Well, let me start with the fact that I am a closet eclectic and beginning to work in witchcraft, and have been pagan for about three years. I say in the closet because I live with my Christian family, and they are wonderful but I feel that I should not tell them just yet because I do not want my personal choices to cause them stress. Now, on to the issue.
My grandmother died in 2000 after five years of fighting cancer, and my grandfather was a broken man after that. He lived to work on his farm (that has been in the family for generations), and for his three children (the middle child being my mother). We were very close with him, and even though we live three hours away by car we still used to visit often. He was very healthy, but always lonely...to the point of being desperate. He met, and soon after married, a woman his age who from the very start I, and the rest of my family, got a very bad feeling from. It started out that we just couldn't stand her because she never listened to a word anyone said and was worse at keeping a coherant conversation than our relative with Alzheimer's disease (note that this woman is health-wise perfectly normal, mentally and physically). I'm beginning to think that was just an act to get our guard down though.
As soon as she married my grandfather everything began changing for the worse on the farm. She forced my grandfather to take up her hours of going to bed at 7 in the evening and getting up at 2 in the morning, and take naps in between. He hardly gets work done, or gets to see anyone because of this schedual (mind you this is a man who has lived for about ten years just for work and his family). We barely got to see him anymore, and she got progressively more and more rude with us each time we visit. My grandfather, who before would have at least said something in defense of his only daughter, does nothing. His health is deteriorating quicker the more he time he spends around her, and now he is prone to anxiety, which he never has had a problem with in his life. He turned into a mindless drone basically overnight, and now has more heath issues than he ever had.
Recently I have found evidence that whenever my mother calls to try to talk to her father her calls, which used to always get answered, now are almost never returned (even if that woman picks up the phone she rarely ever gives him the message). Whenever my mother is on the line, this woman is more than likely eavesdropping, as she has been found doing on multiple occasions. We are never alone with my grandfather anymore. The most recent outrage was her destroying my uncle's entire corn field, which he needed to have food throughout the winter, because he unknowingly cut the tail off her favorite lamb (which is actually needed so the tail doesn't get dirty and attract flies, which will lay eggs that turn into maggots and eat the lamb alive).
She has done more things, but I don't want to make this any longer of a rant than it is. I am concerned for my relative's well being, and especially my grandfather's. A spell or ritual may be my last resort, as I believe that this woman has truly bad intentions. Even the nicest family members can no longer find any excuse for her actions other than that she is just a very selfish person. I do not want to use a curse or summon something I cannot control, but I need something that can help. If you believe in demons and the like, I'd say that there is a good chance she is a succubus (minus the looks). I need someone's honest, in depth advice on what to do, or at least a spell I can use that doesn't require much.
My grandmother died in 2000 after five years of fighting cancer, and my grandfather was a broken man after that. He lived to work on his farm (that has been in the family for generations), and for his three children (the middle child being my mother). We were very close with him, and even though we live three hours away by car we still used to visit often. He was very healthy, but always lonely...to the point of being desperate. He met, and soon after married, a woman his age who from the very start I, and the rest of my family, got a very bad feeling from. It started out that we just couldn't stand her because she never listened to a word anyone said and was worse at keeping a coherant conversation than our relative with Alzheimer's disease (note that this woman is health-wise perfectly normal, mentally and physically). I'm beginning to think that was just an act to get our guard down though.
As soon as she married my grandfather everything began changing for the worse on the farm. She forced my grandfather to take up her hours of going to bed at 7 in the evening and getting up at 2 in the morning, and take naps in between. He hardly gets work done, or gets to see anyone because of this schedual (mind you this is a man who has lived for about ten years just for work and his family). We barely got to see him anymore, and she got progressively more and more rude with us each time we visit. My grandfather, who before would have at least said something in defense of his only daughter, does nothing. His health is deteriorating quicker the more he time he spends around her, and now he is prone to anxiety, which he never has had a problem with in his life. He turned into a mindless drone basically overnight, and now has more heath issues than he ever had.
Recently I have found evidence that whenever my mother calls to try to talk to her father her calls, which used to always get answered, now are almost never returned (even if that woman picks up the phone she rarely ever gives him the message). Whenever my mother is on the line, this woman is more than likely eavesdropping, as she has been found doing on multiple occasions. We are never alone with my grandfather anymore. The most recent outrage was her destroying my uncle's entire corn field, which he needed to have food throughout the winter, because he unknowingly cut the tail off her favorite lamb (which is actually needed so the tail doesn't get dirty and attract flies, which will lay eggs that turn into maggots and eat the lamb alive).
She has done more things, but I don't want to make this any longer of a rant than it is. I am concerned for my relative's well being, and especially my grandfather's. A spell or ritual may be my last resort, as I believe that this woman has truly bad intentions. Even the nicest family members can no longer find any excuse for her actions other than that she is just a very selfish person. I do not want to use a curse or summon something I cannot control, but I need something that can help. If you believe in demons and the like, I'd say that there is a good chance she is a succubus (minus the looks). I need someone's honest, in depth advice on what to do, or at least a spell I can use that doesn't require much.