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 Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 9:52 pm
Okay. I need help. First off I want to say I have NOTHING against homosexuals.
It's directed at the girls out there... preferably the straight girls (Because of what im refering to).... Is there a 'lesbian phase' you go through in around high school age? Cause if so then phew i can put my noose away and pray. If not.... then she's gone forever.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 9:59 pm
I'm not sure about that but there's a "Bi-smexial" phase.
But it's mostly hormones or signs of rebellion in some cases.
^ ^;;; *I don't make sense*
If you mean there's a girl you like, good luck!!! heart
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 10:01 pm
Emo Kuromi Nui I'm not sure about that but there's a "Bi-smexial" phase. But it's mostly hormones or signs of rebellion in some cases. ^ ^;;; *I don't make sense* If you mean there's a girl you like, good luck!!! heart I mean I'm in love with a girl and she just said she suddenly lost all attraction to men AND broke up with me.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 10:10 pm
Well many people go through different stages in sexuality. Maybe they are bisexual or trying to figure out their sexuality. Hormones are abundant at that age, not unusual for people in high school and college to explore their sexuality. I doubt she suddenly became a lesbian, possibly she wasn't sure or was scared and tried to hide it.
Sexuality is actually fluid and can change at least once in life, more likely in females. I recommend watching Bi The Way, it talks all about that and why some experts believe so.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 10:19 pm
Playboy Karasu Uchiha Well may people go through different stages in sexuality. Maybe they are bisexual or trying to figure out their sexuality. Hormones are abundant at that age, not unusual for people in high school and college to explore their sexuality. I doubt she suddenly became a lesbian, possibly she wasn't sure or was scared and tried to hid it. Sexuality is actually fluid and can change at least once in life, more likely in females. I recommend watching Bi The Way, it talks all about that and why some experts believe so. This is the closest answer to what ive been needing all day. Thanks, i can put my noose away now.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 12:07 am
The answer is YES! all of the girls i hung out with in high school, many of witch i still talk to to this day 7 some years later, all who clamed to have been "BI" grew out of it. well a few will still mess around with girls but at the end of the night they still have to go home to the kids
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 3:21 am
I didn't experience this at my high school but my fiancee has told me for his high school, it was the cool thing to claim to be bi or lesbian and they were only doing it to make guys drool. Unsure if that relates to your girl or not but figured I'd toss it out there just in case.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 1:17 pm
It depends. I nearly murdered someone for saying to my parents that "homosexuality is just a fad, people are doing it just to be cool". What? People get beaten and abused and they LIKE it because it's a fad? Um, no.
But at the same time, yes, there is a sub group of people in high school that just are confused, rebellious, etc and can't decide what they are. Just finished with a guy who was so convinced he's bi. Now he wants nothing to do with me because "eh, it was just a random urge. I'm straight."
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 1:33 pm
SilentVex I mean I'm in love with a girl and she just said she suddenly lost all attraction to men AND broke up with me. It doesn't matter if she's bisexual, lesbian or whatever- the important part of this whole thing is that she's not into you. People break up- whatever she identifies as has little to nothing to do with it- if she's not into you, stop trying to deminish her identity and orientation as a way to excuse your breakup. It happens. Move on.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 2:40 pm
I had a brief but intense questioning phase, but if she doesn't like guys then she is saying she doesn't like you either.
And about the noose thing, I don't think you should be so upset about it. She didn't like you enough to think she could be with you much more, do you really think you want to be in a relationship where your partner isn't happy? There will be someone you each find someday, but clearly you aren't meant for each other. "if you love her let her go, if she comes back she's yours, if she doesn't she never was."
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 3:13 pm
I don't believe that sexuality is fluid. She might have just used that as an excuse to soften the blow, or she might genuinely be in a state of discovery. I really doubt people can transform into lesbians over time, though.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 4:57 pm
Esiris SilentVex I mean I'm in love with a girl and she just said she suddenly lost all attraction to men AND broke up with me. It doesn't matter if she's bisexual, lesbian or whatever- the important part of this whole thing is that she's not into you. People break up- whatever she identifies as has little to nothing to do with it- if she's not into you, stop trying to deminish her identity and orientation as a way to excuse your breakup. It happens. Move on. And FTW
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