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 Posted: Mon May 09, 2005 5:03 pm
Well i hope its ok for me to post a thread like this. sence we're all like family i thought most of us that are depressed or down or have troubles can ask the family for help.
I need help. the one i love is gone i cant find him and i dont know what happend to him. i had to breakup with him for his own good and wellfair. i miss him dearly. and im so depressed. i feel so empty without him. i feel nothing. im not happy even though i act like it. but down deep im so depressed i want to kill myself. i feel horrible for breaking up with him. what should i do? i try to communicate with him but noone in his family is responding. plz help me. i want to try and be happy again. crying
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2005 8:32 pm
I say just keep trying. Eventually you'll get back in contact with him and I'm sure if you just tell him the truth that he'll understand completely and you two can be together again
And btw, this is a good thread idea.
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 3:10 pm
thanx. i thought it would. and thanx for the advice. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 8:57 pm
Well. If i may add my part in this opinion. I would say that you should wait and keep trying to keep talking to him because he might have just had some huge accident in his family or maybe something else happened and most likely he probly still likes you alot. So i would say wait.
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 9:44 pm
how can there be? (and this guy is online). its been two months. his family goes on but doesnt replay to anything i say. and i want to protect him. so i guess i need to move on. ill find him in my life if we're ment to be.
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 11:30 pm
Katuka how can there be? (and this guy is online). its been two months. his family goes on but doesnt replay to anything i say. and i want to protect him. so i guess i need to move on. ill find him in my life if we're ment to be. Create a mule... Hook up with him on that. Break the news to him a fe months later. smile
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2005 8:31 am
I think if you guys are ment to me you will find each other again, Keep trying to find him. I broke up with the one guy I went out with so he would have room, and time to staighten out his life that was the hardest thing I ever had to do, but not we are really good friends and he doesn't do any drugs anymore, and he finallly got a really good job, so anyways what I am trying to say is that sometimes a little time apart is a good thing, but good luck with everything.
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Posted: Sat May 14, 2005 10:20 am
thankx mina i really apreciate the help.
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Posted: Sat May 14, 2005 1:19 pm
I'm sorry for your loss. That's a pretty crushing event in anyone's life. I would suggest throwing yourself into some group activity such as a charity or cause. Get involved with others and start forming new relationships. It won't make the pain go away, but it will help. Things could work out later. Maybe you just need some time away from each other?
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 10:40 pm
If its meant to happen then it will... always try to look at the positive.
Just when I thought things were never gonna get better I got a new job assistant manager position with benefits, a wonderful boyfriend in real life who loves me to pieces and spoils me rotted, and by the end of the summer I will have my own place to live in!
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 5:49 pm
ok it seems that im the only one with problems.
i need help.
as i have said in perviouse posts in this thread i lost my lifemate bc of some evil person. and its been about almosth 3 months sence then...and i still miss him. it hurts still...
why?
why cant i get over him? plz help me. i really wnat a happy life.
but i also want it with him in my life.... crying crying
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2005 6:16 pm
*sigh*
I'll give it a shot >.>
Alright, you can't get over him, because you still want him in your life, pretty simple. The feeling you're getting of being empty, sorry for saying this, but shall never be filled unless you fill it with love.
If I were you, I would make my new goal in life, to gain money, buy an airplane ticket, and go all the way there to see what's going on.
Then again, tha's just me >.>;
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2005 7:07 am
It's a shallow remark, yes, but Neitsabes is right.
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 6:06 am
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Posted: Wed Jul 27, 2005 5:59 pm
I, too, have a problem I need help or adivce on.
I met a guy at the beginning of the school year there's was a guy and after a few weeks of chating on paper during math lessons, he asked me out to a movie. I did the first this that came to my mind, pniced in my mind, thinking that he likes me and no one's ever asked me out and we were only in the fifth grade so I didn't know what to do. I kept panicing until he started picking on me all the time. But then my preforming arts teacher signed up the whole fifth grade to learn Ballroom dancing. I thought I would be twiching for weeks but then whenever he would have to dance with me he would be all happy becuase he knew I hated him. I realized my feelings long after. I never had this feeling before and then the end of the school year comes and on the last day he didn't say anything to me. I didn't have enough curage to say it so I thouht it could be his choice. nothing....
I would cry sometimes becuase I thought I'm never gonna see him again becuase next year he's going to a different school.
I keep having this feeling that I'm gonna see him unexspectedly but I realized that I only have that feeling becuase I want to. I never saw him ever snice the last day of school.
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