCD!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:49 pm
 Poor Zae. I can understand how you feel, and how diffucult it is. Hang in there. heart
~<3
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:50 pm
Owch. That sounds terrible. I hope everything turns out all right in the end, and you'd still be able to go to college. I really don't know what to say....
I wish I could help in some way.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 7:54 pm
His mother is such a greedy little b...
Like what you're going through isn't stressful enough. gonk
I really hope her greedy little plan falls apart or she somehow grows a conscious and gives up. Either way, don't let this make you give up. You've already been through a lot already.
Hope everything gets better soon. sad
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:03 pm
The nerve of her. Does she even know about your situation? If she does, she has no sympathy whatsoever.
I doubt I'd be able to deal with what you have to deal with, Zae. With all of the problems you've faced within such a short amount, you've never given up and you're stronger because of it. That's something I find admirable. So after all of that, don't give up now. Hopefully things will work out for you.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:29 pm
"Im more insane then you">.<
Englsih sucks.
-snugs zae- "I'm an insane GCDSG-er
and always will be"
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:39 pm
Zae Zae, do you still have that PO box?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:44 pm
I really hope things get better for you Zae...
And I think it's important to note how delightful Karma is...
This lying woman better watch her mouth, lest Karma give her the wish of him being her only child by causing her other children to die...
it wouldn't be the first time I've seen someone lie like that to get out of something, then a short time later have it actually happen...
But things will get better, even in the darkest and most hopeless of times there's hope.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 8:46 pm
gonk What a b***h.... what the ******** does she want an MRI for? Those things are pricy... like... 3 grand, ne?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
