As the title suggests, just some questions and information I found on a**l sex.
More information will be added when I find it.
heart All I ask is people keep an open mind on this "taboo" subject.
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Taken from:
http://www.minou.com/aboutsex/analsex.htm Some Questions About a**l SexWhy would anyone want to have a**l sex?
For many people, a**l sex is the ultimate taboo. ******** makes it sound crude and dirty, sodomy sounds technical. In the 1990's, a**l sex has been given the bad rap because HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, is most easily transmitted by a**l intercourse.
But some people love a**l sex. Others hate it. Others haven't tried it yet and are curious. And many people are attracted to it precisely because it's so taboo and mysterious.
What is analingus? One other part of the body that some people enjoy licking, or having licked, is the a**s. The a**s has half the nerve endings in the pelvic region and many people find touching it to be sexually arousing. Although we haven't mentioned safer sex yet as part of this series, we will here: the a**s and rectum carry many diseases that live quite benignly in your lower digestive tract, but which can be harmful in your mouth or stomach. Performing analingus is a very risky behaviour for a variety of bacterial infections. Refer to the section on safer sex techniques for ways to protect yourself if you or your partner enjoys this activity.
Does a**l sex hurt? a**l sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy a**l sex as a safe and fulfilling part of your sex life. However, some people may never like it, and if your lover is one of those people, respect their limits. Don't force the idea upon them.
Can a**l sex actually give pleasure? The pleasure of a**l sex is derived from many things. Doing something "nasty" appeals to many people, especially about sex. Doing something different to spice up a sex life that has become something of a bore can be part of it. And the physical sensations available during a**l sex are uniquely different from anything else. The rectum is lined with nerve endings, some of which signal the brain to 'reward' you with good feelings when stimulated. For men, the prostate gland can be a source of powerful pleasure. And for a thrusting p***s, the ring of the a**s can be a new and strong sensation to enjoy.
What do I need to have a**l sex? The most important pieces of advice anyone can give on a**l sex are: lubricants, condoms, and patience. The most commonly available lubricant is KY-Jelly, a greaseless, odorless substance available at most drug stores. Better lubricants include Astroglide, ID, Wet, or ForePlay, some of which are available at better drug stores, and most of which are available in some form at adult toy stores.
Do not buy anything that is oil-based. Make sure the lubricant you buy is rated "condom compatible." Nothing else will do. Oil-based lubricants such as vaseline or baby oil will destroy a condom long before you're done having sex. And many oil-based sub-stances will coat the lining of the rectum, providing a haven for many potential infections.
Do I have to use a condom? Even if you're sure that both you and your partner are disease- free, you should still use a condom. The rectum is home to lots of infectious bacteria that can cause burning and urethritis of the p***s. It will also help you clean up afterwards.
I'm worried that a**l sex will be messy. a**l sex should not be messy. Most first-timers fear that it will be, but most people can tell when they have to go. A condom will help with cleanup, of course, and if you're really concerned, a commercial enema, like Fleet, will help beforehand.
How do we prepare for a**l sex? Patience is the third and final thing you need to make a**l sex possible. Initial penetration is always the most difficult part of a**l sex -- the a**s is a tight ring of flesh at the opening of the rectum designed to control the elimination of bodily waste. It is partially under voluntary control, and partially reflexive to stimulation. Your partner has to relax, and you have to go slow to coax it into opening enough to receive your p***s.
Start with a well-lubricated finger or a slim (smaller than your p***s) d***o. The d***o is more realistic, but your fingers can flex and feel what they're doing inside his/her a**. Slide one finger in slowly, letting him/her adjust to it. Take your finger all the way out, then push it back in again. Give their a**s time to get used to this kind of activity. Then slide a second finger in. Consider how big your p***s is and realize that two fingers is probably enough.
What position should we use for a**l sex? For actual intercourse, picking a position can be important. Many men and women want to be on top, to regulate how fast penetration occurs. Other like to lie on their stomachs, or crouch doggy-style, or to be penetrated while lying on their sides. Choose what's best before you start.
As always, control yourself. Take your time and use lots of lubricant. People who like a**l sex say that "too much lube is almost enough." Listen to her -- if he/she tells you it starts to hurt, back off.
Eventually, a time will come during your lovemaking where his/her a**s will relax enough to allow the head of your c**k to 'pop' into them. If they are completely relaxed, that pop should feel completely painless. Now just because you're inside him/her is no reason to start pounding away like mad. Let their body adjust. Take your time. Eventually you will both be ready for more.
Can I get pregnant from a**l sex? It is not technically possible to get pregnant from a**l sex; there is no way for semen to get from the rectal tract to the vaginal tract.
However, a**l sex is still not a very good method of birth control. Semen leaking from the a**s after intercourse may drip across the perineum (the short stretch of skin separating vulva and a**s) and cause what is known as a 'splash' conception. The failure rate for this is surprisingly high! 8% of couples of who use a**l sex as a method of birth control have babies each year.
What if I don't like it? You may find that a**l sex just isn't for you. That's fine. Nothing says that you have to indulge in something that doesn't make you feel good.
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Some Information and How-To's About a**l SexTaken from:
http://sexuality.about.com/cs/sexualtechnique/ht/analmasturb.htmThe a**s is full of sensitive nerve endings that feel great when stimulated by a finger, toy, tongue, or p***s. Before you explore a**l sex with a partner, it's wise to practice a**l masturbation first. Once inserted, a butt plug will feel good against a man's prostate, and it can also indirectly stimulate a woman's G-spot since the wall between the v****a and the a**s is so thin.
Difficulty: Average
Time Required: 1 hour
Here's How:1. Choose your toy. Butt Plugs (also known as a**l plugs or a**l toys) are a good way to start a**l play. These are usually short toys that bulge in the middle, but have a narrow neck at the base. Once the widest part is inside of you, your sphincter muscle contracts around the narrow neck, lodging the toy in place. The toy must have a flared base, which prevents it from slipping up inside you.
2. Bring on the lubricant. Ample use of lubrication is key to a good a**l sex experience, since the a**s does not self-lubricant. So have a pump-style dispenser on hand, and choose a thicker water-based lubricant like Slippery Stuff Gel.
3. Get ready. Make sure your fingernails are trimmed and clean. If you're concerned about hygeine, have a bowel movement first. Bathing is also a good idea.
4. Turn yourself on. Listen to sexy music, read or watch erotica, play with yourself in the mirror - do what you usually do to get yourself excited.
5. Find a comfortable position. Try different positions till you get one that gives you good access to your butt. Lying on your side, stomach, or squatting are all good. You can also do this in the shower, so you'll be warm and clean.
6. Get the lay of the land. If you've never seen your a**s, get out the mirror and have a look. Apply some lubricant to your fingertips and explore the skin all around the a**s. Then gently tap on the a**s, watching how it reacts as you do, noting any special sensitivity as well. Breathe deeply, focusing your mind on relaxing your butt muscles (unclench them if you've tightened up). You'll find that this muscle control will help you relax so a**l penetration will not be painful.
7. Insert a finger. As you exhale, gently insert a lubed-up fingertip in past the a**l sphincter, which has a tendency to contract when it meets resistance. If you have difficulty, massage the a**s, and try pushing out (as if you were going to the bathroom), as you push your finger in. Once inside, hold still while you get used to the sensation. When you're ready, move your finger around as much as you feel comfortable. Many people enjoy a gentle circling motion - do this as long as it's pleasurable.
8. Slip in the a**l plug. Withdraw your finger, add lubricant to your butt plug, and then try to insert the toy. If your toy is long or a bit soft, it might help to hold the toy near the top and guide it in. If you have trouble, stop for a bit, massage your a**s, relax your muscles and try again. Once inside, hold still with just a bit of the toy inside you, rather than pushing it in to the hilt, as your rectum will need a minute to get used to the object coming up (rather than going out).
9. Lodge the butt plug in place. Once inside, slowly push the toy further in if it feels good. Keep adding lubricant, because slipperier is better. Your butt plug should get smaller at the base, and when it's inserted as far as it will go, it'll stay lodged in your rectum.
10. Get busy. At this point, you can leave the toy in place and go on to stimulate other pleasure points, or you can explore subtle variations in movement -try turning the plug slowly, gently pushing or tapping on it, or turning on/up the vibration if you've got a vibrating plug. If you've chosen a butt plug with a gentle curve, make sure that when it's inside your a**s the curve points toward your stomach. This will put pleasurable pressure on the prostate and may indirectly stimulate the G Spot.
11. Have fun. Because the plug is designed to be "worn," you are free to get up and go about whatever business you like. I suggest spending some time exploring different possibilities: walking around the house, taking a stroll outside, riding a motorcycle, having cybersex, anything that'll keep you tuned into the sensations in your butt. Chances are, the longer you go at it, the more turned on you'll get.
12. Bottom's up! You can just enjoy your a**l plug and then remove it when it loses its thrill, or you can take your play to the next level, and try to orgasm with the plug in place. Get in a position that is both comfortable and gives you access to your c**t or p***s. Use your favorite masturbation technique. You may want to remove the plug quickly after you come, but remember to do so gently.
Tips:- If you find you like movement in and out of your a**s, try a slim d***o rather than a plug. To get a better grip, use a d***o with a long handle on one end or one of the bent double dildos.
- If you get a plug or d***o with a suction cup on the base, you can attach it to a wall, back yourself up against it, and penetrate yourself without having to use your hands.
- a**l beads are another great toy for exploring a**l play, as the sphincter muscles contract around each bead as they are inserted, which many find pleasurable.
- If you don't want to worry about toy cleanliness, invest in a silicone plug or d***o. These are non-porous so you can wash them off easily with soap and water. Porous toys (those made out of rubber and cyberskin) can also be used with condoms.
What You Need:- butt plug or small d***o
- lubricant
- towel for clean up
- vibrator (optional)
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