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Kalona Ayeliski

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Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 9:31 am

I just recently came out to the two people i wanted to and im scared to tell my father, oh btw im Male to Female Transgender. but i dont know how to tell my dad that, i dont want him to hate me or like never talk to me again. I'm really scared. crying crying crying

Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:14 pm

Maybe you could try and talk things and see his views on gays and stuff. ^^

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Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:03 pm

-hugs- i'm sure it'll be okay! test his feelings first if it really worries ya. not only for his standing on gay's but also on trans. most people who are ok with gay's are okay with trans and vice versa, but not everyone. some are only okay with one if any.

Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2011 1:16 am

Irie_Naoki_19

I just recently came out to the two people i wanted to and im scared to tell my father, oh btw im Male to Female Transgender. but i dont know how to tell my dad that, i dont want him to hate me or like never talk to me again. I'm really scared. crying crying crying

I have been there!
One thing, don't rush into it.
Just slip little hints when you talk to him and see how he reacts.
Really think of what you're going to say first and if he rejects you...it's his lost.
Because just admitting that to the rest of the world makes you a very strong person.
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Kalona Ayeliski

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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2011 4:08 am

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Irie_Naoki_19

I just recently came out to the two people i wanted to and im scared to tell my father, oh btw im Male to Female Transgender. but i dont know how to tell my dad that, i dont want him to hate me or like never talk to me again. I'm really scared. crying crying crying

I have been there!
One thing, don't rush into it.
Just slip little hints when you talk to him and see how he reacts.
Really think of what you're going to say first and if he rejects you...it's his lost.
Because just admitting that to the rest of the world makes you a very strong person.
3nodding

If you need to talk... you can PM me anytime.
I'm an FtM if you were wondering.

My significant other is Female to Male.

Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2011 4:27 pm

I'm not transgendered myself but I did see this great seminar at my college run by a female to male transgendered named Ryan cassada. You should look him up, he all over youtube and was on king leon and tyra and everything. Might give you some inspiration.

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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2011 4:32 pm

Like your case I recently (five days ago) came out to one of my good friends about being transgender, essentially like you a Male to Female. It was shaky at first but she was more than okay with it she was ecstatic to find out she now had a best friend that was a girl. But same as your case, I'm worried about telling my parents as they are highly against gay's and bisexuals. I feel like I;m running off of your post but that's my coming out story ._.;;

Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 1:51 am

I came out to my grandmother with a erratically written letter I had her read while at school. I tried coming out to my mom by wearing girl clothing in front of her basically...but she just thought -I- didnt realize what I was wearing...
Still have not come out to the rest of my family, though I go to school sometimes dressed as a girl, though everyone still refers to me as a boy.

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Kalona Ayeliski

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Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 11:20 am

Kojii Okumara

Like your case I recently (five days ago) came out to one of my good friends about being transgender, essentially like you a Male to Female. It was shaky at first but she was more than okay with it she was ecstatic to find out she now had a best friend that was a girl. But same as your case, I'm worried about telling my parents as they are highly against gay's and bisexuals. I feel like I;m running off of your post but that's my coming out story ._.;;

i've come out to one of my parents and some of my friends so far and well they were all really accepting. it was easier then i thought it would be. but if you want someone to talk to add me as a friend.

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