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Jade Sorrow

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Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 3:18 pm

Ok well I'll just get straight to the point. I've been dating this girl now for half a year and even though I love her and she treats me right I can't help but feel uncomfortable about the relationship. I can't talk to many people about It cause well... The only people I trusted are not talking to me because I understand they need to carry on with their own lives. Trust me all I want is someone to talk to someone I can come on to when I'm feeling down, someone to laugh with and joke around with. I just need a friend when I feel lonely. Heck I'm so confused at times I can't even write any more (I'm a poet) Anyways I'll take any advice I just really needed to let this out and If I need to explain the situation more trust me I will. Thanks... cry

Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 3:56 pm

Don't judge me.
Just love me.
I'm not a criminal, I'm innocent
So come and set me free!

The best advice I can give for this would be:
Talk to her about it. Maybe if she knew, she can help you feel more comfortable. Or, you both can change some things. But, it might just be that you're not completely attracted to her. If it's that, then maybe you both can try to move on.
Sometimes you can fix these things, and sometimes you can't. And if you just can't, there may be no other way. Just tell her softly, and make sure it doesn't sound like you're breaking up with her.. tell her that you need her help to try and fix some things. Then, give it some time... if it's still not working, tell her sweetly that it isn't working.

I hope you can fix it though... Best of luck! :3

I choose ecstasy.
And music's my religion.
Magic is my kingdom
And the dance floor is my heaven.

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Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 3:59 pm

Jade Sorrow

Ok well I'll just get straight to the point. I've been dating this girl now for half a year and even though I love her and she treats me right I can't help but feel uncomfortable about the relationship. I can't talk to many people about It cause well... The only people I trusted are not talking to me because I understand they need to carry on with their own lives. Trust me all I want is someone to talk to someone I can come on to when I'm feeling down, someone to laugh with and joke around with. I just need a friend when I feel lonely. Heck I'm so confused at times I can't even write any more (I'm a poet) Anyways I'll take any advice I just really needed to let this out and If I need to explain the situation more trust me I will. Thanks... cry

Is there like any reason you feel uncomfortable with the relationship though? Anything like bothering you that would make you feel that way?
p.s. feel free to pm me anytime you need to talk about somethin 3nodding

Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 4:12 pm

I'll pm you right nao. Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it.

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Niko Narshe

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Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 4:24 pm

Well i think you have to really think on what makes you uncomfortable in your relationship with her.Think,maybe something happened and you feel distant from her or maybe your doubting yourself which is another thing that comes to mind.

Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 4:34 pm

I'm not gonna bullshit you, I suck with relationship advice. If you're looking for someone to laugh and joke around with, or somebody to listen when you want to rant, just shoot a PM my way.

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