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 Posted: Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:05 pm
I just can't figure this out...
I have a girlfriend (hot) a nice paying job, my grades have finally stopped sucking and everyone seems to like me more,,, But I just can't help being depressed, and it pisses me off that I don't know why. Anyone care to poke around my personal life and find out?
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Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 9:24 am
I'm in the same spot to be honest! I've got a loving boy friend, good employment, and school is going well! But now and again, I feel a little down.
First of all, make sure you're not actually depressed. Not the "down in the dumps every now and again" kind of depressed. I mean, the "chemicals in my head are outta whack" kind! People with perfectly happy lives can get depressed. It's not your fault, or anyone else's. It's just the little doo dadds and thingamijigs in your noggin need a little medical tune up. However, don't misdiagnose yourself. Do a little research, and if you think there's a good chance, you might be, go see a doctor and ask, to be sure.
However, if actual depression isn't what your dealing with, don't worry! The case of the blues gets to all of us every now and again.
For example, maybe you're just bored. If that's the case, try filling out your spare time with things you like to do, or new hobbies! Maybe, take you're hot girlfriend out for an inexpensive day out on the town, window shopping and dining at family owned restaurants you've never been to before. Or maybe do some volunteer work. Adding a little spice is the difference between beans on a tortilla and a spicy burrito! And we all want a spicy burrito life, right?
Or maybe you're focusing a little of some life problems, and that's getting you down. Think for a second. Is there anything... ANYTHING at all, that could have you feeling a little down? No one's life is perfect. I'm not going to pry by guessing, but try to figure out if you have any problems you need to fix or need help fixing. If you can't fix it, try to look on the positive side, and turn it into something you can be happy about!
When all else fails, try talking with your family and friends about it. Maybe they can provide some answers that no one else can. After all, I have no idea who you are, or about the finer details of your life, so I can only give you a generic overview of what you can do. The people who know you better, however, can probably help you out a lot better than I can!
I hope this helps!
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