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Urgh Mixed Feelings >.<

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anticupid16

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 09, 2013 1:22 am


So I have a friend. We're best friends. We've been best friends for a while. I'm bi-sexual, and she's known that since we started being friends. I've seen her progress from really really anti-man, to interested in celebrities, to hopeless romantic, and now she has established herself as asexual (meaning she basically isn't interested in sex at all, only romance) and biromantic. Right before our winter break started I started having feelings for her, and I was nervous because I wasn't sure how she'd take that.
As it would turn out, she took it well. I asked her out, and she was all for it. However, when we tried dating, it felt wrong. I was really excited to go out with her, and I really really do like her like that, but she wasn't acting any differently (I didn't really know what to expect honestly). We talked it over and decided we'd just stay friends. It's not weird now, but I'm kinda confused about my own feelings. :/
I guess what I'm getting at is I don't know what to think that one minute I was into her but then the next I wasn't, because that's not like me.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 28, 2013 10:44 pm


You are confused and the only way to not be confused in this situation is to talk to her about it more. Let it all out and be open. I suggest that you take some time to yourself think about what you really want.
Ask yourself..
Do I just want to have fun with her?
Do I just like her physical appearance?
Do I think about her a lot or not as much anymore?
Do I not see a future with her?
If you answered yes to any of these it's probably an infatuation.
Let time go by. If you still don't know be open and remember do some fun things for yourself because YOU do deserve to be happy. See if your feelings grow or they just fade away, if so; in fact you did have an infatuation and you and her may or may not be able to stay friends. Good luck sweetie! c:

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Fauho

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 13, 2013 4:26 pm


anticupid16


How did you fare with this? Are you alright?
PostPosted: Sat Apr 13, 2013 7:48 pm


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anticupid16


How did you fare with this? Are you alright?


My goodness I forgot I made this post. Recently I've asked her about the situation and it appears that she just wasn't sure what to think or feel and said a default "yes." Our friendship hasn't changed at all, and I've moved on for the most part, so I guess the outcome was better than to be expected.

anticupid16

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Fauho

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 14, 2013 1:10 pm


anticupid16
My goodness I forgot I made this post. Recently I've asked her about the situation and it appears that she just wasn't sure what to think or feel and said a default "yes." Our friendship hasn't changed at all, and I've moved on for the most part, so I guess the outcome was better than to be expected.


It does sound like a real good outcome, I'm glad. (:
PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 4:21 pm


anticupid16


Congrats hun.

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