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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 10:13 am
And how often would you like to?
If you're not in a relationship, maybe answer the 2nd one as a 'how often would you like to see your SO if you had one?'.
Cross posting in Ladies and Gents because I'm wondering if there are obvious differences between genders as to the answer to these questions.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 10:16 am
Personally, I see my boyfriend every day. We live in the same house so it's kinda unavoidable. He literally lives upstairs to me. We share a kitchen and since we started buying groceries together to save money, we cook together most days. We also have the same core friendship group so nearly everything we do with friends, we do together as well. The only way we don't see each other is if we're out or away from the house. Oh and I guess when we're both working, but it always seems to be one of us working whilst the other chills in the same room. So at most, I didn't see him for four days when we both went home.
I'm not sure how often I'd like to see him. On the one hand, it's not like I dislike seeing him every day. But I wonder how healthy it is for our relationship in the long-term because it feels like we moved super fast. I mean we already live together. We've only been together just over a month. It feels like we've been together for so much longer though just because it's so constant. Yesterday we talked about how we should spend more time with other people instead of just us alone. The thing is, people inevitably leave us alone eventually and probably sooner than they would with other people, because they want to give us privacy even when we haven't asked for it or want it.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 11:02 am
I see my boyfriend basically every day. We go to the same school, have the same spare block at school, we take the same school bus, and we live only a 5 minutes walk from each other's house. I normally see him atleast 5 days a week.
As for how often I want to see him, I really depends on how I'm feeling. Sometimes I wish we would see each other significantly less, but other times I wish I could see him 24/7.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 11:16 am
Always on Mondays and Wednesdays because he picks me up from school so we can hang out, and other times during the week depending on if we have plans (and also if it's something we can invite each other to, like tonight he's going to my sister's with me to hang out for her birthday, and we also went there for my brother-in-law's birthday / Halloween party the Friday before Halloween, and tomorrow night we're going to see a friend for his birthday, etc.) We normally see each other about 4 or 5 days of the week, and I'm fine with that. We don't get tired of each other, and if we don't see each other for a little longer span of time we miss each other and say so, but it's not like "I NEEEEEED to see you augh" it's just that much nicer when we do finally hang out again.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 11:27 am
Couple of times a week, maybe. It's all good though
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 12:42 pm
Every day. We have band together four days a week and we always have dinner together.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 1:25 pm
During school: Everyday During summers/holidays: once a week.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 1:35 pm
I started dating my first boyfriend in highschool, so i saw him everyday. We also hung out with the same group so we saw each other a lot because of that as well. However, as friendship groups changed and he went onto university, we only saw each other maybe once a week. This is also because I'm pretty distant and I like having alone time. Correction, I love having alone time.
My current relationship is long distance lol, so y'know. I've met him once, and during that time we of course hung out 24/7. That is the downfall of long distance in my opinion. I want to see him, but it kinda blows that when we do see each other it has to be spent together for the entire time.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:23 pm
We live together so every day. Though I only get to see him mainly at night when I get home cause he's usually sleeping when I get up and leave for work.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:31 pm
Every day almost constantly. We only don't see each other when he's at work or we're in different classes.
We're both really asocial people so it works out for us. His friends will come over and hang out with us and they like me so it's fun. They think I'm chill and weird and funny which is good because I just thought I was awkward. XD My friends come over sometimes but I usually prefer my alone time. I only want to go out with him because nobody understands me like him so I end up extremely awkward.
I haven't spent a night without him since February. I prefer sleeping with him more than alone, too, so it works out. His house is hard to deal with sometimes but I've been doing fine with it so far.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:36 pm
Every day lol. Except he works 5 days a week 8 hours a day, and I work from home. It's nice though because I have time to work without distraction.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:38 pm
Every god damned day. ಠ_ಠ He never goes home.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:54 pm
19 hours a day at LEAST, every day.
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 5:32 pm
Obviously different because we're not in a committed relationship but maybe three times a week would be ideal. Any more and I'd worry about getting bored. I'm a pretty antisocial person a lot of the time so I'd get bored and drained being around him all the time.
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Quotable Conversationalist
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 7:10 pm
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