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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:17 pm
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l me what exactly I am doing wrong
rob: My hands are soooo ******** up right now... me: Why?! rob: Multiple cuts, bruises, scars, blood, etc. plus my thumb... me: Meh you'll get calluses, it's just something you're going to have to put up with till you get them! manual labor man (four minutes later) me: p.s. can we have sex soon? i'm finally not on girly time anymore and i'm ordering my BC soon. like good sex with lots of foreplay and all that jazz. rob: I'm not answering that me: ...why? it's a serious question rob: I'm sure it is, and let me guess you're expecting me to give you a nice and happy "ya sure!" in response me: am i just not allowed to ask for sex anymore or... rob: like I said babe I'm not arguing today but you are really pushing me to the edge today me: All I did was ask to have sex what am I doing wrong rob: All I did was look for a lil sympathy and I got "meh" cause as usual it's all about you and what you want me: I'm sorry your hands hurt but I'm not that sympathetic? I mean mine hurt every day and I'm used to my dad coming home like that, like I said manual labor sucks but it'll get better...it's just cuts and scratches, I honestly do care that you're in pain but it's just nothing big, I guess I'm sorry that I didn't respond all sad and whatnot rob: K, like I said all about you me: idk Rob I think I'm done talking to you today I don't want to fight and you're in a mood where apparently everything I do is wrong. I'll text you in a few hours maybe I'm going with Jean to Philly to get her mom soon so i love you and bye.
tell me exactly what I'm doing wrong to warrant what just happened please
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 1:09 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 2:02 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 2:47 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 2:59 pm
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I agree that he was being kind of a b***h, but you guys need to realize that we are all human, we get our feelings hurt, and sometimes we just want some sympathy, even if it's just an "I'm sorry, babe". When you're in a relationship with someone, and they come to you with something that's hurting them, it would be more appropriate to give them a loving response, along with a logical one. Not just "Meh, you hurt." because clearly that is not the answer he was seeking.
Again, I do think he was being overly sensitive, but I also understand where he was coming from, and it's likely that you're not the only reason he was being overly sensitive. You should consider that being in pain does normally tend to make people on edge more than they normally would be, and that's a part of being human. Being caring is a part of being in a relationship.
If I were on my period cramping and I told me husband "I hurt" and he said something like "Meh, lots of girls hurt on their period" then I would be upset too. Because that's not the response I would have been looking for, I would have been looking for a little bit of sympathy.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 3:21 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 3:28 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 10:14 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 4:21 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 9:14 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 10:20 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 10:21 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 6:20 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 11:37 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2012 4:45 pm
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