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Koinu-tan

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 5:06 am


What's it like being gay? What's it like dating a guy? What's it like? What's it like? Seriously, it's all I truely know! I can't compare it to anything, so how can I tell someone what it's like? It's like me asking a guy "what's it like being straight?" I'm sick of it, just needed to rant. cat_neutral
PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 8:27 am


I can understand that it must be tiresome to answer the same questions over and over, but isn't it a good thing that these people are making an effort to understand? A lot of the homophobia and discrimination the LGBT community faces stems from ignorance, so even if you don't know how to answer the questions, I would still say it's encouraging that they're even being asked. 3nodding

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 10:21 am


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 10:32 am


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I mean, I'm glad they are taking an interest and not instantly discriminating, but it's always the questions I can't answer that they ask. I have no... as they say... "normal" love to compare mine too to answer them. I'm fine being asked questions about it, as long as I can answer them.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 10:43 am


I feel bad now, because I would be one of those people that goes "What's it like being gay?" I'm straight, and I cannot fathom why girls would be attracted to other girls. I can maybe understand why guys like other guys, because guys are awesome, though the mechanics of sex with the same gender elude me...  
PostPosted: Tue Dec 25, 2012 9:06 pm


Like the person above me said, its good that they are asking no matter how annoying it must get. I know a lot of people who as soon as they hear that someone is gay they act like they are disgusted by them. I always get irritated when my friends ask me for relationship help when I'm the only one who's never had a good relationship. It bugs me.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2012 4:21 am


Well, at least you're getting it out in a non negative way, little cuz. I've always been afraid you will hold all your anger in and it would break loose randomly like I did. I'm guessing that it's not the fact you're being questioned about being gay, but the fact you can't give a satisfactory answer to the people who ask it. I feel the same when people ask me "what's it like being a triplet?" It frustrates me because I have no idea what being part of any other kind of sibling hood is like. People are never satisfied with my answer because I can't compare, and I know you well enough to know that bothers you as well. You've never loved a girl, so you can't compare loving a guy to loving a girl.
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