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 Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 7:49 pm
ok, i just told the guy I like that I like him.. :[06:59:53 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: but I want to say something
[07:01:17 PM] Mark: It's ok, you don't have to.
[07:01:20 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: but im afraid what I say will come out all
wrong
[07:01:29 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: But I want to
[07:02:06 PM] Mark: If it comes out wrong, I'll understand, don't
worry.
[07:02:50 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: ..
[07:03:27 PM] Mark: It's ok, it's me, you don't have to worry.
[07:03:49 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: im trying to make sure it doesnt come out
all wrong, this is important
[07:04:27 PM] Mark: Ok, I can respect that, take your time.
[07:04:35 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: thank you
[07:05:31 PM] Mark: your welcome. I realy have to go now, I wish I
didn't, but I have to.
[07:05:34 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: wait
[07:05:41 PM] Mark: ok
[07:05:42 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: i.. i.. thnk i lke you
[07:08:45 PM] Mark: I like you too, but I think I mentioned it, I
already sort of made a commitment to someone... *feels
totaly aweful about this*
[07:09:09 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: I hinted towards it..
[07:10:57 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: ..
[07:10:58 PM] Mark: I know... I just... *Is crying, doesn't know what
to do* I just need to think, don't worry though, no
matter what, I'll always be there for you, no matter
what descision I arrive at.
[07:12:01 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: Aww, please dont cry.. * feels totally
awfull about making you cry* Same here
[07:12:50 PM] Mark: No don't feel bad!
[07:13:08 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: Then you cant feel bad..
[07:14:03 PM] Mark: It's not that I feel bad, I just never had this
happen before, and now I don't know what to do.
[07:14:35 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: im stupid, I knew you were giving that
poem to brook, I should have just kept my mouth shut..[07:15:42 PM] Mark: No, I think that might have been worse, especially
if it came out later. I don't know... I realy have to go
though... *should have gone to bed 20 minuits ago*
[07:15:57 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: bye
[07:16:05 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: ..
[07:16:25 PM] Mark: Bye. Talk to you tommorow! *if you're on*
[07:17:04 PM] ~*(_Trinity_: Bye.. Talk to you tomorrow...*has tears
inher eyes*
[07:17:45 PM] Mark: *isn't crying anymore* ok, tommorow then ^-^
[07:17:46 PM] * Mark is now Offline
His name is mark, and Im the other person.. Did I do the right thing?
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Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 9:12 pm
The more important question is do you personally feel you did thr right thing in this situation? Do you feel wrong, bad, or guilty abou tit in anyway? Do you feel relieved you told him even if he can't or won't return the same feelings?
From my expirence with this like this, it is an ify thing to do. On one hand, it is good to let feelings out in the open, even if you know the other can't or won't return the feelings. On the other hand, it could compicate things. YOu have to know yourself, the perosn you are telling, and the person they are with (if they are with someone or trying to be with someone). If you think you all can handle it and it won't damage anything, then I feel it is better to get it out instead of keeping it bottled up. If you feel it will danage things in some aspect, maybe keep it semi-hidden at least until you are sure one way or the other.
Well, you told him anyways. Have you given any thought as to what you will do now? Will you try to push to be with him even though he is obviously intrested with another? Will you pretend to back off but secretly be pining for him? Will you find a way to move on? Those are things to think about. It will be hurtful and even weird for a little bit between you teo, but if you really want to at least stay friends, you need to respect the fact that he has someone else. I don't mean just simply acknowledge the fact, but outwardly accept it and respect it.
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:36 pm
Dominic_Deegan The more important question is do you personally feel you did thr right thing in this situation? Do you feel wrong, bad, or guilty abou tit in anyway? Do you feel relieved you told him even if he can't or won't return the same feelings? From my expirence with this like this, it is an ify thing to do. On one hand, it is good to let feelings out in the open, even if you know the other can't or won't return the feelings. On the other hand, it could compicate things. YOu have to know yourself, the perosn you are telling, and the person they are with (if they are with someone or trying to be with someone). If you think you all can handle it and it won't damage anything, then I feel it is better to get it out instead of keeping it bottled up. If you feel it will danage things in some aspect, maybe keep it semi-hidden at least until you are sure one way or the other. Well, you told him anyways. Have you given any thought as to what you will do now? Will you try to push to be with him even though he is obviously intrested with another? Will you pretend to back off but secretly be pining for him? Will you find a way to move on? Those are things to think about. It will be hurtful and even weird for a little bit between you teo, but if you really want to at least stay friends, you need to respect the fact that he has someone else. I don't mean just simply acknowledge the fact, but outwardly accept it and respect it. ok, Now I know i did the right thing. Last week(wednesday) he told me that the one girl rejected him.. And that it might not be so bad. He told me that now he can accept my love and return it to me. Then as I was leaving he told me he loved me. I think i did the right thing.
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Posted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 12:27 pm
I don't know how much it says about him that he had to wait to be rejected to realize he has feelings for you. There is a chance that he is still recovering from the rejection and thus thinks he loves you, or maybe just needs your attention. You did the right thing, in my opinion, but wait to see what happens before celebrating.
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Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 10:30 am
u deffinatly did the right thing but its complicated for him u just have to wait and see what happens
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 11:37 am
it's always the right thing to do.. to express your feelings.. no matter what anyone says.. I kinda did the same thing you did.. I recently told a guy i liked him.. though i called him.. and left a message on his voicemail.. still haven't gotten an answer from him.. but no matter what hte outcome comes out to be i know i did the right thing.. expressing yourself is what makes the world more interesting. you know?
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