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aren't mostnewmothers terrified ofthe samething?

You could live in the perfect house, in the perfect area, and be completely financially stable... and you'd probably still worry and freak out.

This is normal. You will get through this, and you will make it work.

The main advice I'd give, is to say take every day as it comes.
Your baby isn't here yet. Once she is here, if you breastfeed her, food is completely free for the first year! Babies should not really be given solid food before 6 months (I know a lot of people disagree, but this is going by meticulous scientific research, not weak personal anecdotes) and even after then, the only necessary food is the milk.
My ped. taught me a really good saying when I had my daughter, that "solid food under 1 is just for fun". All they really need to survive and flourish and be healthy for the first whole year is breastmilk.

A year is a long time. I'm sure by then you'll have all of your finances sorted and be able to provide for her just fine.

Same goes with providing a safer home environment; she won't be born crawling, and you can baby-proof and supervise as necessary as you go along. You don't need to have everything completely worked out and ready to go the moment she's born.
One day at a time. emotion_bigheart

Thank you so much for all the advice and support you guys. It is exactly what I needed to hear